Fat acceptance doesn't work for men because we know better

97Pac

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she just didnt like/respect you, but good job on getting in shape. She did her job, hopefully you never see her again.
She was kinda that way with everyone. I even helped her through the process of buying a house and getting the best deal and she cooked me dinner at her (new then) house. She still hits me up time to time on Facebook.
 

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men get that wakeup call early....never been over 200, but as soon as i reached 190 my whole family was looking at me like....."You don't need to be eating anymore :mjtf:"

Alot of them fat chicks also get it rough tbh....they get lied too, but they experience that wakeup call by being socially isolated....ain't nobody want to be around all that weight.
 
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Eh, women tend to have different fat distributions compared to men but they aren't defying physics. Losing weight is entirely based on calories in and calories out, simply put, if you were put in a starvation experiment, you are losing weight in that controlled environment, no ways around it, anyone that says otherwise doesn't know what they are talking about and it's usually the reason they struggle with weight loss. There is no genetic component of anyone that is defying physics, else, bring them forward, they have a Fields and a Peace Prize to collect, on top of w/e riches follow their groundbreaking discovery.



The only genetic component really contributing to weight gain would be something influencing appetite.

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But on "fat acceptance", I think in it's most charitable form, it has merit, of course people should be aware of the complications that can come with being overweight and obese, but I do think we can cultivate an environment that makes it easier for larger people to go about day to day living, not having to worry about ridicule or some minor things we can correct in transportation, stores, etc., to accommodate them. I can't imagine most feeling like they are perfectly fine, the least we can do is treat them like humans, which could see to a higher probability that they lose weight.


Also, something to consider, this rampant increase in weight across modern countries is rather emergent, it wasn't always like this. I think, future generations will grow up seeing the complications that come with that in later living, and will want nothing to do with it. Stressing about loved ones dying as a result of their obesity is no joke, it will serve as a deterrent for a good number of people.





IDK, let's just stop trying to bash people solely to elevate ourselves, it speaks more about you than anything, nothing good. :ld:
 

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Men don’t lie to their male friends about how they look. If a breh is fat we tell him. Get mad if you don’t like it.
nah I got friends that get emotional even when i use the word fat
plenty of women are attracted to bigger men
look at someone like Rick Ross there are a decent amount of woman that find him attractive
 

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3 out of the 4 are dead..2 died because of health related issues. Fat Joe lost a ton of weight
I never sad being fat is fine. I'm disagreeing with the premise of this thread that fat acceptance isn't a thing among men. No one was making threads about Biggie boasting about being fat and fukking even though he did it in several songs like it was something to be proud of. I don't recall people clowning Heavy D for making a song about being an overweight lover. Of course being out of shape is not good, but let's not act like it hasn't been embraced for profit by male rappers. shyt, we had a whole group called the Fat Boys, and most of their songs were about food.:pachaha:
 

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I never sad being fat is fine. I'm disagreeing with the premise of this thread that fat acceptance isn't a thing among men. No one was making threads about Biggie boasting about being fat and fukking even though he did it in several songs like it was something to be proud of. I don't recall people clowning Heavy D for making a song about being an overweight lover. Of course being out of shape is not good, but let's not act like it hasn't been embraced for profit by male rappers. shyt, we had a whole group called the Fat Boys, and most of their songs were about food.:pachaha:
Those were celebrities with something to offer to the world (except Fat Joe) though. Regular fat nikkas never expected acceptance like fat bytches do these days
 

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I never sad being fat is fine. I'm disagreeing with the premise of this thread that fat acceptance isn't a thing among men. No one was making threads about Biggie boasting about being fat and fukking even though he did it in several songs like it was something to be proud of. I don't recall people clowning Heavy D for making a song about being an overweight lover. Of course being out of shape is not good, but let's not act like it hasn't been embraced for profit by male rappers. shyt, we had a whole group called the Fat Boys, and most of their songs were about food.:pachaha:

I hear you. Biggie and Heavy D had great fashion sense and wore clothes that didn't make them look sloppy.

Now a days I see dudes wearing clothes that are wayyy too tight...back in the day when I used to watch url battles I used to think to myself "why are these battle rapper so sloppy looking :scust: "
 

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nah I got friends that get emotional even when i use the word fat
plenty of women are attracted to bigger men
look at someone like Rick Ross there are a decent amount of woman that find him attractive
I must be older than you
 

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men get that wakeup call early....never been over 200, but as soon as i reached 190 my whole family was looking at me like....."You don't need to be eating anymore :mjtf:"

Alot of them fat chicks also get it rough tbh....they get lied too, but they experience that wakeup call by being socially isolated....ain't nobody want to be around all that weight.
190 isn't bad depending on how tall you are. What is your height? @JamesJabdi
 
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