U acting real defensive...in any event, there is a saying: "if you look for trouble, you're gunna find it". In the clubs, bars, n streets aint nothin but trouble. You can have the best intentions in the world, but at night 97% of the people out do not, and they're drunk as fck on top of it.
You cant have your cake and eat it too. In a relationship you have to make sacrifices. One of them is not partyin and carrying on like you're still single.
Even goin out with ya man is problems. Ya'll drunk, thirsty niqqas actin bold, hitting on you and testing my gangster. Or Im drunk and I get a lil too comfortable with a broad in the club, you drunk too so you get over emotional...problems! All day. Ive been there.
Either you want to be a partier, or you wanna be in a relationship. Aint no such way as halfway crooks. Either u bout that life, or you aint.