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I was kinda with u till u contradicted the hell out yourself at the end :dahell:

U basically said all those rules apply for dudes who don't check your boxes but if he does you'd make an "exception"

So the dude who invite u over right away is doing himself a favor by seeing early on if he "checks your boxes".

Just like u women don't like being second place or worse neither do we unless ironically we just want to smash which is exactly what u hope to avoid. Quiet as kept one of the reasons men rush to the p*ssy is because we know if we were a guy u were really feeling it wouldn't be an issue. So we find out early on so if that isn't the case we can stop wasting both our times.

It's ok to ask questions for clarity...unless you're just grandstanding in here.

First of all, I am not going to even entertain a guy that I am not attracted to/remotely interested in getting to know.

Please don't behave as if there isn't that one person that can light an intense fire within, who you have an all consuming interest in, one that excites you just at the sound of their voice. This is the type of person I am referencing. Every man & woman has experienced that one so quit being uptight about my comment.

A guy rushing to p*ssy doesn't faze me because ultimately the choice is all mine. He can ask within 2 hours of meeting me or in 2 months.
Hell, I could have wanted to within 2 days but his actions may have changed my mind. LOL, just teasing and being facetious with you.
 

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Y'all should just be honest and share your experiences of all the relationships you ruined due to your character flaws or moral deficits :yeshrug:
:mjlol::stopitslime:You r dumb

I have shared multiple experiences - negative and positive; the good and the bad; I’m not one to sugarcoat or front on shyt. If I have something to say it’s bc I’ve experienced it or know people who have. It’s called acquring wisdom and knowledge. Other women get mad at me bc I tell it like it is - No filter. Check my post history since Feb 2018 until present, then get at me
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:mjlol::stopitslime:You r dumb

I have shared multiple experiences - negative and positive; the good and the bad; I’m not one to sugarcoat or front on shyt. If I have something to say it’s bc I’ve experienced it or know people who have. It’s called acquring wisdom and knowledge. Other women get mad at me bc I tell it like it is - No filter. Check my post history since Feb 2018 until present, then get at me
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Oh ok then I commend you. Y'all females never talk about your slut seasons :comeon:
 

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Wasn't there just an article about women using men for alot times just for free food and entertainment??:mjlol:

The fukk you expect??? obviously the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
Using men for food and entertainment is bum behavior, you setting yourself up when you do that dumb shyt.
 

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Oh ok then I commend you. Y'all females never talk about your slut seasons :comeon:
Who is “y’all”?? I’m not any “average” female
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That’s part of your problem. stop letting basics, sluts ; along with mentally and emotionally devalued females be representatives of women.
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I’m not perfect, no one is, difference is I can accept my mistakes and setbacks as ways to improve and evolve. Instead of trying to shame and blame everyone else into acceptance.
 

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Extroverted women are a mental drain and they dont appreciate long term relationships or the simpler things in life. Attention whores get bored too easily and they just leech off of men.
Those are the type that have a constant need for outside validation, part of the reasons why they stay out in the street- need that ego fed or always some other man on standby.
 
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I hate for a man to ask if he come over/invite me over too soon as it's often a huge red flag - 'biggest payout w/little to no effort'.
However, and quite honestly, my mind can be changed if I met the one that checks off my boxes. Even then I want the opportunity to invite him over first.

i've found that guys kinda play themselves when they play the inside game as soon as possible.

one time i was cool with the inside game, like ...really cool with it and didn't want much else so i decided to keep it casual. i guess later the guy realized i was cooler than he thought and started wanting to go to restaurants, hookah lounges, old school nights, meet my friends at the bbq, road trips, etc.
i was like naw we can still do the inside game lol :yeshrug: then he would make pouty remarks "i be trying to take you out...when we gonna go camping...when am i gonna meet your friends..:huhldup:

another guy i met out we exchanged numbers, cool. he asked to come over that same night :stopitslime:
told him i wasn't that easy, then the next morning he was like can i come over for breakfast :comeon:
I lost interest, communication stalled. he was like "did i scare you off".. i was like "yep"
now he be asking "let's go out, since you don't want to be alone with me"
i be like, maybe some other time :pachaha:

first impressions are important lol
 

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I'm a homebody myself but yall cant have these h0es sitting in the crib with you all day chilling. Take her out to do some new sh1t, you will be clapping those cheeks by the end of the night.
 

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What are some things you like to do OP?
The answers to this question should have been incorporated into her original post. I don’t understand how you could have a complaint without putting your own merits out there.
 
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