Fellas 28 and over…what are some concerns/fears you have as you get closer to 40?

[WaveWhisperer]

I fear goin backwards



i cannot go backwards.






















“Standing down mlk,staring at broken dreams “

 

[King Poetic]

What’s in it for the woman

what u mean?? In terms of older women wanting a man at a older age??

a companion, someone they can tell their co workers or friends that they have someone

 

[humminbird]

getting behind in tech
being fat

 

[fifth column]

what u mean?? In terms of older women wanting a man at a older age??

a companion, someone they can tell their co workers or friends that they have someone

I’m talking about the woman your are looking for. You listed what you want but it’s really what is she getting that will interest her.

 

[Xcenai]

being broke on top that list

 

[Atlrocafella]

Health issues mostly. I continue to work out, eat better and and get an annual physical each year. Niccas dropping dead in their 30’s got me shook

everything else is on auto-pilot. Job is good, my main will be a nurse at the end of the year and we will probably have 1 kid together.

 

[King Poetic]

I’m talking about the woman your are looking for. You listed what you want but it’s really what is she getting that will interest her.

main thing I come across with the older women is a dude who is decent looking for 1 , but more importantly provider/financial security …

living in LA and dealing with all type of women over 35 , majority past relationships has been with bums , even the so call ballers who tell them chicks what they want to hear was broke nikkas who was good with flashing beer money club money or a trip to Vegas once in awhile but u know them nikkas had no benefits after that..

 

[King Poetic]

Wouldn't mind finding a wifey, but my biggest concern is my older family members dying. Watching your parents/grandparents get older and less healthy sucks.

As far as hypertension, already have that issue but it was probably inevitable. My dad has always had terrible blood pressure (neither of us is fat) so that shyt was always coming for me.

understand..

Loss my dad 5 months ago after 4 years of battling lung cancer and watch him deteriorate the last few months was the worst thing life for me

but I realized now my attention is focusing on my mom since she’s old to and making sure I’m healthy to be there for her

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Death

 

[Hey_zeus]

Starting a family in this world with this dating pool.

 

[Mass]

Only major one socially is that an increasing % of women are going to be attracted to me for a lifestyle or status rather than who I am.

When youre 40+ these 30 and under chicks like being around you because you represent stability but they'd rather be messing a guy from their generation. I try to keep my body up but as I get into my 40s and get to my 50s I feel like it's also going to start to turn into a tricking type situation.

I've been married and divorced. I want something stable and consistent as I get older.
I don't want to be that single 50 year old guy with women draped all on him on his boat knowing those women don't give a single fuk about me beyond my lifestyle.

Other than that I'm looking forward to it.

Not sure what everyone else is going to say but this is pretty much it for me.
I have everything I want, and I don’t care about having a “roster” any more. One solid shawty is really it. But Solid is really the word.

not no bytch chasing me because I’m stable and have a good job and all that stupid shyt. You can usually tell when it’s like that because they don’t really like you. For example you might be into video games and a real chick that likes you will always be cool wit it, but them other bytches will try to find ways to clown you and motivate you into being what THEY THINK is REALLY attractive (and it ain’t you)

 

[boriquaking]

Diabetes runs in my family. I’m extremely far from that being a reality for me but I’d like to keep it that way.


Was finally diagnosed with ADHD so staying ahead of that.

just making sure everything continues to run smoothly, and making sure I take care of myself.

i really don’t feel a day over 20

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

My hairline and my joints.

Mine have already

 

[L&HH]

Right now hairline. I can already see my corners fading I’m thinking about buying keeps or hims. Also setting money aside for that trip to Turkey.

Also not a huge worry but a passing thought is whether I want kids or not. And if I do I don’t want to have them so old I can’t do shyt with them as they grow. I’m 29 so I got some time for that.

 

[Womb Raider]

My health


I'd like to have a wife and kids but I'm not dead set on it. I just don't want to be in a dead end situation with a dysfunctional family