Every man needs a relationship

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I can agree that every man should be in at least one good relationship in their lifetime.

It teaches a man things he can't learn on his own. Some things you can only learn through experience.

 

[I'm Blackman]

The relationship they need is a healthy one with themselves. That's the most important one.

People out here looking for other people to find themselves, trying to fill their voids by focusing on others or hoping someone else will love them more than they love themself. It don't work that way.

 

[Lootha VanDraws]

Everybody's searching for a hero
People need someone to look up to
I never found anyone to fulfil my needs
A lonely place to be
And so I learned to depend on me

 

[Vandelay]

I didn't achieve a healthy relationship until my 30s...lol

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

The relationship they need is a healthy one with themselves. That's the most important one.

People out here looking for other people to find themselves, trying to fill their voids by focusing on others or hoping someone else will love them more than they love themself. It don't work that way.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

It's a dice roll either way. Different people learn in different ways. Some people have to be in messed up situations in order to get the catalyst they need to grow. It's pretty much the same as thinking you'll only have children when you're ready. There's no such thing.

If you're gonna learn to swim you're gonna have to get in the pool. No avoiding it.

Boom

 

[MoveForward]

Yes but you should cheat on that b1tch every chance you get.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

How do you buy an relationship? I know you can buy causal sex, but relationships?

I was trying to hurry to the bus stop and had my hood on

A Goose almost attacked me

Lol and earlier in the day with all the Goose around my job I thought to myself...what do Geese taste like and searched it on google

 

[Seoul Gleou]

no. every man needs inner peace and self-confidence. a lot of men have fragile egos and that can be enhanced or destroyed by relationships

 

[Finesse]

Everyman needs to tackle their demons and find zen

Putting your happiness and sense of self/worth in the hands of another human being is a recipe for disaster

Ironically enough thats what alot of women do

 

[mortuus est]

im a firm believe in that not everyone will find love, its just the truth
with that said

being in a loving relationship is one of the best feelings

 

[93 til]

No, Every man needs a GENUINE relationship.

Paying for a relationship is not a cop out.

You need to feel the genuine warmth and touch of a woman.

The look in her eyes when she puts her life in your hands.

The feeling of strength you get from her dependence on you and the guidance you are supposed to provide to her.



shyt hits different when you have a woman who loves you and cares about you

This.

I do feel like prioritizing is key. When you personally are in a good space mentally, spiritual and financially that's when you can divert your attention to another. If not, then it's an uphill climb.

Sex is sex and it's really not that hard to get from either party but being in a relationship with a girl that's on the same wavelength is something else

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

It's a dice roll either way. Different people learn in different ways. Some people have to be in messed up situations in order to get the catalyst they need to grow. It's pretty much the same as thinking you'll only have children when you're ready. There's no such thing.

If you're gonna learn to swim you're gonna have to get in the pool. No avoiding it.

Touché..
But you just don’t jump into the pool without resources and proper tools..
That’s how muthafukkas drown..
That’s why it’s imperative to listen..
And observe others..
In your personal circle..
Jayz went through it..
So you wouldn’t have to..
A wise man learns from others mistake..
Takes notes..
Contemplate..
Refine..
Then applies the knowledge learned..
Look..
My pops wasn’t in my life..
But I had OGs guiding me..
But even still..
I was a hard head..
So I learned a lot of tough lessons on my own..
Especially with women..
But if I had taken just a small percentage of what they were telling me..
I could have saved a lot of heart ache until I got myself right...
Arbitrarily getting in a relationship..
To learn..
Is no bueno..
And that’s were we disagree..
The relationships you develop..
Be it..
Romantic..
Friendships..
Cordial..
What have you..
Are truly your reflection and manifestation of oneself..
That’s why the first love is the toughest..
You both are idealistic..
Impressionable..
Think you have all the answers..
And just want to be with each other..
But if you notice..
Those relationships rarely have strong foundations..
And are purely built off emotions and what makes you feel good..
As the years go on..
People use that first high..
To measure every new relationship..
Dragging in baggage that they hid deep down inside..
Never truly learning what the fukk happened..
Not assessing..
Reflecting..
Anything but still complain about ain’t shytness..
When a relationship is done right..
It’s a beautiful thing..
But just doing it for novelty and learning..
Nah..
That’s how you get fukked up..
Jaded and Bitter..
Because you didn’t take the time to cultivate yourself..
Loving yourself first..
Will keep you from the pain..
You know what and who..
You will tolerate..
But if you don’t..
And said person is dealing with some strong issues..
Thinking “experience” with a woman will fix you..
Get ready for hours upon hours of therapy..
Or..
Long nights of drinking and suicidal thoughts..
Been there..
Done that..
So you wouldn’t have to

 

[Spectre]

The relationship they need is a healthy one with themselves. That's the most important one.

People out here looking for other people to find themselves, trying to fill their voids by focusing on others or hoping someone else will love them more than they love themself. It don't work that way.

Is today Sunday?

Cuz somebody is preaching in this thread