Agreed
Dating advice from most women is based on what would work for a tall, handsome, educated, gainfully employed man. The dude that women are already attracted to just based on his looks.....if he acts nice, respectful etc., it's like shooting fish in a barrel.
Ugly/below average dude can't be passive like that because he will get nowhere. If the goal is clapping cheeks, regular/ugly brehs gotta be foul at times.
HOWEVER.....if a woman gives legit advice on how to improve yourself (clothes, hygiene etc), that's VERY useful. Women that are good friends with you and honest can help a lot.