falling out with a friend

[Kami]

what do you do if they still contact your family members?

had this friend i fell out with a few months back..he pretty much spilled all my business to my 16 year old cousin and his older brother. my younger cousin would report back and say every time he calls me hes talking shyt about you...shyt had me irate but after a while i'd be like why are you reporting back to me? what are you really saying to him and why does he feel so comfortable to gossip to you?

the older cousin cut that shyt short the first call and said talk to him if you got an issue. my point is guy if we dont fukk with each other why does he contact my family? he really doesnt know my younger cousin met a handful of times the rest was convo's on psn. i've told my cousin to cut him off but for w/e reason he wants to keep contact. i dunno how to go about this i want nothing to do with this mf and already told him quit gossiping with my family.

 

[Lord-Yosh]

Punch him in his fukking face

 

[No..Money..Mo..Problems]

People come and go all the time as you get older I'm assuming OP is young (under 21). I'm 29 most people you consider friends now won't be your friends in 5 years don't sweat it just keep doing you and worry about what's next to come in your life. I wouldn't even confront the dude this shyt will fall off in a couple months and both parties will move on.

 

[Gold]

Honestly breh, you gotta have this convo with your family.

Tell them you dont fukk with dude no more and neither should they. Family should pick u first. Ive like some of the dudes my sister dsted but if she cut them off for hurting her, they dead to me

 

[Kami]

People come and go all the time as you get older I'm assuming OP is young (under 21). I'm 29 most people you consider friends now won't be your friends in 5 years don't sweat it just keep doing you and worry about what's next to come in your life. I wouldn't even confront the dude this shyt will fall off in a couple months and both parties will move on.

we actually fell out early in the year (jan). He's been contacting my younger cousin talking the past few months it was w/e i moved on and didnt care to carry that energy. im actually more disappointed in my cousin for keeping contact cause hes heard first hand what was said and all the gossiping that was done.

usually idc when a mutual friend wants to stay friends with an enemy but when its your own family it hurts wheres the loyalty right.

 

[No..Money..Mo..Problems]

we actually fell out early in the year (jan). He's been contacting my younger cousin talking the past few months it was w/e i moved on and didnt care to carry that energy. im actually more disappointed in my cousin for keeping contact cause hes heard first hand what was said and all the gossiping that was done.

usually idc when a mutual friend wants to stay friends with an enemy but when its your own family it hurts wheres the loyalty right.

How often u see this dude?

 

[No..Money..Mo..Problems]

Unless y'all got into a fight I wouldn't care if he's still friends with a family member. You gotta worry about yourself and stop caring about people that don't effect your daily life.

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

we actually fell out early in the year (jan). He's been contacting my younger cousin talking the past few months it was w/e i moved on and didnt care to carry that energy. im actually more disappointed in my cousin for keeping contact cause hes heard first hand what was said and all the gossiping that was done.

usually idc when a mutual friend wants to stay friends with an enemy but when its your own family it hurts wheres the loyalty right.

Yeah this is on your cousin breh, don't talk bad about people behind their backs especially to someone related to you. Simple shyt like this shouldn't even need to be said

Nikkas be tripping off redflags daily smh