Fellas 28 and over…what are some concerns/fears you have as you get closer to 40?

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Losing my parents honestly keeps me up at night.

I can’t tell you how many times I just have this feeling of dread wash over me out of nowhere.

I’m going to be such an emotional wreck

 

[BigMan]

Sometimes I feel like imma die by 40

 

[Easy-E]

Health, money, not finding a good woman.

 

[Black Mamba]

Is FF7 Remake going to be completed entirely by then?

 

[Scaaar]

Only major one socially is that an increasing % of women are going to be attracted to me for a lifestyle or status rather than who I am.

When youre 40+ these 30 and under chicks like being around you because you represent stability but they'd rather be messing a guy from their generation. I try to keep my body up but as I get into my 40s and get to my 50s I feel like it's also going to start to turn into a tricking type situation.

I've been married and divorced. I want something stable and consistent as I get older.
I don't want to be that single 50 year old guy with women draped all on him on his boat knowing those women don't give a single fuk about me beyond my lifestyle.

Other than that I'm looking forward to it.

Dap+ Rep breh!!! I'm in the same situation. I've been married and would like to try it again and settle down but the women around me I just don't trust. I always wanted the woman I be with be someone that I grinded with to get to this position not the other way around since I know that love and loyalty is more authentic since they were with me when I had nothing. Now when I go out I can tell that chics have looked up my salary and how the switch up the locations of where they want to eat. They're immediately bushed. Also had some chics straight up tell me that I'm the perfect candidate to be a great dad since I'm a decent dude with a good job. I can't trust having sex with chics like that either. My only hope now is to find a practical like minded chic that has something to lose as well. But that's like a needle in a haystack in this day and age