Fellas: Everyday looks or one that cleans up nicely?

[Music Fiend]

Was talking to my boy about this today. He kinda just asked me my thoughts and it was a hard question to answer tbh. Figured I'd see what the coli has to say.

In a world with social media where we have become accustomed to women wearing make-up and tight clothing, we're much numb to natural.

Is it a deal breaker for you if your girl is average 5/10 on a daily basis? Like she doesn't try or dress up, just kinda throws on a tee and some baggy sweats 95% of the time. But when she goes out on the weekend she cleans up hella nice and turns into a 7+.

Or do you require your girl to "look presentable/feminine" the majority of the time. You know the type, hair usually on point, makeup on, nails done, heels... etc


Example: Dresses like this everyday

Then turns into

once a week.

 

[Ol’Otis]

damn thats tough

bcuz i dont do everyday thing


imma go with everyday, she needs to look presentable in public can't have both of us looking bummy

 

[Tilesp4p]

Damn, lowkey really got question OP....ima post up in this thread for answers

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Was talking to my boy about this today. He kinda just asked me my thoughts and it was a hard question to answer tbh. Figured I'd see what the coli has to say.

In a world with social media where we have become accustomed to women wearing make-up and tight clothing, we're much numb to natural.

Is it a deal breaker for you if your girl is average 5/10 on a daily basis? Like she doesn't try or dress up, just kinda throws on a tee and some baggy sweats 95% of the time. But when she goes out on the weekend she cleans up hella nice and turns into a 7+.

Or do you require your girl to "look presentable/feminine" the majority of the time. You know the type, hair usually on point, makeup on, nails done, heels... etc


Example: Dresses like this everyday

Then turns into

once a week.

your example leads me to believe you dealing with a bum ass bytch




see the first thing that came to my mind is.... "my girl puts on makeup and looks nice daily cause she goes to fukking work"


so right there she's looking presentable and cleaned up 5 days out the week


the weekend is when she'll lounge around in sweats and chill.... but that's also the time where we'd go out somewhere... and then she'd get dressed up for that too



so no... i'm not going for some chick that's gonna look raggedy 5 days out the week.. cause she either at home doing nothing.. or going out to her job looking fukked up... and i'm not condoning that type of shyt


but i have no problems if my girl wants to chill on the weekend and not do all that... which is what most girls do anyway.. . but then again i'm not wifing up no 5's

 

[keepemup]

So long as, as you put it ,"...when she goes out on the weekend she cleans up hella nice and turns into a 7+." is possible. I'm good. I don't think I want or need a girl that gets dressed up to go to check the mail.

 

[Taadow]

I like for her to be dressed for the occasion.

 

[At30wecashout]

The everyday one would be cool if she didnt remind me of Namond from The Wire.

 

[Music Fiend]

Right good answers. It's not a specific woman, and not one I'm dealing with.

However context could help. Me and the bro know some women in college with hard majors who this applies perfectly to.

So they aren't going to work but they are around ppl.

They study hard and don't really wear make-up and are actually pretty girl when they try. They aren't bums. But their normal routine can't be more then wake up, shower, throw on a tee and some sweats, tights, or workout shorts, and cover their head with a beanie.

It always stumped me. On one end I like it. You are shocked everytime you see em outside of college. But on another end, I can't say I'd be proud to be walking around with em boo 'd up with bad chicks who are on point walking by.

The only downfall is when I catch the bad ones who are always on point on an off day, sometimes it's . Not that they are ugly, but when the make up comes off you are like

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Right good answers. It's not a specific woman, and not one I'm dealing with.

However context could help. Me and the bro know some women in college with hard majors who this applies perfectly to.

So they aren't going to work but they are around ppl.

They study hard and don't really wear make-up and are actually pretty girl when they try. They aren't bums. But their normal routine can't be more then wake up, shower, throw on a tee and some sweats, tights, or workout shorts, and cover their head with a beanie.

It always stumped me. On one end I like it. You are shocked everytime you see em outside of college. But on another end, I can't say I'd be proud to be walking around with em boo 'd up with bad chicks who are on point walking by.

The only downfall is when I catch the bad ones who are always on point on an off day, sometimes it's . Not that they are ugly, but when the make up comes off you are like

ok school i can understand.. i was referring to a grown ass woman

but still.... they fukking bums in the sense that they can't even put on a LITTLE something... how much harder is it to wear pants than sweats? ok you don't have to do saturday night makeup... can you put on some lip gloss and tie up a bun or something

they obviously not trying to impress anyone... and they can't possibly be worried about men, cause they know they ain't finding any doing that


but nah... you can't be a 5 and not give a fukk about your clothes... only dimes get away with this..

all she did was put on some gloss and some eye makeup and brush her damn hair... can't be that damn hard

 

[Music Fiend]

ok school i can understand.. i was referring to a grown ass woman

but still.... they fukking bums in the sense that they can't even put on a LITTLE something... how much harder is it to wear pants than sweats? ok you don't have to do saturday night makeup... can you put on some lip gloss and tie up a bun or something

they obviously not trying to impress anyone... and they can't possibly be worried about men, cause they know they ain't finding any doing that


but nah... you can't be a 5 and not give a fukk about your clothes... only dimes get away with this..

all she did was put on some gloss and some eye makeup and brush her damn hair... can't be that damn hard

Yeah India's a baddie.

You know, we on the same wave. I told him it's a deal breaker for me. Not cuz of the make-up, truth be told I actually refused to date a woman when i first got to college for this. I wasn't embarrassed of her. But it's like yo, I'm tryna walk around and feel I have something worth showin off next to me.

For me, I viewed it as blatant disrespect. Everywhere you go you represent me if we're dating. As soon as these other chicks catch you with a chick who doesn't care they either gonna think you're a lame for entertaining it or they are gonna test you.... pop right up while you with her just to shyt on her.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Yeah India's a baddie.

You know, we on the same wave. I told him it's a deal breaker for me. Not cuz of the make-up, truth be told I actually refused to date a woman when i first got to college for this. I wasn't embarrassed of her. But it's like yo, I'm tryna walk around and feel I have something worth showin off next to me.

For me, I viewed it as blatant disrespect. Everywhere you go you represent me if we're dating. As soon as these other chicks catch you with a chick who doesn't care they either gonna think you're a lame for entertaining it or they are gonna test you.... pop right up while you with her just to shyt on her.

I feel the same way breh.. it's the fact you aren't trying.. i'm not asking for a dress, heels and an hour to get ready job... just do SOMETHING

you not even turning me on with that shyt... why would i want to be with a woman who doesn't even look like someone i'd date my damn self, most of the week

 

[beezy]

I've been tellin my girl for years that she does too much tbh.. She loves bein dolled up cuz it makes her feel more confident or whatever, but personally, i hate feeling overdressed. She's definitely toned it down over the years and gets casual now, but yea, not bummy. Just presentable. Its not a contest everywhere you go

 

[Music Fiend]

Anyone else?