Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[Ozymandeas]

I been married and out the game awhile and the last of my nikkas who really doing something in they life just got engaged on some spin the block shyt like a couple weeks ago. So I can't pretend to fully know the dynamics of what nikkas is going through now, but in general I gotta call it like I see it based on what I saw with him and the shyt I see online. nikkas is just not realistic about what they should honestly be seeking in a relationship, and how they gotta go about getting it.

Its like these days dudes is almost as susceptible to dreams being sold to them as broads are. Living and dying by all these podcasts and shyt, and believing every nikka with a mic in front them telling them what they wanna hear.

I still remember years ago Irv Gotti got on a podcast talking about "I just want a young bytch who will love me for me and not ask me for any money" nikka WHAT You should have kept your bytch son, wtf would these young hoes want with you if money wasn't on the table? Like be for real my nikka.

Too many cats operating off wishful thinking. These chicks are smart breh. They are not going to agree to a bad deal, just like you ain't. You gotta assess what you're able/willing to give, and what you're asking for in a relationship. The likelihood of you being a 40 year old nikka pulling a 21-25 year old who wants you for you, will have your kids, and will split bills 50/50 and all that shyt is slim. Plan your dating life and act accordingly. You 45 and can provide a middle class lifestyle for a family. The 38 year old chick who ain't had kids yet but know her clock is ticking might be a better fit for you.

One, Irv was wild as fukk. You still out here in these streets at almost 50 years old, with diabetes, trying to date girls 25 years younger than you

He should've been more appreciative of his actual wife, Deb, and the family he had with her.

Two, the bolded is facts. There are plenty of broads out here as long as you are realistic about your range. Shyt, at 45, you should be happy with a 38 yo.

 

[Bigen King]

Maybe you just wasn't that or wasn't that interesting as you think you are. Did you drop all your chicks before you went out with her? Have you dropped all your options? With all this whining y'all do on here about chics all the time I see why they run circles around y'all and treat y'all like ducks and run game on y'all.

I’ve been dating this chick for two years we just haven’t fully committed.



Yes when I met her I dropped my other options foolishly cause as I posted in another thread I was spending $700 a month going out, dating and socializing and it wasn’t sustainable long term so I kinda boxed myself in. Can’t fault me for trying to not be a scum bag and actually be a decent man of good character as I’m in my late 30’s.

 

[Ohene]

I’ve been dating this chick for two years we just haven’t fully committed.



Yes when I met her I dropped my other options foolishly cause as I posted in another thread I was spending $700 a month going out, dating and socializing and it wasn’t sustainable long term so I kinda boxed myself in. Can’t fault me for trying to not be a scum bag and actually be a decent man of good character as I’m in my late 30’s.

why havent yall committed? doesnt take 2 years...
if you aint willing to be exclusive after 3...6 months MAX it aint ever gonna be a real relationship

 

[Scaaar]

I’ve been dating this chick for two years we just haven’t fully committed.



Yes when I met her I dropped my other options foolishly cause as I posted in another thread I was spending $700 a month going out, dating and socializing and it wasn’t sustainable long term so I kinda boxed myself in. Can’t fault me for trying to not be a scum bag and actually be a decent man of good character as I’m in my late 30’s.

It's not about being a scum bag breh. Until they show you or give you a reason to lock it down and make it mutually exclusive you should continue to date and get to know other women. That doesn't mean you're knocking them all down. You just have other you're conversing with and going out from time to time. But if it's two years and y'all still ain't locked into a committed relationship at the bare minimum you probably should let her go y'all are just wasting each other's time at that point


Also spending $700 a month socializing is wild so I understand you trying to reel that back in. It's easy to burn through bread when you're out just mingling with people.

 

[Scaaar]

why havent yall committed? doesnt take 2 years...
if you aint willing to be exclusive after 3...6 months MAX it aint ever gonna be a real relationship

I just said the same thing. After 2 years most chics would be pressing you to marry them. They ain't even boyfriend/girlfriend yet lol. He gotta let her go for both of their sakes. Cause their obviously isn't something that he sees in her that makes him want to lock it in if it's this long lol

 

[Bigen King]

why havent yall committed? doesnt take 2 years...
if you aint willing to be exclusive after 3...6 months MAX it aint ever gonna be a real relationship

We live in different cities about 1 hour apart, and I had just out of a long-term relationship of 5 years, families intermingled, and things ended in dramatic fashion, so I've been taking things slow with the vetting process. I'm late 30's, she's early 30s I just didn't realize women were still playing those games at that age.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I'm late 30's, she's early 30s I just didn't realize women were still playing those games at that age.

 

[Dave24]

I’m more than happy being alone. Got my son to take care of and look forward to. If I need some cooch from a chick that’s easy to come by.

#GMB and have no interest in marriage

You're not technically alone though since you have family/ a son. If you had no children would you still be happy alone?

 

[Shadow King]

31 44 pages is crazy lol

But y'all keep stating that marriage is folly.
Dating after 35 is folly and foolishness. Grow up, put in the work and settle down.

Marriage is folly.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Can't be over 30 thinking about things like this, it's not healthy.

 

[Givethanks]

I’ve been dating this chick for two years we just haven’t fully committed.



Yes when I met her I dropped my other options foolishly cause as I posted in another thread I was spending $700 a month going out, dating and socializing and it wasn’t sustainable long term so I kinda boxed myself in. Can’t fault me for trying to not be a scum bag and actually be a decent man of good character as I’m in my late 30’s.

On what


But look at you Money bigan Yo i've never met anyone who's actually did that tbh. Why did you feel the need to do that, just wondering?