Fell out with my bro over money

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drink,smoke,laugh with broke
relatives and friends.
never move with nothing pertaining to money
with them because your money aint real money to them.



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CarbonBraddock

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That’s the point I’m getting at, my bro of 13 years paid his portion but his homeboy hasn’t. Then got the nerve to tell me that’s between me and him..I’m tryna explain to him he’s the one to introduced us! I don’t know this fool

Add in the fact we had a discussion and everyone said they was good for it before we booked.

If I bring my friend to my aunts house, and he steals some shyt, who is she going to hold responsible, me or him:jbhmm: (I’m just giving an example)
what did he steal from the house?
 

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I feel like you're not hearing me.

Your bro don't have nothing to do with this situation between you and @Another Man

That's not his fault. He paid you back. He took care of his debt.

If the other dude ain't paying you, that's not on your bro. That's on the deadbeat dude.

What you want your bro to do? Give the dude a spanking? :dame:


Everybody involved in this situation is a grown man, and none of you are responsible for the actions of the other one.

As far as the analogy about having your friend in your aunt's house, and him stealing something, and your aunt holding you responsible... that's a false equivalency.

A better analogy would be you invite your friend over to your aunt's house, your aunt tells your friend to come back the next day for dinner, but she wants him to bring a glass of wine and she wants you to bring a glass of wine.

You bring your glass of wine but your friend doesn't bring his.

Your aunt is not going to hold you responsible in that situation. She's going to hold him responsible.

This some stupid ass shyt homie u prolly the grimey nikka who owe op but on some bronx tale shyt u got rid of the real grimey cat in ur circle for xyz money u good fam
 

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That would've had me tight as hell,might've had to pull up on that note:whew:

I don't loan out money I can't stand to lose,so I normally ain't chasing nikkas down for the 100$ I loaned them.
When you start hiding like Anne Frank I usually just feel bad for you.
99% of nikkas won't come back and try to make it right either,they will just rather find new friends.
But consider it a blessing,people who care about money like that are dangerous for generous people to be around.

my rule is i dont lend out money that im not comfortable losing.
but having this nikka out my life was really a blessing that money cant count for. i couldve lost 1k and it wouldve been worth it honestly. i was always making excuses for him cause i knew him since i was elementary. but that was the last straw. going no contact was the best thing that ever happened.
he always has a constant theme in his life where he always has a falling out with people close to him. destroys all long term relationships for stuff he make up in his head. on some joe budden shyt.
 

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Eventually you'll discover its a small price to pay to discover he wasn't truly your friend. They inadvertently did you a big favour.
Imagine this didn't happen and you still trusting the breh:manny:
 

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That’s the point I’m getting at, my bro of 13 years paid his portion but his homeboy hasn’t. Then got the nerve to tell me that’s between me and him..I’m tryna explain to him he’s the one to introduced us! I don’t know this fool

Add in the fact we had a discussion and everyone said they was good for it before we booked.

If I bring my friend to my aunts house, and he steals some shyt, who is she going to hold responsible, me or him:jbhmm: (I’m just giving an example)
Why wouldn’t you get the money first?
 

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nikka was out there well aware of his checking account status but was living high off the hog, popping bottles and eating shrimp cocktail on this nikka's tab. :mjlol:



I hope it was Spirit or Frontier my nikka. :francis:

Nikka probably flying first class Air France

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Nah homeslice. His boy was at fault for introducing his friend to an aint sh*t nikka, vouching for him to get what they wanted (a vacation) only to act like it was his friend's problem when the aint sh*t nikka didn't pay.

If this was a street situation, good luck telling a killer the person you vouched for can't pay and it's not your problem. Good luck forreal :pachaha:

And if this was a business situation, your credibility with said business would be ruined if you bought someone into a transaction that didn't honor their agreement. They'd never do business with you again and rightfully so :manny:

OP....NEVER EVER do this again without getting the money in your hands. Personally, I wouldn't want that nikka for a friend anymore. One, he hangs with aint sh*t nikkas and he corny for trying to play you like it's your fault for a nikka he vouched for.

Are you sure the friend "vouched" for the other dude though:patrice:? Did the friend tell OP to make these arrangements and decide to pay for that other guys ticket before receiving money? Thats kind of an important part to this story imo.

If I introduce you to somebody,and we all plan a trip. In my mind it doesn't matter if the other person ain't shyt when it comes to money. Because I'm assuming common sense says if they don't have the money,you don't get them a ticket:dahell:.

I'm sorry but I still can't wrap my mind around that one. I don't feel this is a "vouch" situation,if OP made this crazy ass agreement .


If I tell you I have a friend who wants to buy a car from you. Is it my fault if you give that man the car before receiving cash,just because you met him through me? Did I really "vouch" for that man:mindblown:?
 

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Yea never understood how people do shyt like this. Id feel like a poece of shyt for cheating someone like that
 

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Are you sure the friend "vouched" for the other dude though:patrice:? Did the friend tell OP to make these arrangements and decide to pay for that other guys ticket before receiving money? Thats kind of an important part to this story imo.

If I introduce you to somebody,and we all plan a trip. In my mind it doesn't matter if the other person ain't shyt when it comes to money. Because I'm assuming common sense says if they don't have the money,you don't get them a ticket:dahell:.

I'm sorry but I still can't wrap my mind around that one. I don't feel this is a "vouch" situation,if OP made this crazy ass agreement .


If I tell you I have a friend who wants to buy a car from you. Is it my fault if you give that man the car before receiving cash,just because you met him through me? Did I really "vouch" for that man:mindblown:?

Bruh of course he vouched for him. Why else you think he paid for a trip for a nikka he never met. Think :mindblown:
 
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