Failed Black Patriarchy

[DarkHorse23]

I said in this threas that you can overcome your initial programming.

If you did all that kudos to you. But you can be accomplished and still be lame. Maybe its your conversation skills. If you talk to women about yourself like you did in this post its probably being construed as arrogance. Tone it down. Learn just enough about pop culture to have conversations. Read some books, I recommend "how to win friends and influence people" by dale Carnegie as a start.

Sounds like you got a chip on your shoulder. Growing up around a lot of women will do that. Trust me, I got 5 alpha ass aunts.

What's your definition of "lame"?

What makes a man "lame"?

And who are YOU or anyone to say what is "lame" and what isn't ?

Some guy is "lame" and you're considered "cool". All that really means at the end of the day is you're very good at following the crowd.

/ thread

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Show me a thread or comment where i said i only fukk with white girls?

Seriously show me that and i'll wire you money cocksucker.

My bad you only said black women don't fukk with you

Oh I know they don't give a fukk about me. Trust me they made that perfectly clear. Thats why I'm in no rush to go to bat for them.

Bro stop it. I'm nothing like that,and I'd protect and provide for a black woman if they'd give me a chance. Many black men would and WANT too, but black women too busy calling them lame and chasing after pretty boys and Dope boys. Come on bro you smarter than that

This would still make your opinion on black patriarchy null and void. Cant be a patriarch if black women don't want you

 

[Draje]

Asking a good looking man to turn down p*ssy is like a lion turning down a zebra. It's not going happen

So blame men too.

So it's ok to blame women for their choice in who they fukk but not blame men?

 

[HellRell804]

What's your definition of "lame"?

What makes a man "lame"?

And who are YOU or anyone to say what is "lame" and what isn't ?

Some guy is "lame" and you're considered "cool". All that really means at the end of the day is you're very good at following the crowd.

/ thread

A lame is someone who can't navigate social situations. That guy at the mixer hugging the wall thinking how stupid everyone else is for adhering to social norms. I'm introverted as hell naturally. I used to be that guy. But no matter how much smarter than the room you think you are you still gotta be able to carry on conversations.

Whether that means turning on ESPN radio on your commute to work so you can shoot the shyt with your boss and put yourself in a better position for a promotion, or if it means scrolling bossip for 10-15 min out of your day so you can entertain your lady when she wants to talk about celebrity gossip.

Once again, you don't have to do any of that, but that's why people consider you "lame". I don't give a shyt about Beyonce at the CMA awards, but it took me 10 min to get up on it. So if I go on a date we can have a flowing conversation and it won't just be me talking about myself for hours or asking her questions like a job interview.

 

[DarkHorse23]

So it's ok to blame women for their choice in who they fukk but not blame men?

You heard me correctly.

 

[InDePickWest]

I've laughed at the fact men try to convince themselves because they're men that means they're great thinkers, decision makers, etc.



On the other hand, its misogyny loud and clear. When a man fukks up...it's because he hasn't tapped into his full masculinity testosterone weight lifting woman issue ignoring machoism madhouse. Not his fault.
When a woman fukks up its because she was never made to lead or think in the first place.

The real knee slapped here is that's the EXACT rhetoric for how whites justify their CAC supremacy..just replace men with white and women with black.



You nikkas literally using the white man's murder weapon against your own women.

Where's my latte so I can enjoy the rest of this comedy sketch in peace.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

Its a two way street. Men need to be choosing women based on substance as well

No, women pick men that's the way it's always been

 

[Cynic]

I was looking at the thread about boys turning into girls and the only ones arguing with op were Men.

You soft ass nikkas are the reason black patriarchy doesn't work. You latte sipping, spineless, mama's boys are the type of men who could, in theory, lead a family, but you've been conditioned to think its ok to defer to women. Ignore what women say, watch what they do. The fact of the matter is women don't want men who're comfortable letting her shoulder the burden if decision making while you debate Dragonball and Pokemon. You're not progressive because you rally under female leadership, you're a bytch.

And the numbers prove it. That's why the out of wedlock #s are so high. These women have resorted to just settling for sex with men who turn them on primally, even if that means they have to go it alone.

Look at the reactions to trump, I barely saw any women posting, it was nikkas running around like the sky was falling. A real patriach would be confident that he can steer his family in the right direction regardless of the circumstances.

Put down the Xbox controller and pick up some weights. Take some extra shifts at your job and stop blowing money on designer clothes and shoes. Take a class or two to up your earning potential. Be a damn man. Stop waiting and wishing for female approval before you do anything. Be able to put your foot down and live with the consequences, right or wrong, good or bad. Stop blaming women for being women.

A lot of dudes seem to want a psuedo patriarchy where the woman contributes half, watches the kids, and run the day to day while deferring to you for major decisions. Life doesn't work like that. In that situation you're expendable. She has a social safety net to shield her.

Get your credit up yourself. Buy that starter house. Take pride in your appearance without going full metrosexual. Invite a woman into your world, stop this silly notion that we're going to build together.

Don't hate the guy smashing and dashing. Figure out why he's so attractive (hint: he doesn't supplicate), and get that mindset. Its not easy, its not an attitude you can flip on to get her then comfortably slide back under her. You cant just throw money at her. You have to maintain that attraction til the day you die, all the while handling your business

The housing policies after civil rights incentivized black women to have multiple children
in exchange for cash and prizes at the expense of working black men .

We know what happened next....



The rest of this altruistic post is just holding black men to an ideal that only functions
among diaspora africans and island people from two parent homes who are bound
by culture and organized religion.

As a male you always expendable... your utility is to service the government
and women.

While I agree learning new skills and generating extra revenue should be paramount
the black patriarchy suffered an infantile death soon as bored white housewives infected
black women with feminism.

You want black patriarchy ...head to Africa and other indigenous nations

 

[richaveli83]

I was looking at the thread about boys turning into girls and the only ones arguing with op were Men.

You soft ass nikkas are the reason black patriarchy doesn't work. You latte sipping, spineless, mama's boys are the type of men who could, in theory, lead a family, but you've been conditioned to think its ok to defer to women. Ignore what women say, watch what they do. The fact of the matter is women don't want men who're comfortable letting her shoulder the burden if decision making while you debate Dragonball and Pokemon. You're not progressive because you rally under female leadership, you're a bytch.

And the numbers prove it. That's why the out of wedlock #s are so high. These women have resorted to just settling for sex with men who turn them on primally, even if that means they have to go it alone.

Look at the reactions to trump, I barely saw any women posting, it was nikkas running around like the sky was falling. A real patriach would be confident that he can steer his family in the right direction regardless of the circumstances.

Put down the Xbox controller and pick up some weights. Take some extra shifts at your job and stop blowing money on designer clothes and shoes. Take a class or two to up your earning potential. Be a damn man. Stop waiting and wishing for female approval before you do anything. Be able to put your foot down and live with the consequences, right or wrong, good or bad. Stop blaming women for being women.

A lot of dudes seem to want a psuedo patriarchy where the woman contributes half, watches the kids, and run the day to day while deferring to you for major decisions. Life doesn't work like that. In that situation you're expendable. She has a social safety net to shield her.

Get your credit up yourself. Buy that starter house. Take pride in your appearance without going full metrosexual. Invite a woman into your world, stop this silly notion that we're going to build together.

Don't hate the guy smashing and dashing. Figure out why he's so attractive (hint: he doesn't supplicate), and get that mindset. Its not easy, its not an attitude you can flip on to get her then comfortably slide back under her. You cant just throw money at her. You have to maintain that attraction til the day you die, all the while handling your business

 

[DarkHorse23]

A lame is someone who can't navigate social situations. That guy at the mixer hugging the wall thinking how stupid everyone else is for adhering to social norms. I'm introverted as hell naturally. I used to be that guy. But no matter how much smarter than the room you think you are you still gotta be able to carry on conversations.

Whether that means turning on ESPN radio on your commute to work so you can shoot the shyt with your boss and put yourself in a better position for a promotion, or if it means scrolling bossip for 10-15 min out of your day so you can entertain your lady when she wants to talk about celebrity gossip.

Once again, you don't have to do any of that, but that's why people consider you "lame". I don't give a shyt about Beyonce at the CMA awards, but it took me 10 min to get up on it. So if I go on a date we can have a flowing conversation and it won't just be me talking about myself for hours or asking her questions like a job interview.

So it's my job or any man's job to be a fukking clown? Last time i checked, I nor any man was put on this earth to entertain a woman's ass. Quite frankly if you're a black man with his shyt together, degree, home, goals for the future, intelligent ect, a woman should be entertaining YOU. You're the prize not them. And no i'm not suggesting not develop social skills or be aware of what's going on in the world, i'm simply saying just because someone isn't following the crowd like a sheep doesn't make them Lame. It's actually makes you weak because you don't have guts to be yourself and march to your OWN drum. Black men DO need to step up, and part of that begins with stopping putting down our fellow brothers. That shyt needs to stop, everybody doesn't need to conform to yours or my definition of blackness.

 

[Will Ross]

I've laughed at the fact men try to convince themselves because they're men that means they're great thinkers, decision makers, etc.



On the other hand, its misogyny loud and clear. When a man fukks up...it's because he hasn't tapped into his full masculinity testosterone weight lifting woman issue ignoring machoism madhouse. Not his fault.
When a woman fukks up its because she was never made to lead or think in the first place.

The real knee slapped here is that's the EXACT rhetoric for how whites justify their CAC supremacy..just replace men with white and women with black.



You nikkas literally using the white man's murder weapon against your own women.

Where's my latte so I can enjoy the rest of this comedy sketch in peace.

Women are not made to lead and Hisfory shows this. Your worth is what is between your legs

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

The excuses and deflections in this thread are on 10. I won't even step my toe in here until I finish that blk chick c00n starter pack post. Imma stick it right there in that IR Brazilian thread about the blk chick lmao!

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

So blame men too.

So it's ok to blame women for their choice in who they fukk but not blame men?

Because these women pick the men they lay down with, smh

 

[Lewis Black]

The excuses and deflections in this thread are on 10. I won't even step my toe in here until I finish that blk chick c00n starter pack post. Imma stick it right there in that IR Brazilian thread about the blk chick lmao!

I wanna hear your opinion.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

No, women pick men that's the way it's always been

I can only speak on my experience but I been choosing since 15. But what I mean by a two way street is a baby has two parents. If a woman ends up raising the baby alone the man shouldn't be exempt and have excuses made for them. At some point men need to be accountable for themselves and stop playing the blame game. You could counter with "well women do it too" and you wouldn't be wrong. But men not taking leadership roles in regards to our families needs to be addressed