Everyman I come across online is a....

[Oatmeal]

I love being outside, but I don't like to spend money

I go to parks, walk on the beach, etc. All the cliche stuff that women say they'd like but in reality they don't be on it. I took a girl on a walk in the state park once and told her to bring good comfortable shoes and we would be out for a couple of hours, we went 1 mile and she was talking about she was tired and ready to leave.The original plan was 5 miles. So unless the woman is physically active don't take them on walks brehs

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Don’t like no outside bytch I like a homebody

Hard to trust em

Its only a matter of time until they entertain a conversation or do something stupid

Unless youre REALLY ballin

Which i am not

But seriously...if a woman, or anyone for that matter, has to constantly be on the move or doing some shyt then something is wrong with them and its just a matter of time until the fuze runs out.

I go out and have fun from time to time but i can easily go a month staying at home other than 1. Working 2. Working out 3. Getting gas or 4. Getting groceries

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

never did online or app dating. i meet guys out and when we meet up we go out lol

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Just a trick to get you to lay up on the couch with them.

 

[ben anderson]

never did online or app dating. i meet guys out and when we meet up we go out lol

Just a trick to get you to lay up on the couch with them.

Why do y’all always need to be doing something? Like seriously I’ve never had a single woman in my life who could just cool it in the house and relax for extended periods of time. Y’all always moving or going on stupid “errands”. I can stay in my house for a week without feeling the need to go out or do anything.

 

[seabreeze80]

I ran into the same thing back when I was online dating. Almost every single profile said "laid back" or "homebody." No interests or hobbies listed or anything. Quickly found out that online dating wasn't for me.

 

[Geek Nasty]

homebody.
What’s up with that? Is that code for I dont plan on taking you out on dates? Or They got a girl they are hiding?

I don’t recall this being the case when I was online dating before.

These men stay being boring ass hell.

Your broke ass planning on paying? No? Then stfu

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Why do y’all always need to be doing something? Like seriously I’ve never had a single woman in my life who could just cool it in the house and relax for extended periods of time. Y’all always moving or going on stupid “errands”. I can stay in my house for a week without feeling the need to go out or do anything.

you assume. i stay home all the time, even for work. my friends joke about me being in my "cave" all the time. maybe yall like being home to relax because yall forced to go out for most of the day on a daily basis. maybe they like to be out because they are couped up in a office building somewhere for the majority of the day.
me, i never have to leave other than to get food, so if i'm going to socialize i'm not going to stay inside lol

not saying that i don't have company over or go to someone's house.... but when i do it's usually to pregame or eat.... but then we go out

 

[godliness]

Wasn't there just an article about women using men for alot times just for free food and entertainment??

The fukk you expect??? obviously the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Women who can't chill at the crib sometimes always single. They always gotta be out, being seen somewhere.

With that said I do meet women outside the 1st meet up to see if I even like her like that.
And it's always for drinks only, we don't do dinner dates with strangers

2nd meet up is usually at her crib if the 1st date went as planned
I can easily spot a chick who is about to waste my time so I never do multiple dates without smashing first

yall brehs gotta learn the game unless you just like going on endless dates with chicks who you probably won't even talk to in a couple of months....and she getting what she want out the deal Date 1, your attention and entertainment....while she dating other dudes and one of em hitting that so that's why she can go on 5 dates with you and not give it up.

I can see why dudes would rather get prostitutes but that's cuz your strategy with regular women has no direction and you let her lead the way.

 

[Taadow]

homebody.
What’s up with that?

- home is where our stuff is
- men don't generally like the idea of "dating", some are just making it plain now

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Honestly OP, you might be boring, unattractive or both. Any man who thinks a woman is worth his salt will take her out at least once. Or, as it has been pointed out, these guys are more than likely not very social since they’re using online dating.

I mean, I used tinder years back, and maybe half of the time, the ladies on there invited me straight to theirs. The other time, we arranged a time and place to go out.

But yeah, most homebodies are going to use dating apps. It’s just the logistics of things.

 

[Serious]

Waste money on u and u won't be around in a couple months.....yea I'm good on that....what's ur convo game like? It consist of social media and reality shows..ppl at work "hating on u"?...U know what the Metu Meter is? 42 laws of Maat? ..or u just binge watch Netflix shows?. Can I talk to u bout the benefits of Pu erh tea....U take pics of everything u eat and post It on social media.Can I do yoga with u by using YouTube vids or do I need to waste money going to a yoga studio....if I see potential ill make the effort...if all u bringing is p*ssy and expectations good luck to ya.....

Rep this is why I'm cool on dating for now.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Meet someone outside instead of online, problem solved

I should really be charging for my services

 

[Serious]

I ran into a couple of those in my online dating experiences, one dude got mad because I wouldn’t come to his house “he doesn’t believe in spending money” I said okay, I don’t think we will be compatible (not because of the money part but he legit invited me to his place). But I’ve been on a few dates with guys who didn’t have this issue.

Nothing wrong with being a homebody but I’m not compatible with someone who thinks getting to know me needs to involve us at his house. Peace.

I'm a homebody, but i actually take women i like on real dates. The problem is finding a woman, that i see worthy of seriously dating. If the only thing I'm benefiting from entertaining someone is sex, then thats a hard pass for me.