Weight matters to me more than height, and I can overlook weight if the woman is working on herself just like how I'm trying to stay active myself. The difference between men and women is that women want to date a man who is better than them.
You make 3k a month? well your man better make 6k a month or else he broke.
You 5'5? well your man better be 6'4 or else he short.
You been to 5 countries? well your man better have been to 10.
You have a Masters degree? well your man better have 2 masters degrees or a PHD.
You go to the gym once a week? well your man better go 5 times.
Yall get the picture. If a woman is taller than me, I don't care as long as she's a good person. Im at a point in my life where I'm thinking about the next woman I meet up being the last.
Are you empathetic?
Are you patient?
Do you have curiosity and a desire to learn?
Do you know how to critically think?
Do you know how to respect your elders and other people?
Do you have discipline and work ethic?
I hold a woman to the same standards I hold myself to. No more no less. Those are the things I'm looking for. pretty much everything else is secondary.