Fellas have you ever gotten great dating advice from a woman

SunnyD

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Focus on your purpose





















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If you have REAL (not superficial / social) female friends who give you the unvarnished truth because they don’t care about being judged, you unlock a new level and insight into their nature.
 

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Yeah literally one of my big sisters at the time.
She told me keep working and stay focused cause this ain't it fyi the girl is a social climber.
 
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My father always said get a woman talking and she’ll tell you all you need to know.

I don’t really seek advice on dating from other women, because many women are different and the most they’ll be able to tell you that would be “universal” is basic stuff you should have known since late High School-early College years.

Instead focus on listening to the woman YOU want to date. And I mean REALLY listen. She’ll literally tell you her pros, cons, faults, strengths, weaknesses, desires, what turns her on & off. If you get really good at listening and asking follow up questions she’ll tell you all about her previous dating habits which will in turn tell YOU if this is a woman you should be taking seriously or not.

Many women give you the blueprint just off a couple conversations. Thats why I don’t have a problem with dinner dates. I can fork over $50-70 bucks for a nice meal or two if I know after she starts eating and a few drinks she’s going to tell me all I need to know about her.
 

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Hell no

But From a third party view, yes
You learn from watching women talk about men/ describe dates they've been on and things men have did to them
 

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No. If you're a dude looking for advice your most likely just unattractive to most women or your average looking. These women are just going to tell you how to be a good servant/simp in the friendzone. They don't tell you how to actually get women/p*ssy.
I actually agree with you 🤷🏾‍♀️

As a woman, I’d be an idiot to get certain advice from men, because any real advice given, even in good faith, would subconsciously benefit men.

As a woman you get advice from a woman who is living the life you want!
As a man you get advice from a man who is living the life you want!

We’re having issues because a lot of us in this community are coming from broken homes/trauma so we aren’t getting the necessary lessons from home.

No man or woman outside your home/family is going to give you the best advice.

The men in family give cut throat advice that my guy friends would never give, because they see me as an extension of themselves. Guess what? If I get married and divorced, abused, etc my guy friends won’t be the ones helping me pick up the pieces. So I’m listening to the men who will help steer me away from certain possibilities.
 

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i hate this place sometimes

what the fukk kind of question is this?

do none of you have sisters? cousins? close female friends/family in your life?

can you really not see past your nose?

yes, take advice from women. they know each other better than you do. just like you know men better than they do.

for fukk's sake, touch grass and talk to humans in real life.
Good points too!
 
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