Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

™BlackPearl The Empress™

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Been over relationships. As a woman this is what men want:

1. They want to be admired yet have nothing about them that's admirable

2. Want to "lead" yet have no track record if good leadership and a history of poor decisions

3. Want you to submit but never have a plan outside of just telling you what to do

4. Want children but don't even support proper natal health care and don't expect to actually help with the children

5. Want you do vast amounts of free labor while also contributing half the bills

6. Expect you to look good as they grow a fat belly

7. Want you to be happy with the ED

8. Don't want you to have success that doesn't benefit

9. Constantly need their ego stroked

10. Have to walk on egg shells constantly because they are so easily offended

11. Expect you to have no boundaries and constantly testing yours

12. Want your to put aside your needs to cater to them.

13. Want you to take an interest in the things they like but won't exchange the favor

14. Want you to their emotional dumpster but can't give you the same in return

15. Want to be sexist then expect you play mommy

16. Want to be stingy even when they have money

17. Expect you to tolerate their bad behavior for life because they did one thing for you.

Etc etc etc

And in exchange you get...what? Half the bills pays and maybe some dikk that's only decent less than 50% of the time.

The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.

Friendships are way more fulfilling at this point.

Relationships are basically a really shytty job that have little to no benefits.
 

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I think it's funny how you can give it but can't take it.

You wanna make comments about my coochie but then cry when I talk about your drug issues.

YOU quoted me. And you're not cordial. You're rude with you're nasty little side comments.

I'm not your girlfriend to tolerate your slick little mouth.

Don't quote me until you learn basic conversation skills. I wasn't even talk to you.

Anyone in DC who talked crazy to me got handled. Not sure why you think you deserve better treatment.

Check yourself sir.
Hey if you call yourself just roasting me fine.

I’m not offended We don’t joke.

All I know is that you’re kind of the loyal opposition on the board as far as Coli Red pill or Black pilled shyt.

That’s actually a good thing. I disagree with you but you don’t see me shytting on you as a person.


The deal is we’re two sides of the same coin Back home I was kinda doing the red pilled version of what you advocated as Living apart Together

As red pilled as I am I think although that’s what a lot of people are doing actually the nuclear family is the way to go

Just like people question Why do I care? Since I’m here in Colombia "living it up"

I care the same way you care Because deep down we both want the best for Black People. That’s got to be the only reason you post here and not only hear the complaints about Black women and the praise for non Black woman but the personal attacks.


If you really got a problem with me If you don’t quote me. I wont

If you want to roast me as some crackhead down here that’s cool.

But when stripper shyt comes up and I talk about my Hoe Bones theories I’m gonna at you because maybe just maybe you could provide some insight.

You tell me how to handle it.

I damn near think of you as a divestor but you go to Coli Meet ups so clearly despite what you say you love Black Men.

It’s the same for me. Maybe I sound like Tommy on here but I love Black women.
 

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Been over relationships. As a woman this is what men want:

1. They want to be admired yet have nothing about them that's admirable

2. Want to "lead" yet have no track record if good leadership and a history of poor decisions

3. Want you to submit but never have a plan outside of just telling you what to do

4. Want children but don't even support proper natal health care and don't expect to actually help with the children

5. Want you do vast amounts of free labor while also contributing half the bills

6. Expect you to look good as they grow a fat belly

7. Want you to be happy with the ED

8. Don't want you to have success that doesn't benefit

9. Constantly need their ego stroked

10. Have to walk on egg shells constantly because they are so easily offended

11. Expect you to have no boundaries and constantly testing yours

12. Want your to put aside your needs to cater to them.

13. Want you to take an interest in the things they like but won't exchange the favor

14. Want you to their emotional dumpster but can't give you the same in return

15. Want to be sexist then expect you play mommy

16. Want to be stingy even when they have money

17. Expect you to tolerate their bad behavior for life because they did one thing for you.

Etc etc etc

And in exchange you get...what? Half the bills pays and maybe some dikk that's only decent less than 50% of the time.

The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.

Friendships are way more fulfilling at this point.

Relationships are basically a really shytty job that have little to no benefits.
:lupe:
 

™BlackPearl The Empress™

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Hey if you call yourself just roasting me fine.

I’m not offended We don’t joke.

All I know is that you’re kind of the loyal opposition on the board as far as Coli Red pill or Black pilled shyt.

That’s actually a good thing. I disagree with you but you don’t see me shytting on you as a person.


The deal is we’re two sides of the same coin Back home I was kinda doing the red pilled version of what you advocated as Living apart Together

As red pilled as I am I think although that’s what a lot of people are doing actually the nuclear family is the way to go

Just like people question Why do I care? Since I’m here in Colombia "living it up"

I care the same way you care Because deep down we both want the best for Black People. That’s got to be the only reason you post here and not only hear the complaints about Black women and the praise for non Black woman but the personal attacks.


If you really got a problem with me If you don’t quote me. I wont

If you want to roast me as some crackhead down here that’s cool.

But when stripper shyt comes up and I talk about my Hoe Bones theories I’m gonna at you because maybe just maybe you could provide some insight.

You tell me how to handle it.

I damn near think of you as a divestor but you go to Coli Meet ups so clearly despite what you say you love Black Men.

It’s the same for me. Maybe I sound like Tommy on here but I love Black women.
Not reading. Don't care.

I'm blocking you. Tired of you running behind me in every thread.

Hope the fentanyl doesn't get you.

I can't with you lonely weirdos who need somebody to listen to your dumb opinions.

Have a great day
 
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™BlackPearl The Empress™

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Y’all stay dating the wrong men then blame it on all men.
The last man I dated was a doctor who specialized in medical logistics and infectious disease.

Do ya'll ever have original talking points or is there an excel sheet where you guys just copy and paste answers?

PS

18. They attempt to trivialize your experience but expect you to sympathize with theirs
 

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Why are you dating/looking for single mothers :dahell:
That's all these brehs qualify for. They scared to approach the women they truly desire because they scared of rejection or what some other man did for her or is doing to her currently. So they go for the ones they constantly gripe and complain about. But water seeks its own level.
 

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We have a friend going through a divorce at 45. He has been dating the past few months and hates it.

It’s so bad he said he would take his wife back after she cheated on him with a coworker.

He said had he known how shytty the dating pool was he would have just said fukk it and not blown up.

That tells me everything about dating in 2025. I hug my husband tight every night. He isn’t perfect but I’ll be damned.


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The last man I dated was a doctor who specialized in medical logistics and infectious disease.

Do ya'll ever have original talking points or is there an excel sheet where you guys just copy and paste answers?

PS

18. They attempt to trivialize your experience but expect you to sympathize with theirs
Your first point of failure: thinking that there is some sort of correlation between a man’s career and how good he is.

Girl, what world do you live in???
 
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