Exactly How Dead Is Chivalry Nowadays?

[BIXBY]

I feel like there’s a Curb Your Enthusiasm scenario up in this...

 

[StickStickly]

when ya don't hold the door or help out old folks when the opportunity presents itself, then something wrong with ya

folks raised right know to respect ya elders, idc if it's a crackhead struggling at the grocery store. if they're shakin so bad they drop their shyt why not help a struggling breh out

Right! What kind of person isn't opening doors and elevators and just genuinely helping people? I do this all the time and see other women doing it too. These city Nikkas think they're being cute when it just looks rude and weird.

 

[Blankthawtz]

Right! What kind of person isn't opening doors and elevators and just genuinely helping people? I do this all the time and see other women doing it too. These city Nikkas think they're being cute when it just looks rude and weird.

 

[montsora]

If it ain't the (black) elderly? women can kick rocks for all i care.

 

[Cynic]

That's a lie. People spreading this shyt are already a$$holes. It's cop out logic. There are plenty of decent people out there. The problem is they not edgy enuff for some. People need to ask themselves why they want attention from idiots damaged enuff to snub human decency. Some trying to change these cats.
Women aren't some big bad bogey monster. What u are tappin into is a small segment of men and women who are so bitter and dysfunctional (kinda like those in threads like these) that they can't appreciate love or affection. Ironically, they are like that EXACTLY b/c they believe and act on flawed logic like yours.

Nobody is flocking to a$$holes. a$$holes attract a$$holes, and people with low self-esteem. If that's what u want then u gotta question urself as a person. Otherwise ur just trying to convince urself that most women like to be abused b/c u don't want to put any effort towards the good ones.
Crazy part is, if a woman says all men are shytty, dudes like u would be the first one to claim that she's wasting her time going for shytty dudes.

How the hell do you lack the self awareness to realize u doing the exact same thing?

Women voted for the biggest a$$hole on this planet after he talked about grabbing them by the genitals.

 

[Larry Lambo]

That's a lie. People spreading this shyt are already a$$holes. It's cop out logic. There are plenty of decent people out there. The problem is they not edgy enuff for some. People need to ask themselves why they want attention from idiots damaged enuff to snub human decency. Some trying to change these cats.
Women aren't some big bad bogey monster. What u are tappin into is a small segment of men and women who are so bitter and dysfunctional (kinda like those in threads like these) that they can't appreciate love or affection. Ironically, they are like that EXACTLY b/c they believe and act on flawed logic like yours.

Nobody is flocking to a$$holes. a$$holes attract a$$holes, and people with low self-esteem. If that's what u want then u gotta question urself as a person. Otherwise ur just trying to convince urself that most women like to be abused b/c u don't want to put any effort towards the good ones.
Crazy part is, if a woman says all men are shytty, dudes like u would be the first one to claim that she's wasting her time going for shytty dudes.

How the hell do you lack the self awareness to realize u doing the exact same thing?

From what I see most women don't want to be dogged out and aren't attracted specifically to a$$hole behavior, but if they are attracted to a guy they will accept it, and put themselves in a vulnerable position. From a male's perspective it looks like that is what she wants, because the guys that she is being receptive to are the ones that are exhibiting that behavior, and the guys that want to be gentlemen and treat her like a queen, she's ignoring.

But it's more that her attraction to men is built not on his behavior but on looks/swag/status and once a guy has that she will accept any kind of treatment. I'm in my late 30's and still run across women that are willing to put themselves in a position to be pumped, dumped, and treated poorly.

Ideally a woman would choose AMONGST the men that want to legitimately puruse her. Instead we have women that choose the man first, and then hopes he pursues her. That's a recipe for disaster.

 

[mamba]

When it's a character thing you don't even think about it.


How I look trying to figure out in .3 seconds if someone is "worthy" enough for me to open/hold a door for?


I try to just be courteous to everyone, and females (regardless of looks, b/c it honestly doesn't matter) I try to open or hold the door for, if I'm out with one on a date, I'll get her chair. We got auto locks so I don't need to open her door (although some occasions I do get her car door) I don't use or carry umbrellas, but if i ever happen to have one, I'll give it to the lady I'm with.

I'll make sure she walks always on the inside of the curb, but I'm not putting no jacket over the puddle lol...

I was raised to treat my elders and just people in general with respect. I try to live that out daily. It's been ingrained in me, I still say "yes/no sir/ma'm" to any elders... I don't expect everyone to be the same tho.


It is dying, and shoot, a lot of these young females don't even know what it is or value it b/c they moms didn't get or expect any...shame

I'm the same way. Just how I was raised.

 

[Shadow King]

Opening doors is normal. I'm not on elevators often but holding the elevator is a courtesy regardless of gender.

 

[Blankthawtz]

Women voted for the biggest a$$hole on this planet after he talked about grabbing them by the genitals.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I always find myself laughing at the most inappropriate shyt on this site. The sheer amount of trollage in that gif

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Women voted for the biggest a$$hole on this planet after he talked about grabbing them by the genitals.

White women are a whole nother beast.
They voted for someone who would ultimately protect their racial and economic power. Trump plays up his assholishness to inspire his base. White women would have voted Hitler reincarnated as a blind monkey's dikk in office if said dikk ensured they would continue to be able to drink $8 lattes and get their highlights. Strategic move.

 

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From what I see most women don't want to be dogged out and aren't attracted specifically to a$$hole behavior, but if they are attracted to a guy they will accept it, and put themselves in a vulnerable position. From a male's perspective it looks like that is what she wants, because the guys that she is being receptive to are the ones that are exhibiting that behavior, and the guys that want to be gentlemen and treat her like a queen, she's ignoring.

But it's more that her attraction to men is built not on his behavior but on looks/swag/status and once a guy has that she will accept any kind of treatment. I'm in my late 30's and still run across women that are willing to put themselves in a position to be pumped, dumped, and treated poorly.

Ideally a woman would choose AMONGST the men that want to legitimately puruse her. Instead we have women that choose the man first, and then hopes he pursues her. That's a recipe for disaster.

I agree but that's not solely a female thing. That's a human thing. Women see men put up with nonsense from women just b/c they are attractive to them all the time. But men somehow take normal behavior and codify as "women shyt". This isn't good b/c it pushes the divide and makes men feel like they don't "get" us when in reality a lot of the shyt we as men and women do is very similar.
I know dudes who allow themselves to get dogged out for a fat ass. Who put up with all the abuse in the world and chicks are like "why is he even with her".

Regardless of that, I agree with u that some women are like that as well. I think some people just get worn down. They don't wanna start the chase process over again with someone new, so they just grin and bear it.

But that's not the majority of normal men and women. Most people aren't going to put up with bullshyt.

 

[Osmosis]

In 2017: chivalry=thirsty

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

In 2017: chivalry=thirsty

In 2017: human decency, real love, respect, integrity, honesty, courage, virtue= weakness b/c people desperate to be considered "savage".

 

[Surreal]

If you're decent, don't change for anyone
The majority will appreciate it. Let the others that don't or try to use people be miserable while you shine