Fat lady goes viral on Twitter after getting ghosted on date

was the dude wrong to ghost her?

  • no she big as hell

    Votes: 71 60.7%
  • nah, i bet she tried to catfish him

    Votes: 46 39.3%

  • Total voters
    117

badtguy

Superstar
Joined
Sep 30, 2015
Messages
7,613
Reputation
-334
Daps
27,857
:stopitslime: bytch lying.

Honestly I don't think a black man would do this. It's some shyt you see white frat boys do in films and on television.

Facts black men not going through the trouble of chatting with a bih unless we trying to get alil something

. As a black man. I'd at least get some head or hit it a few times before I bush her.
 

xoxodede

Superstar
Joined
Aug 6, 2015
Messages
11,068
Reputation
9,260
Daps
51,652
Reppin
Michigan/Atlanta
I feel bad for her. But, she has to work on herself and her weight. She is morbidly obese -- and will never find what she is looking for.

As someone who have dealt with an eating disorder (EDNOS/restrictive eating) almost all my life -- the times I have been overweight in the past - were the worst times of my life.

She can't be happy being that size -- "fat' acceptance" is a joke -- it's giving up on yourself.

She needs to seek therapy -- and well as go see an allergist to see if she has a food allergy/sensitivity that's making it hard for her to lose weight.
 

Apollo Creed

Look at your face
Supporter
Joined
Feb 20, 2014
Messages
58,027
Reputation
14,030
Daps
217,557
Reppin
Handsome Boyz Ent
I feel bad for her. But, she has to work on herself and her weight. She is morbidly obese -- and will never find what she is looking for.

As someone who have dealt with an eating disorder (restrictive eating) almost all my life -- the times I have been overweight in the past - were the worst times of my life.

She can't be happy being that size -- "fat' acceptance" is a joke -- it's giving up on yourself.

She needs to seek therapy -- and well as go see an allergist to see if she has a food allergy/sensitivity that's making it hard for her to lose weight.

Forget dating. Chick is heading down a path of death.
 

3rdWorld

Veteran
Joined
Mar 24, 2014
Messages
47,059
Reputation
4,499
Daps
137,992
She seems fine to me..Id date her.
These new age kids are so white washed and mainstream, their natural instinct for thick women has all but disappeared.
 

feelosofer

#ninergang
Joined
May 17, 2012
Messages
51,142
Reputation
8,629
Daps
149,107
Reppin
Brick City, NJ
Let's be reality. I see these type of women all the time. Hell I got a neice like that. I like to call the Bougie BBW. She's usually pretty attractive generally speaking in the face. She has overweight but still has a fairly desirable body shape.

But

She's in her 20s maybe early 30s at the most. She basically grew up in the body acceptance era. On top of that she grew up sheltered/in the suburbs so basically she's one of these new blacks. I can tell that she was probably pursued by Black men (of all shapes) and fat white dudes. She curved them because she saw herself as a dimepiece and felt she was entitled to the Ryan Goslings and Channing Tatums of the world. One probably hit her up and ultimately asked her out and the rest was history.
 

Piff Perkins

Veteran
Joined
May 29, 2012
Messages
53,631
Reputation
20,259
Daps
293,507
First I'll say treating people wrong or disrespectfully is not cool so I sympathize on that level.

But at the same time the fat acceptance movement is anti-science and contributing to the death of people, especially black and brown women. This is a health issue first and foremost. Being obese is probably more dangerous than smoking, and needs to be treated as such. Not saying we need to run up on fat people and "shame" them but more needs to be done to help them. And you know what's not helping them? Telling them that nothing is wrong.
 

Malcolmxxx_23

Let's go panthers
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
107,709
Reputation
-13,991
Daps
326,358
I feel bad for her. But, she has to work on herself and her weight. She is morbidly obese -- and will never find what she is looking for.

As someone who have dealt with an eating disorder (EDNOS/restrictive eating) almost all my life -- the times I have been overweight in the past - were the worst times of my life.

She can't be happy being that size -- "fat' acceptance" is a joke -- it's giving up on yourself.

She needs to seek therapy -- and well as go see an allergist to see if she has a food allergy/sensitivity that's making it hard for her to lose weight.
Your a very nice person
 
Top