Fell out with my bro over money

[Atlrocafella]

Breh you paid for your own separate room and chipped in on the bungalow too?

Yeah I did. There wasn’t enough bedrooms in the bungalow for everyone so some people had to sleep on couches and the floors. Plus when heauxs would come over, niccas would need a room to smash and shyt.

I just partied there, but when it was time to go to sleep or smash a chick, I had my own personal space to do so without interruption.

 

[Manolo]

Yea but that’s tough. Getting to know a nikka and being friends to moving into together is totally different. At that point you signing a contract with a nikka you barley know at all.

That’s true but in NY it’s not uncommon to live with people you don’t know like that. My first apartment was with two people I didn’t know like that and they turned out to be some funny shyt too.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

That’s true but in NY it’s not uncommon to live with people you don’t know like that. My first apartment was with two people I didn’t know like that and they turned out to be some funny shyt too.

Yea but I’m sure you go into already preparing to be burnt tho lol.

 

[BlaccSunrise]

I either just give people the money or tell them no straight up. Cause I know how I am already. I'll fukk around and slap the shyt out of a nikka on impulse for owing me money and tryna come back around like it's good. And your "homie" of 13 years is a bytch if he's still cool with that dude after pulling some shyt like that. Any of my real homies gonna treat it like it happened to them and press that nikka every day to get that debt paid.

Big facts in the red. The 13 year "friend" is an automatic p*ssy nikka for continuing to associate himself with someone like that

 

[NeilCartwright]

Big facts in the red. The 13 year "friend" is an automatic p*ssy nikka for continuing to associate himself with someone like that

I feel the same way, which is why I made the thread. But my bros point was “Well, he’s still a good person. He’s just bad with money”

I told him that may be true but why even let me get into a situation like this with him when I was introduced to him through you? Then he goes on and on about how I should have recognized the fact he was bad with money, etc.

That doesn’t change the fact that both of em said they had it prior to us booking. And may be a week or 2 late after we get back. I’m not a tyrant, I understand but not no shyt like this. And in my book it’s a character flaw to even go on a trip knowing you assed out financially with your car/job or w/e is going on

Crazy shyt is I talked to my other bros and they said the same thing…they’d never pull no shyt like this and I told em I wouldn’t either. It is what it is though

 

[Thegospel]

Lmaooooo thats foul

fell out with my bro that i knew since elemtary cause he was texting me paragraphs saying he need to hold $600 and promises to pay me back.

then like 2 months go by of him promising to pay me back but dodging me then i see him he saying oh remeber when you said this and that 3 years ago to me well i aint like that so my spirits telling me not to pay you back. but ima do it.

i stop picking up his calls and havnt had contact with him since feburary and my life has been so much better. my girl notice to that ive been way better too. 600$ was a cheap price to pay to get him out my life

 

[Hoshi_Toshi]

“He’s a good person, He just bad with money”?



if you knew that why tf did you let your other bro do business with him?

 

[GnauzBookOfRhymes]

I feel where you're coming from. Me personally if I ever introduce or refer someone I know to someone else, I will feel ultimately responsible (even if objectively speaking I had no hand in whatever transaction/discussion may occur between them).

That is called being a stand up person.

Unfortunately nowadays ppl don't have those kinds of morals.

One thing I would say is that it may be that your friend does in fact feel somewhat responsible. But sometimes friendships are like relationships where one person is more "dominant". He may not feel comfortable pushing the deadbeat friend beyond just "hey bro c'mon man just pay him." People that do this shyt once more than likely have been doing it all their lives. He has most likely did that shyt to your friend before, and might be holding off bc he assumes your friend will come to the rescue...but your friend may not be willing to do it once again.

If you actually value the friendship, maybe ask him if that's the case. 13 yrs is a long time and it may be that he's willing to give you the inside scoop.

As far as the money, obviously it depends on your financial situation, how much it is etc. If we're talking thousands then I wouldn't just let it go. If we're talking $500 then it's not worth it.