Those type of chicks you described are ultra rare..because even if shorty is cool..in my experience they tend to get mad and lose respect for dudes who don't try to fukk them.
Most women they throw it at a dude and if he don't bite not only do they lose attraction they fall all the back and in some cases disrespect the dude whenever they can.
Hmmm. Now that I think about it, I haven't really had a man that's a friend that wasn't trying to have sex eventually. Whether it was their real intent from the start or a friendship/association where we knew each other for a long time. Like we will start off cool and everything, no intentions on my end but they get interested or try for it, when I'm may not reciprocate then it gets a little awkward or whatever depending on the dude, if their understanding or not. But I haven't Been the type to throw it or flirt just off top; because for one, I normally get approached first and two, leave that up to the man , I was brought up and taught that if a man likes you , he does the initial start of things.
Basically for me, what I'm saying is that I can be friends without crossing the boundary and not all women think on that level, like I just don't sit around and dream of dyck all day or getting with different dudes, there's life and interests outside of that. There's a time and place for that type of distraction. because I've had a couple of friends that I knew since I was like 6 and a couple of friends that are mutual friends of my brothers and they know not to cross that line already. People from my neighborhood but I knew not to give in to their advances bc that's how girls get a bad rep. Then there's a few that lied on me but that's a whole other story.