Fellas, can you handle being called out on some ho shyt?

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I don't do ho shyt like gossip about other men so I've never had anyone call me out like it's presented in the OP.

I can take criticism though as long as it's presented in a respectful way. That's all I ask. If someone is going to criticize me do it in a respectful way and like an adult. Not like some overgrown kid or a female on her period. Many dudes are hoes themselves and act like females on their period so they don't know how to present their criticism in a respectful way.
 

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No I didn't assume. I asked you have you considered using the same time you use sleeping around towards business. Then YOU assumed that i implied you didn't make money. Something I never said.You just got defensive and starting hurling insults.

But even if I did assume that how can you claim to deal with criticism well when you're reaction is to fly off the handle?


You assumed that the time I used towards sleeping around would be best suited for making money or towards business. I also didn't take that as criticism. In fact I didn't feel I needed to address your inquiry into how I spend my time or my pockets because it derailed from the topic.
I expect you to backtrack and deny it but as a female YOU know exactly what you was doing , which had me smh saying "look at this funky bytch, she tried it". You did what women generally do which is worrying about a nikkas time and his resources/pockets. If in your heart of hearts think I could do better then say so. Build a nikka up with ya wisdom on the topic. The time you opened ya mouth and said what you said was prime opportunity to say so but you slick and conniving wit it.
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You assumed that the time I used towards sleeping around would be best suited for making money or towards business. I also didn't take that as criticism. In fact I didn't feel I needed to address your inquiry into how I spend my time or my pockets because it derailed from the topic.
I expect you to backtrack and deny it but as a female YOU know exactly what you was doing , which had me smh saying "look at this funky bytch, she tried it". You did what women generally do which is worrying about a nikkas time and his resources/pockets. If in your heart of hearts think I could do better then say so. Build a nikka up with ya wisdom on the topic. The time you opened ya mouth and said what you said was prime opportunity to say so but you slick and conniving wit it.
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It was an AMA thread. How can you derail that? :russ::deadmanny:

And how am I a "funky bytch" because I asked you a question but then in the same breath want me to "build you up." How am I suppose to build you up when I ask you a question and then I'm every bytch and whore under the sun?

YOU assumed I was being slick. I wasn't. You just used it as an excuse to shyt on me. Frfr I don't need to beat around no damn bush. If I thought you was a broke bum i would have said it. I do it to anyone else on here. You are no exception.

Anyway, you gonna think whatever you want. Either way you don't take criticism well. I didn't come at you mad aggressive but you did based on a criticism you assumed and didn't like.

Taking criticism well isn't cussing someone out when they criticize you. Periodt

It's crazy how ya'll men swear you want respect but don't have an ounce of it to give your damn selves.
 

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It was an AMA thread. How can you derail that? :russ::deadmanny:

And how am I a "funky bytch" because I asked you a question but then in the same breath want me to "build you up." How am I suppose to build you up when I ask you a question and then I'm every bytch and whore under the sun?

YOU assumed I was being slick. I wasn't. You just used it as an excuse to shyt on me. Frfr I don't need to beat around no damn bush. If I thought you was a broke bum i would have said it. I do it to anyone else on here. You are no exception.

Anyway, you gonna think whatever you want. Either way you don't take criticism well. I didn't come at you mad aggressive but you did based on a criticism you assumed and didn't like.

Taking criticism well isn't cussing someone out when they criticize you. Periodt

It's crazy how ya'll men swear you want respect but don't have an ounce of it to give your damn selves.
Do you know the definition of critism? I go by this one.. the expression of disapproval of someone or something based on perceived faults or mistakes.
Granted you right it was an AMA, but the question you posed was based on assumptions.
We good on this cuz I titled the thread "fellas" for a reason
 

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Do you know the definition of critism? I go by this one.. the expression of disapproval of someone or something based on perceived faults or mistakes.
Granted you right it was an AMA, but the question you posed was based on assumptions.
We good on this cuz I titled the thread "fellas" for a reason

Again, you spend time sleeping around. That is not assumption. That's a fact you advertise regularly. I perceived it and then I questioned if that energy could be allocated somewhere else. It fits the definition. And your reaction in that thread contradicts the premise of this thread.

You don't take criticism well and now when confronted with another criticism you wanna deflect. It's cool though, at least you didn't call me a bytch this time...oh wait you kinda did.

Oh well, you fellas carry on.
 

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I can. I got called out before on sohh. I don't remember the subject matter but I was wilin out. I still thank unc @Mowgli to this day but the shyt that was communicated to me and in a way only I received it and was so poignant enough that it registered to me immediately which caused me to reflect on what I did or was doing and change my mindset. Me and unc cool beans right now.

Fast forward to 2019, I checked a nikka I'm working for (blk dude) he my client on some ho shyt I heard thru the chatty patty hotline and with my own 2 ears, he ain't know I was in the cubicle at that time.. so I confronted him after work and let him know I ain't appreciate it, told him its some bytch shyt and told him how to he should have handled it and told him how it's gonna go down in the future if the same shyt happened again. We dapped up, apologizes came from me and from him and we went on our way, no hard feelings.

Now over the summer (couple months) you can say our relationship changed, dude can't look me in the eye, he avoids me outside of meetings, Florida State University MBA nikka stuttering and incoherent now when he gotta talk to me or , stays quiet, ain't joking around no more, I even seen him wait in his car till I get out my car to avoid me. All I did was keep it 100, professional, check dude and gave proper instructions on how to be a better client/man.
Listen, if I'm out of pocket on some ho shyt and you can justify it, I'm willing to eat that and not get in my feelings. Can you?
No matter what, sometimes you have to check a grown man on some hoe shyt.

Just this year I had to do something similar at work.

Went out for drinks with some Latinos. Young cats. We had a good time. Drunk as hell talkin about life and what not but sometimes folks can take kindness, for weakness, even if you know Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu.

A couple weeks later at work this young man I drank with is play disrespecting me around the office like he does with his little friends.

The first time I'm meh about it. The second time in the parking lot I had to tell him to knock that shyt off and decided I'd have to approach him alone because he seemed to think I was playing.

A week later
I'm in a random hallway doing my job and he comes out a meeting with all his coworkers and his manager

As they pass and say hello I stop him and ask if I can talk to him in this small room in the hallway alone.

We go in there and I'm looking :demonic: my voice shaking and I'm asking him if there's a problem because the disrespect is making me mad. He looked surprised and said he didn't know it was an issue, he said he'd chill and there was no problem from there firward

Probably a year later on his last day we all went for drinks and he said i put the fear of God in him and I had to inform him that as you age you can't be playing with grown men the way you do your peers. He thanked me for all the jewelz id given him and that was that.

Respect is Paramount. If someone can't handle being checked on some hoe shyt, when they're guilty they just aren't ready to be a man.
 

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Again, you spend time sleeping around. That is not assumption. That's a fact you advertise regularly. I perceived it and then I questioned if that energy could be allocated somewhere else. It fits the definition. And your reaction in that thread contradicts the premise of this thread.

You don't take criticism well and now when confronted with another criticism you wanna deflect. It's cool though, at least you didn't call me a bytch this time...oh wait you kinda did.

Oh well, you fellas carry on.
Didn't you check someone on some hoe shyt with your bare hands ? A grown Man?
 

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Would you have done that if there weren't other men there to protect you?

Yes, I've bopped many people in my life and each and everytime I am ready to throw hands. Besides if the dudes around me were interested in defending me it would have never got to the point anyway.
 
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