Family loses $4400 Stimulus because husband owed back child support

NinoBrown

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How do you know where the money is going in every situation?? And how do you put all the responsibilities on one person when it take two? Men need to be more careful who they sleep with as well. We should not be relying on birth control and plan b.

The baby isn't immaculate? Women are the gatekeepers to sex and determine who and how gets it in. If she wants raw or rubber, she makes the call. So 90% her decision on the fallout....

Plan B should be cheaper and sold like Tic Tacs....

Again....child support is about supporting the Mom's habits, not about the child....

I would say courts should allow the CS payments be put into a special account that can only be used for daycare, tuition, doc appointments, etc. Also allow CS payments to be suspended if the money is used for non-childcare items....ie fake nails and Cheesecake Factory....
 

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More reasons not to get married. It seem like it do way more harm than good. His problems become your problems and vice versa. Just for the government and a piece of paper to say you're together. fukk all that

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This wouldnt have happened if he had just married/stayed married to the first woman he had a kid with in the first place.
 

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I know 2 bruhs with over $100,000 in back CS and both of them just give up on ever having anything of value.. They can't even get a driver's license and both stay with women that treat them like shyt and they take it because that's the only way they can have a roof over they head...
Damn:heh:
 

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If you already have 3 kids that you can’t afford to support, why would you go out and have 4 more kids? Same question for her, why have kids with a man you know can’t even support his current brood?

Come on now.
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The folks that can least afford to have kids stay having the most :snoop:
 

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This time is really just the “true revealing”.... if you made financial mistakes before the corona, it really is hitting you hard.
 

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Low key though, whats the point of a stimulus if its going towards debts? How is that helping the economy, making people pay their overdraft fees and various back payments aint helping local business.
If dude is behind that means the mother...or someone has been supporting these children 100% financially. And in the course of a week went to being home 24/7 with said children i.e, increased cost. It's sad a dude has to be FORCED to provide financial assistance to his children, but oh well. The mother or whomever has the kids full-time deserves every penny. :manny:
 

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There are a lot of cats out here who complain about child support, but do absolutely nothing to improve their job/career status.

nikkas driving forklifts for 11 years with marginal raises and still fuss about "the system".....Not to mention those "I ain't working no overtime" ass dudes.

Make some type of effort to finding a better job and you will barely notice that garnishment.

Exactly! That's why you see more mothers getting degrees or training classes or whatever. You need more money when you're not getting consistent financial assistance. Then they say you're trying to live like a white person, like my daughter's father did. It's sad some of the mentalities these supposed fathers have. And yeah, I could have "chosen better", but before I was a mother, I was an immature, hot mess and irresponsible, but evolving out of necessity.
 
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