Interesting perspective..
But, I think the real issue is that some Brehs feel that Blk men don't need to go abroad to find someone and that they can be just as successful finding a woman in the States.
My thing is that a Breh should do whatever he feel he need to do to get what he want. He has the same choices in life as everyone else.
We don't know every person's circumstance to say what they can get or not get.
If a Breh feel that he need to slide over to Thailand or wherever to get a woman, then what's the problem? It's his life!!
Brehettes get to decide who they wanna deal with or not with lil push back. How come Brehs can't get the same benefit of doubt and courtesy?
I'm not too invested in this particular Breh's situation to state his motives. But, he is where is dealing with whoever he is dealing with.
Whether his motives is genuine/sincere or not is on him. No different than anyone else on this..*shrugs*
I’m a live and let live person so for me I could care less. But some people value perception a lot and they just feel that if too many brehs go traveling for sexual purposes then it could bring a negative perception. Mind you I’m dating a woman of Caribbean background so I’ve gotten to hear how there’s already a general feeling of the women being perceived from a lens of exoticism so there’s already a historic perception.
But I do agree, people should mind their business because everyone is different as are their motives. Besides, it’s more commendable that they’re actually traveling and seeing the world instead of staying cooped up over here finger wagging.
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