Failed Black Patriarchy

[HellRell804]

We are. You should come with us. I'm drawing my line in the sand. If these so called real men want to lead I say let them do it. Lol history has already proven time and time again exactly where they're going to take us and what their agenda is. Women who endorse this shyt are crazy.

If they think allowing a high school football team to have significant influence over the powers America has isn't going to result in warfare and economic decline they're on drugs.

Obama is a great example of how intelligence and tact wins over muscle. A man can lead in many ways. Sometimes leading from the front isn't the right move.

A leader props up their community they don't divide it. So the fact that this real man is being divisive proves once again they're unfit to lead.

Lol most these real men have no real power. They're just hard workers. Blue collar workers who own nothing. It's easy for them to preach acting like animals because they don't talk to bosses. Focus on your beards and proper lifting technique while us skilled workers and advanced degree holders nation build.

Do these guys understand of geopolitics? Probably not. Can they explain NAFTA? probably not. Can they name the last three presidents of the federal reserve? Simple people love to simplify things. This is not a simple issue.

It's funny how you continue to blame the child for the sins of the absentee father. Who was probably a manly man. Raise your kids fathers. Bum ass men are the problem, not the yield of a single parent household.

Conversely why the fukk do I never hear you idiots ranting about black men who raised girls on their own? It happens man. So a man can raise a woman, but a woman can't raise a man? You better ignore this paragraph because it blows your theory the fukk apart.

Why can't you be smart and masculine? I only mentioned lifting weights because lifting weights will increase testosterone. Nobody said you had to look like the rock.

If more "smart" brothers worked towards being more attractive women wouldn't have as many children out of wedlock. Cool, you're intelligent, great women like that, but are you witty? Can you carry a conversation without talking down to her. Do you have interesting things going on in your life? You should be if you're not.

As it stands, they can have these b*stards because they know that your aversion to self improvement and unwillingness to change means there's a good chance you'll still be there to save them when they're done having fun, unless you go to the bargain basement of white women who's probably just entertaining you because she already had her slut days in college and can run that check up while you're sitting in the house playing battlefield.

 

[Matt504]

bottom line is, fukk all the bullshyt.

If Black men want to be leaders and "build", we have to want more for ourselves, not sit around pointing fingers at who's at blame. If you run across a woman who aint about shyt, you don't waste a second of your time with her. We need to be disciplined, not wild animals who will fukk on anything that will lay down in front of us but too many of you nikkas are hard up for p*ssy, you'll spend more effort formulating a plan to smash than formulating a plan that will get you into a better financial situation, nikkas is too concerned with shortcuts and putting forth as little effort as possible for the shyt that actually counts. Only time nikkas is creative is when they're thinking of a lie to keep stringing along a woman who's on the cusp of realizing she's being played.

 

[Knuckles Red]

LOL @ the OP's message (aside from all the misogynistic, patriarchal bullshyt) essentially telling grown adults to value/practice personal responsibility, and yet this thread has been reduced to the typical blame game of dudes shytting on black women. Telling...but not surprising...

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

These nikkas just want to blame everything in life on white men and black women, no matter what the topic is, it always comes back to one of those groups

They believe black men gave absolutely no autonomy

No accountability for their contribution to the problem. But they want to lead something, omg, lmao, I can't. I've been captain of all my soccer teams. I've coached. I've been a nanny, I've had a family, paid all the bills, while helping my mother out, I've had my own business with a tax id, I've managed stores for fortune 200 companies, I've helped plan strategies that yielded over a million dollars in one year.

I'm fit as fukk. I'm smart as fukk. And I'm working on my next business right now. I'm also highly skilled breh. I have the resume to back it up.



I never had a dad. I was raised by five black women.

OP's math doesn't add up. I am a boss period. He can claim whatever he wants to claim but I know I lead many teams. And I have lead more teams and families than he ever will in his life. I have power of attorney for an estate that's worth over a mill and climbing. Most of that wealth was generated by BW. And they groomed me to lead. And I'm a leader.

 

[HellRell804]

LOL @ the OP's message (aside from all the misogynistic, patriarchal bullshyt) essentially telling grown adults to value/practice personal responsibility, and yet this thread has been reduced to the typical blame game of dudes shytting on black women. Telling...but not surprising...

The salon is that way...

 

[DarkHorse23]

I'm not shytting on either party idiot, when two parties get together to do something both are equally responsible.

You believe men are wild animals who can't turn down p*ssy so of course it's all women's fault because men are helpless animals controlled by their insatiable sex appetites.

The problem with you specifically is you're jealous of the men women prefer to sleep with instead of you as you believe you're better qualified and should have first dibs on their bodies.

I'm not jealous of the men they prefer to sleep with. I'm fed up with threads like this and black women going on television/social media saying "black men aint shyt or the problem". No the men you CHOOSE ain't shyt, or YOU ain't shyt. Either way don't blame the majority of good black men who never get any press or recognition for the choices you made.

 

[miranda]

bottom line is, fukk all the bullshyt.

If Black men want to be leaders and "build", we have to want more for ourselves, not sit around pointing fingers at who's at blame. If you run across who woman who aint about shyt, you don't waste a second of your time with her. We need to be disciplined, not wild animals who will fukk on anything that will lay down in front of us but too many of you nikkas are hard up for p*ssy, you'll spend more effort formulating a plan to smash than formulating a plan that will get you into a better financial situation, nikkas is too concerned with shortcuts and putting forth as little effort as possible for the shyt that actually counts. Only time nikkas is creative is when they're thinking of a lie to keep stringing along a woman who's on the cusp of realizing she's being played.

So youre basically saying you agree with op

 

[DarkHorse23]

And didn't you say before how black women don't like you so you only fukk with white girls?

Your opinion on black patriarchy is null and void cocksucker beat it

Show me a thread or comment where i said i only fukk with white girls?

Seriously show me that and i'll wire you money cocksucker.

 

[Matt504]

So youre basically saying you agree with op

he made some points I agree with, some points I don't agree with.

such is life.

 

[Knuckles Red]

The salon is that way...

Whatever. If your "masculinity," and "independence" rests firmly upon the oppression of women then that will always leave you vulnerable to their success. What a toxic relationship for men and women to have.

 

[HellRell804]

No accountability for their contribution to the problem. But they want to lead something, omg, lmao, I can't. I've been captain of all my soccer teams. I've coached. I've been a nanny, I've had a family, paid all the bills, while helping my mother out, I've had my own business with a tax id, I've managed stores for fortune 200 companies, I've helped plan strategies that yielded over a million dollars in one year.

I'm fit as fukk. I'm smart as fukk. And I'm working on my next business right now. I'm also highly skilled breh. I have the resume to back it up.



I never had a dad. I was raised by five black women.

OP's math doesn't add up. I am a boss period. He can claim whatever he wants to claim but I know I lead many teams. And I have lead more teams and families than he ever will in his life. I have power of attorney for an estate that's worth over a mill and climbing. Most of that wealth was generated by BW. And they groomed me to lead. And I'm a leader.

I said in this threas that you can overcome your initial programming.

If you did all that kudos to you. But you can be accomplished and still be lame. Maybe its your conversation skills. If you talk to women about yourself like you did in this post its probably being construed as arrogance. Tone it down. Learn just enough about pop culture to have conversations. Read some books, I recommend "how to win friends and influence people" by dale Carnegie as a start.

Sounds like you got a chip on your shoulder. Growing up around a lot of women will do that. Trust me, I got 5 alpha ass aunts.

 

[Skrilla]

Whatever. If your "masculinity," and "independence" rests firmly upon the oppression of women then that will always leave you vulnerable to their success. What a toxic relationship for men and women to have.

What's so bad about discussing a real patriarchy?

This matrilfocal ass shyt right now is popping huh?

 

[godkiller]

Yes a lot of black men demand patriarchy but are not fit to be patriarchs themselves.

And what, pray, makes a fit patriarch?

 

[Matt504]

Whatever. If your "masculinity," and "independence" rests firmly upon the oppression of women then that will always leave you vulnerable to their success. What a toxic relationship for men and women to have.

I've come to the conclusion that most of these guys believe they know what masculinity is but in reality, they have no real way to measure it.

Ask them when a Black boy becomes a man and it becomes painstakingly obvious that no one has an answer as African Americans have no rites of passage for our young Black boys to transition into manhood which is also why a lot of these nikkas remain children into their "adulthood".

 

[Matt504]

And what, pray, makes a fit patriarch?

How would you answer this question?