Every Time I Sleep With A Girl...

[MJ Freedom]

Six months heartache for every year of the affair.

Soooo do the math Breh.

This is not something you can avoid so just wait it out.

Stop being an azzhole with the POF smuts. If they are texting you afterward then you gave them the impression that it was a possibility that you would see them again. This is called lying. If you wanna just fukc one time, be honest about that.. perhaps your success rate would drop but Karma, She's undefeated.

I never lied though... maybe a lie of omission. I never explicitly told anyone I was interested in a relationship. But I am worried about the karma of it all, so I'm gonna take your advice.

 

[ellessij]

It takes time. Sex and love aren't the same thing; can't use one to replace the other. I hope you feel better soon

 

[MJ Freedom]

a) post some of your pof game
b) have you tried working things out with your ex?
c) is she seeing someone else? maybe she has the same feelings?

A) I have no POF "game" per se but I'll tell you exactly what I do and how it has "worked" for me... I just work the numbers game. I literally send maybe 100 messages all with the simple variation of "How are you?" "How are you doing?" or "How's it going" or whatever like that. I always send the messages to girls who are online at the moment though, it's the best chance of getting a response. One chick I met up with (who didn't let me hit ) showed me the messages she had, and she had gotten something like 45 fukking messages in the two hours she and I were hanging out, and she's an average looking broad in picture (and a little less good looking in person, but only because she clearly put on weight since she took the pics) so I know these girls gotta be getting tons of messages on the daily. And I just figure there's no real point in wasting my time making elaborate messages suited to their profiles when it's just not reasonable to expect for everyone of my messages to be read anyway. I'm a pretty good looking dude (humble brag) but I'm not incredible looking or anything, but I know if a girl responds to me it's probably just because she's attracted to how I look, and I go from there. My profile literally is one sentence so it's not like I've put any real effort into this. I'm a good conversationalist through text though and a lot better in person... so I know if I can get a girl one-on-one with me I can at the very least build up her attraction if not hit that day. Sorry for such a long-winded response though.

B) We tried working things out, or I really should say she tried giving me a "second chance" I guess. The only reason I didn't just completely forget about her and try to move on immediately is because I realize that by the way I was acting I basically forced her to break up with me. I don't even think she wanted to to be honest but I was involved in all kinds of fukkery.

C) She's not with anyone else as far as I know, but I haven't kept any types of tabs on her. I do know she was sending shots at me on Facebook (one of our mutual friends told me) a few weeks after we broke up but I didn't really care. I didn't talk to her for a month but I hit her up a couple of days ago and she basically was like "You hurt me and I don't see a reason for us to speak" so I fell back.

 

[MikelArteta]

stop trying to use women and sex to fill a void.

its just the same as using alcohol and drugs, you feel good while doing it then crap afterwards.

work on yourself and then you'll be at a good spot

 

[MJ Freedom]

stop trying to use women and sex to fill a void.

its just the same as using alcohol and drugs, you feel good while doing it then crap afterwards.

work on yourself and then you'll be at a good spot

Never made the correlation before, but this makes a lot of sense.

 

[MikelArteta]

B) We tried working things out, or I really should say she tried giving me a "second chance" I guess. The only reason I didn't just completely forget about her and try to move on immediately is because I realize that by the way I was acting I basically forced her to break up with me. I don't even think she wanted to to be honest but I was involved in all kinds of fukkery.

C) She's not with anyone else as far as I know, but I haven't kept any types of tabs on her. I do know she was sending shots at me on Facebook (one of our mutual friends told me) a few weeks after we broke up but I didn't really care. I didn't talk to her for a month but I hit her up a couple of days ago and she basically was like "You hurt me and I don't see a reason for us to speak" so I fell back.

STOP blaming yourself.

Stop marinating on the why's and focus on teh what

the what is that it's over, the why it happaned doesn't matter. Once you focus on teh what occoured and stop on the why it happened you will heal quicker.

C) who cares what she si doing or who she is with. She's your ex not your current girl, it's good you are keeping no tabs on her, I hope you blocked and dleeted her from facebook. As well tell your mutual friends to stop giving you information. All information does is set you back.

And stop texting her nothing good will come out of it.

 

[Gus Money]

If you're thinking about your ex during sex that's a clear sign you need to take some time to yourself, breh. Trying to replace an ex too fast will have you caught up in a new cycle of bullshiit and frustration before you know it. Just take some time to yourself.

 

[MJ Freedom]

If you're thinking about your ex during sex that's a clear sign you need to take some time to yourself, breh. Trying to replace an ex too fast will have you caught up in a new cycle of bullshiit and frustration before you know it. Just take some time to yourself.

Time to myself with no p*ssy though?

 

[Gus Money]

Time to myself with no p*ssy though?

Would you rather keep having sex and keep being distracted with thoughts of you ex? That sounds like torture. It doesn't even sound like you're enjoying the puss, breh.

 

[HoloGraphic]

It's just hard for me to place value in a woman who doesn't value her body enough to not give it to a guy who she has known for less than a full day. I know it's hypocritical from the standpoint that I'm fukking her and have known her for the same amount of time, but, hey it is what it is. Realistically speaking though I do realize that it's a short-sighted view to take though but I do respect self control/discipline.

You're a higher quality male. Most men are scum. As long as she and I both know I'm the better choice for her then.

If not then peace to ya

 

[Taadow]

It's just hard for me to place value in a woman who doesn't value her body enough to not give it to a guy who she has known for less than a full day. I know it's hypocritical from the standpoint that I'm fukking her and have known her for the same amount of time, but, hey it is what it is. Realistically speaking though I do realize that it's a short-sighted view to take though but I do respect self control/discipline.

Edit - fucc what I posted. You can feel how you want, it doesn't matter what I say.

 

[tater]

What's so funny? Don't laugh at that man's pain...