Failed Black Patriarchy

[UpAndComing]

I was looking at the thread about boys turning into girls and the only ones arguing with op were Men.

You soft ass nikkas are the reason black patriarchy doesn't work. You latte sipping, spineless, mama's boys are the type of men who could, in theory, lead a family, but you've been conditioned to think its ok to defer to women. Ignore what women say, watch what they do. The fact of the matter is women don't want men who're comfortable letting her shoulder the burden if decision making while you debate Dragonball and Pokemon. You're not progressive because you rally under female leadership, you're a bytch.

And the numbers prove it. That's why the out of wedlock #s are so high. These women have resorted to just settling for sex with men who turn them on primally, even if that means they have to go it alone.

Look at the reactions to trump, I barely saw any women posting, it was nikkas running around like the sky was falling. A real patriach would be confident that he can steer his family in the right direction regardless of the circumstances.

Put down the Xbox controller and pick up some weights. Take some extra shifts at your job and stop blowing money on designer clothes and shoes. Take a class or two to up your earning potential. Be a damn man. Stop waiting and wishing for female approval before you do anything. Be able to put your foot down and live with the consequences, right or wrong, good or bad. Stop blaming women for being women.

A lot of dudes seem to want a psuedo patriarchy where the woman contributes half, watches the kids, and run the day to day while deferring to you for major decisions. Life doesn't work like that. In that situation you're expendable. She has a social safety net to shield her.

Get your credit up yourself. Buy that starter house. Take pride in your appearance without going full metrosexual. Invite a woman into your world, stop this silly notion that we're going to build together.

Don't hate the guy smashing and dashing. Figure out why he's so attractive (hint: he doesn't supplicate), and get that mindset. Its not easy, its not an attitude you can flip on to get her then comfortably slide back under her. You cant just throw money at her. You have to maintain that attraction til the day you die, all the while handling your business

And no blame on the single Black women who raised them?

 

[DarkHorse23]

Sure, but it's easier to decipher where the criticism is coming from when it comes from another black man because we directly reflect each other and share the same struggles and ambitions for the most part; It's comradeship



I understand, but I'm looking at the self-actualization aspect of it, totally independent of women or anyone else. Once we raise our own standards as men and our mind-state as a collective, we can become a better crop. With self-improvement, we affect everyone and everything around us.

First, we have to admit that we're no longer cultivating men like you, your father or your grandfather. Yes, some of us do take care of business, but we need more. As black males, we're a very small demographic.There's not a lot of room for error. Those of us who are doing better have a responsibility to influence and enlighten one another

I don't agree. I'm not special...many black men are taking care of their business and trying to do right...BUT black men would rather call them lame and corny and choose an idiot pretty boy with good hair or dope boy over them.

 

[DarkHorse23]

And no blame on the single Black women who raised them?

No black women are ALWAYS the victims

 

[Matt504]

They like sex too, thats pretty much the only reason they're doing it. But do you really think getting pumped and dumped is a woman's ideal sexual interaction vs a man's?

You got the cognitive dissonance dissonance dialed up to 100 today


That's an unfortunate roadblock but not a damning one.

They like sex too, thats pretty much the only reason they're doing it. But do you really think getting pumped and dumped is a woman's ideal sexual interaction vs a man's?

You got the cognitive dissonance dissonance dialed up to 100 today

If all the woman wants is sex then yes, the ideal situation for her is sex with no strings attached.



Again, it's a mutual agreement and both parties are getting what they want out of it.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Men don't choose shyt. Men merely accept the choice. Quit the bullshyt.

Don't get it twisted breh, YOU don't choose shyt cuz YOU don't have options. On the other hand Im busy choosing right now

 

[Matt504]

I don't agree. I'm not special...many black men are taking care of their business and trying to do right...BUT black men would rather call them lame and corny and choose an idiot pretty boy with good hair or dope boy over them.

People choose to be with people they're attracted to.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Don't get it twisted breh, YOU don't choose shyt cuz YOU don't have options. On the other hand Im busy choosing right now

Ok.

 

[DarkHorse23]

People choose to be with people they're attracted to.

Ok. And the consequences of choosing JUST based on that are what they are so stop shytting on black men for black womens choices.

 

[Ol’Otis]

Don't get it twisted breh, YOU don't choose shyt cuz YOU don't have options. On the other hand Im busy choosing right now

It makes your soul burn slow

 

[Kenny West]

And no blame on the single Black women who raised them?

fukk blame. Does the blame really matter at this point? What is it going to solve?

If all the woman wants is sex then yes, the ideal situation for her is sex with no strings attached.



Again, it's a mutual agreement and both parties are getting what they want out of it.

Breaking news: Men and women aren't the same
just because a woman agrees to casual sex doesn't mean she didn't want more. Women rarely want JUST sex but will accept that depending on the guy. I know you don't date women so just take my word for it.

But just in case you can't here's hard data : Women Aren't As Cool With One-Night Stands As Men
Realities of One-Night Stands Revealed
One-Night Stands: 5 Shocking Facts About the Science of Hooking Up | World of Psychology

Stop quoting me to play dumb

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

smart black men are exiting the black community.......

We are. You should come with us. I'm drawing my line in the sand. If these so called real men want to lead I say let them do it. Lol history has already proven time and time again exactly where they're going to take us and what their agenda is. Women who endorse this shyt are crazy.

If they think allowing a high school football team to have significant influence over the powers America has isn't going to result in warfare and economic decline they're on drugs.

Obama is a great example of how intelligence and tact wins over muscle. A man can lead in many ways. Sometimes leading from the front isn't the right move.

A leader props up their community they don't divide it. So the fact that this real man is being divisive proves once again they're unfit to lead.

Lol most these real men have no real power. They're just hard workers. Blue collar workers who own nothing. It's easy for them to preach acting like animals because they don't talk to bosses. Focus on your beards and proper lifting technique while us skilled workers and advanced degree holders nation build.

Do these guys understand geopolitics? Probably not. Can they explain NAFTA? probably not. Can they name the last three presidents of the federal reserve? Macro and micro economics? Simple people love to simplify things. This is not a simple issue.

It's funny how you continue to blame the child for the sins of the absentee father. Who was probably a manly man. Raise your kids fathers. Bum ass men are the problem, not the yield of a single parent household.

Conversely why the fukk do I never hear you idiots ranting about black men who raised girls on their own? It happens man. So a man can raise a woman, but a woman can't raise a man? You better ignore this paragraph because it blows your theory the fukk apart.

 

[Matt504]

Ok. And the consequences of choosing JUST based on that are what they are so stop shytting on black men for black womens choices.

I'm not shytting on either party idiot, when two parties get together to do something both are equally responsible.

You believe men are wild animals who can't turn down p*ssy so of course it's all women's fault because men are helpless animals controlled by their insatiable sex appetites.

The problem with you specifically is you're jealous of the men women prefer to sleep with instead of you as you believe you're better qualified and should have first dibs on their bodies.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Ok.

And didn't you say before how black women don't like you so you only fukk with white girls?

Your opinion on black patriarchy is null and void cocksucker beat it

 

[Skrilla]

fukk blame. Does the blame really matter at this point? What is it going to solve?


Breaking news: Men and women aren't the same
just because a woman agrees to casual sex doesn't mean she didn't want more. Women rarely want JUST sex but will accept that depending on the guy. I know you don't date women so just take my word for it.

But just in case you can't here's hard data : Women Aren't As Cool With One-Night Stands As Men
Realities of One-Night Stands Revealed
One-Night Stands: 5 Shocking Facts About the Science of Hooking Up | World of Psychology

Stop quoting me to play dumb

These nikkas just want to blame everything in life on white men and black women, no matter what the topic is, it always comes back to one of those groups

They believe black men have absolutely no autonomy

 

[Matt504]

We are. You should come with us. I'm drawing my line in the sand. If these so called real men want to lead I say let them do it. Lol history has already proven time and time again exactly where they're going to take us and what their agenda is. Women who endorse this shyt are crazy.

If they think allowing a high school football team to have significant influence over the powers America has isn't going to result in warfare and economic decline they're on drugs.

Obama is a great example of how intelligence and tact wins over muscle. A man can lead in many ways. Sometimes leading from the front isn't the right move.

A leader props up their community they don't divide it. So the fact that this real man is being divisive proves once again they're unfit to lead.

Lol most these real men have no real power. They're just hard workers. Blue collar workers who own nothing. It's easy for them to preach acting like animals because they don't talk to bosses. Focus on your beards and proper lifting technique while us skilled workers and advanced degrees holders nation build.

Do these guys understand of geopolitics? Probably not. Can they explain NAFTA? probably not. Can they name the last three presidents of the federal reserve? Simple people love to simplify things. This is not a simple issue.

It's funny how you continue to blame the child for the sins of the absentee father. Who was probably a manly man. Raise your kids fathers. Bum ass men are the problem, not the yield of a single parent household.

Conversely why the fukk do I never hear you idiots ranting about black men who raised girls on their own. It happens man. So a man can raise a woman, but a woman can't raise a man. You better ignore this paragraph because it blows your theory the fukk apart.

How are you nikkas measuring your intelligence, I mean concretely, how do you reach the conclusion that you're "smart"?