It creates more division between the parents too...and the kids observe all of this.Putting a man on child support is like calling the police on a black man... yes, there are men that deserve it but usually it’s done out of spite. There are good brehs that are getting fukked over because of this.
In short... never be at the mercy of a woman, never allow yourself to be at her behest and never be dependent on one.
"Hey, I'll be over there Saturday morning to kick you down"
Her: "Ok"
He comes over, drops off the money, says a few words to the youngins:
"I gotta work tonight, but I'll be here tomorrow morning. We'll order a pizza"
Kids:

Mom:

Perfectly functional dynamic.
When child support is put into place, everything isn't so rosy. Sure, he'll still be there for them, but It'll be more like:
"I'm on my way to pick them up. Have them come outside when I blow the horn"