I could care less if ya'll like fat women. I could care less if ya'll like WW. It's clear ya'll like both.if he dates all races of women including black women but just prefers fat women is it an issue? What if he likes black women too, but is talking about his preferred look in a black woman? Is it more so about the nuance in how we discuss what we like that is the issue? Unfortunately we cant change what we are attracted to but how can we identify and control for our biases when discussing our likes and dislikes?
I agree with you in that when the line between giving voice to your standards and what you like crosses the boundary into uplifting racist or otherwise dogmatic ideologies on beauty and attractiveness (ie someone liking white women more and putting down black women by voicing how black women need to look more like white women) it's definitely unacceptable.
However, I don't respect any man who thirsts after the oppressors throw aways.
if he dates all races of women including black women but just prefers fat women is it an issue? What if he likes black women too, but is talking about his preferred look in a black woman? Is it more so about the nuance in how we discuss what we like that is the issue? Unfortunately we cant change what we are attracted to but how can we identify and control for our biases when discussing our likes and dislikes?







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