Fellas: How does one become trapped in a relationship without kids?

[CinnaSlim]

I hear mad stories about boys and men who are in relationships with women (some crazy and some not) who want to get out but somehow... can't?

Is it a simple case of not wanting to hurt someone's feelings? How does her threatening to take her life if you leave, not make you realize the bytch is crazy and run away as fast and far as you can?** Is it blackmail?

Can you tell me of a time when you felt trapped in a relationship? And how you were able to leave?




** I just learned making this thread that your partner threatening suicide counts as domestic abuse. So here's the National Hotline to make this thread complete:
1-800-799-7233 | 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) | Homepage - La Línea Nacional Contra la Violencia Doméstica

 

[selam]

In every relationship there is a parent and a child.

The planet is just a bunch of grown kids, reliving the first relationships we experienced with Mom and Dad

 

[Aceofspades404]

I think some men date women they really don’t want because the convience of having a gf. They’re really not trapped, just don’t want to deal with being single

 

[Collateral]

When she says, “it took everything in my power to not kill my self last night”


shyt like that gets me tight because you can say I’m selfish for wanting to leave or whatever but you’re 10x times more selfish for wanting to take your life because you can’t have someone.

That stuff can make anyone feel trapped because you don’t want to be the reason for any kind of heartbreak.

 

[Geek Nasty]

Financially trapped I imagine. Money keeps a lot of people together.

 

[iBrowse]

I hear mad stories about boys and men who are in relationships with women (some crazy and some not) who want to get out but somehow... can't?

Is it a simple case of not wanting to hurt someone's feelings? How does her threatening to take her life if you leave, not make you realize the bytch is crazy and run away as fast and far as you can?** Is it blackmail?

Can you tell me of a time when you felt trapped in a relationship? And how you were able to leave?




** I just learned making this thread that your partner threatening suicide counts as domestic abuse. So here's the National Hotline to make this thread complete:
1-800-799-7233 | 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) | Homepage - La Línea Nacional Contra la Violencia Doméstica

Easy: Money or rather the lack thereof. There are many men out here living under a woman’s roof entirely dependent on them for basic necessities and as such they will find themselves putting up with things they normally wouldn’t.

 

[MaxPain]

Either

Hes an indecisive passive dude

Wants reliable snatch On the reg & dont wanna give it up

Shes crazy/threatens suicide/has info on him/doesnt wanna be taken to court (for married men)

Money/living situations

 

[Ol’Otis]

I think some men date women they really don’t want because the convience of having a gf. They’re really not trapped, just don’t want to deal with being single

that's bullshyt





























you have nice teeth btw

 

[Knowledge]

Marriage aka cheaper to keep her after a certain time frame

 

[CoochieMane]

Probably from a financial standpoint or they really don't wanna give up the easy sex.

 

[ZEupTWN]

For the most part Its a mix of the fear of loneliness and fear of going through the process of finding a new partner (who understands you and your dynamic)...

 

[Cat piss martini]

trapped........without kids????
that dont even go together.
that's like saying....gentle rape.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

EIther he likes the convenient p*ssy or he’s one of those types that feels validated by being in a relationship

Either way they need to get their self esteem up

 

[mortuus est]

Financially trapped I imagine. Money keeps a lot of people together.

yep

one of my brehs wants to leave his girl but he's saying he trapped now ,he has no job
she helps him with his rent, is a "down ass chick" as you mericans would say

but during the 2nd year of their relationship she put on mad weight , he aint really feeling it but she helping him pay bills plus he already broke up with her once so now he feels trapped, doesn't want to hurt her feelings but also needs help financially



he said when he glo's up in a few months he might leave her

 

[8WON6]

no prenup.