He does have a point. Women tend to be better with words but let's be real, Black women ain't checking for dark skin nikkas and I say that as a "light skin" myself unless they look like they just were born at the gym and they look great in the face. For all it's worth, we do have colorism in this community from both sexes but while ya'll talk about it, these dudes live it. Ya'll love getting mad about this but in the same minute dating a light skin dude or nonblack dude in a heartbeat. I think in so many words, we gotta realize that yes there is an issue but ya'll tend to portray it as well.