Family inheritance

[InfinateOpulance]

I had a relative pass away and left my father enough money for 2 or 3 lifetimes, I'm talking like millions. However, he has decided to not share any of it with me or my brother. Or his ex wife (my mom). My mom helped put my bro through engineering school without any help from my father. I'm still paying for school loans.

My guy friend says I'm wrong for wanting anything from my father. I feel like he should want to see his seeds come up without struggling.

Am i wrong for wanting help from my dad knowing that he could provide it easily???

 

[benjamin]

Pops a scumbag lol..run through prostitutes and drive foreigns while your seeds struggle, brehs at minimum y'all should get atleast 20 racks just becuz

 

[GoFlipAPack]

Your dad sounds like a real piece of shyt

 

[JodyHiighroller]

 

[JLova]

Your dad is a dikk.

 

[benjamin]

Pops hit that through the tint of the bentley

 

[Shabazz]

you dont need his money OP, fukk em.

 

[2stainz]

thats so foul gotta have real, visceral, eternal hate in your heart to sink that low :damnb:

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I had a relative pass away and left my father enough money for 2 or 3 lifetimes, I'm talking like millions. However, he has decided to not share any of it with me or my brother. Or his ex wife (my mom). My mom helped put my bro through engineering school without any help from my father. I'm still paying for school loans.

My guy friend says I'm wrong for wanting anything from my father. I feel like he should want to see his seeds come up without struggling.

Am i wrong for wanting help from my dad knowing that he could provide it easily???

I don't know about y'all relationship but he doesn't seem to care much and this come up wont change anything. He probably resents your mother. The kids are caught in the middle.

Nothing you can do except make peace with who he is as a person.

 

[Noriega]

Yeah he foul, some nikkas don’t see the big picture

Was he involved in your upbringing heavily ?

 

[invalid]

Your father is a piece of shyt. So let me get that out the way.

But he is not obligated to give to you. He received an inheritance, which was a gift to him, not you.

So you should snap out of any entitlement to his money.

If your father is not selfless enough to ensure his family is good, I wouldn’t have any expectation of receiving any money, and I wouldn’t be no begging ass nikka.

There is nothing worse than a begging ass nikka.

 

[InfinateOpulance]

Your father is a piece of shyt. So let me get that out the way.

But he is not obligated to give to you. He received an inheritance, which was a gift to him, not you.

So you should snap out of any entitlement to his money.

If your father is not selfless enough to ensure his family is good, I wouldn’t have any expectation of receiving any money, and I wouldn’t be no begging ass nikka.

There is nothing worse than a begging ass nikka.

Thanks for your response. I haven't begged him for anything. The family lawyer told me how much he got. Not him. Ive never begged him or any other man for a god damn thing in my life. I'm not going to start now.

His selfishness taught me to be independent, but to a fault.

 

[GoAggieGo.]

He SHOULD break you and your bro off some of that money, but it is his, and he doesn’t have to. Not trying to be harsh, but he’s pretty much shown how he feels about yall; with one example, him not helping your mom with your bro’s schooling.

Best to just move on. Maybe his conscious will get to him at some point, and he’ll finally step up. Either way, no sense of you harboring on this. He’s shown you where he stands.

 

[LurkMoar]

I had a relative pass away and left my father enough money for 2 or 3 lifetimes, I'm talking like millions. However, he has decided to not share any of it with me or my brother. Or his ex wife (my mom). My mom helped put my bro through engineering school without any help from my father. I'm still paying for school loans.

My guy friend says I'm wrong for wanting anything from my father. I feel like he should want to see his seeds come up without struggling.

Am i wrong for wanting help from my dad knowing that he could provide it easily???

Your dad ain’t shyt OP, but take solace once he blows all the money on temporary joys he will die a regretful man.

 

[InfinateOpulance]

Yeah he foul, some nikkas don’t see the big picture

Was he involved in your upbringing heavily ?

Yes he raised me, ssw me come out of my mother's womb. I still have the picture from the hospital on that day.

But he was emotionally and physically abusive to me growing up.

That being said i guess i shouldn't be surprised he don't wanna help. I was just curious to how other males see this.