Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

Mashal88

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I got through about 19 pages in here before I saw someone acknowledge the thread became strictly about bashing women when it was about men and women in general above the age of 30.

I think a lot of times us dudes don't want to address areas where we have erred and what we can improve on. In that regard..a lot of dudes sound just like women blaming men for their relationship failures.

We're all coming in with baggage. Work on yaself and find women who are doing the same, so your next relationship doesn't end up a failure.
 

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The amount of ass I got when I was 25 (hooptie with a broken muffler, living check to check, hood adjacent studio apt.) was ungodly.
I don't say that to brag. Every dude I knew was deep in some ass, often more than one. It was pure sport fukking.
I'm talking late 90's-early 2000s
I'm talking bringing them home from the club. Spring breakers. Tourists. "Girls weekend in Miami." Co-workers. Classmates. Friend of a friend. Randoms. Bussdowns. Community hoes. fukked the whole crew. Party Line. AOL/MySpace.
It was normal behavior.
Little by little the babies started popping out while the rest of us got burnt out/grew up

It's sad young bucks aren't having the same experience we did.
I've told how I bagged a MySpace broad in Orlando. Drove up there, hit, drove back home and went to work.
For real they're not getting ass on Tik Tok and snapchat?

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Men now are paying the price of what previous generations of men did in the past...somehow yall can't seem to make that connection....it's over
 

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The amount of ass I got when I was 25 (hooptie with a broken muffler, living check to check, hood adjacent studio apt.) was ungodly.
I don't say that to brag. Every dude I knew was deep in some ass, often more than one. It was pure sport fukking.
I'm talking late 90's-early 2000s
I'm talking bringing them home from the club. Spring breakers. Tourists. "Girls weekend in Miami." Co-workers. Classmates. Friend of a friend. Randoms. Bussdowns. Community hoes. fukked the whole crew. Party Line. AOL/MySpace.
It was normal behavior.
Little by little the babies started popping out while the rest of us got burnt out/grew up

It's sad young bucks aren't having the same experience we did.
I've told how I bagged a MySpace broad in Orlando. Drove up there, hit, drove back home and went to work.
For real they're not getting ass on Tik Tok and snapchat?

:to:
Funny this a Miami breh because the timelines are different (Im mid 00s outta school) but this tracks almost exactly how me and my boys got down..
Starting on partyline in early 00s, getting reps in and probably going to mall..
Playing ball and throwing parties in high school then to college (was just talking to @DonB90 yesterday about how legendary Famu is and how it is dam near heaven for a young breh, just that alone changed brehs lives leaving miami, we used to be on i10 every other week and linking with boys throwing parties)
Go from house parties to promoting at club spots, get a market blast program for myspace to promote and we see we can blast it anyway we like. (this program basically forced them to use captcha lol) This ALONE made number go up, imagine someone using myspace like tinder and you the only one, the response rate was CRAZYYY and on myspace you could search by zip code, sex, age range, body type, ethnicity etc. So we literally would be like give me every 20-25 yo athletic build black women and just send blast of hey you look familiar? Would have dates lined up for weeks it became a part time job dam near :mjlol:)

By early 2010s you could actually feel the winds changing, but say, by mid 2010s game changed, tinder was up (that first wave was crazyyy) IG was popping and they made changes to algorithm from chronological, now the avg girl could build following and have access to any and every, stripper culture was kinda mainstream and created a bunch of Im in luv with a stripper/buy you a drink simps on OD. That was major glitch, that was time my boys who were in relationships would be like im about to bush this bytch and expecting a cosign cuz i was single one and Im telling them if ya can work it out, keep her cuz aint shyt in these streets dawg.. They was like :ohhh: I wasnt expecting that breh, we can get the boats and jetskis like old times, Im like breh you dam near :flabbynsick: status, game done changed and these girls is more savage than the brehs.. Dont even waste ya time.. :pachaha:

Now after that you got Covid, they will probably talk about the true affects in a few years time, I think it is being underestimated.. tiktok with the greatest algorithm ever known to social media got these girls more cooked than ever..
 

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Funny this a Miami breh because the timelines are different (Im mid 00s outta school) but this tracks almost exactly how me and my boys got down..
Starting on partyline in early 00s, getting reps in and probably going to mall..
Playing ball and throwing parties in high school then to college (was just talking to @DonB90 yesterday about how legendary Famu is and how it is dam near heaven for a young breh, just that alone changed brehs lives leaving miami, we used to be on i10 every other week and linking with boys throwing parties)
Go from house parties to promoting at club spots, get a market blast program for myspace to promote and we see we can blast it anyway we like. (this program basically forced them to use captcha lol) This ALONE made number go up, imagine someone using myspace like tinder and you the only one, the response rate was CRAZYYY and on myspace you could search by zip code, sex, age range, body type, ethnicity etc. So we literally would be like give me every 20-25 yo athletic build black women and just send blast of hey you look familiar? Would have dates lined up for weeks it became a part time job dam near :mjlol:)

By early 2010s you could actually feel the winds changing, but say, by mid 2010s game changed, tinder was up (that first wave was crazyyy) IG was popping and they made changes to algorithm from chronological, now the avg girl could build following and have access to any and every, stripper culture was kinda mainstream and created a bunch of Im in luv with a stripper/buy you a drink simps on OD. That was major glitch, that was time my boys who were in relationships would be like im about to bush this bytch and expecting a cosign cuz i was single one and Im telling them if ya can work it out, keep her cuz aint shyt in these streets dawg.. They was like :ohhh: I wasnt expecting that breh, we can get the boats and jetskis like old times, Im like breh you dam near :flabbynsick: status, game done changed and these girls is more savage than the brehs.. Dont even waste ya time.. :pachaha:

Now after that you got Covid, they will probably talk about the true affects in a few years time, I think it is being underestimated.. tiktok with the greatest algorithm ever known to social media got these girls more cooked than ever..
Pure facts. We ain't know how good we had it. I feel sorry for these young boys to you got 20 year old mutts you never met in real life actually wanting a nikka to fly them out.talking bout "applying pressure" :mjlol: ...this type of shyt was unheard of pre 2010s.


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Men now are paying the price of what previous generations of men did in the past...somehow yall can't seem to make that connection....it's over
How come I didn't pay the price in my 20's for what previous generations did?
I heard it from every old head how the 70s and 80s were one big ass orgy
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Just speak from your experience thats it

For a old guy like me and dating 35- 45 year old women in the LA area and even with their career and degrees a lot of them are still in that mindset of competing with women 25-30 years old and all of them think every man is looking for younger broads..

A lot of these women been picking wrong guys at 18,21,25,28,30,31,32,33,34 years old and a lot had kids with those no good dudes..

So unfortunately for older guys who don’t have kids and been responsible themselves throughout life,,,, more than likely u meeting these 35,40,45 year old women who dating/relationships been with trash ass nikkas and many of the time those women will view u like u one of those nikkas because she never dated a guy worth a damn…

And u as a man like “ im good i wish u the best”
And u can see the hurt in these chick eyes when u decide to move passed them
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I hear LA is pretty ruff for dating. I've been hearing that for years.

It’s just like every other city

Only issues you will have with dating is people who come here or live here and they mindset is on being a celebrity or wanting to live like a celebrity with nothing

There are plenty of regular 9-5 people as well but its hard to meet people when a lot of people are working 24/7 just to pay rent
 

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It’s just like every other city

Only issues you will have with dating is people who come here or live here and they mindset is on being a celebrity or wanting to live like a celebrity with nothing

There are plenty of regular 9-5 people as well but its hard to meet people when a lot of people are working 24/7 just to pay rent
I think that dating is a big city is just more difficult in general but if you not from there it’s easy because ppl are attracted to foreigners

People will visit those cities and talk about how cool or down to earth the ppl there seem compared to where they are from. But you talk to the locals and they do nun but complain
 
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