Fellas...how y'all feel about this?

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Only question i really have is what is the step dad doing with his life...like how much does he make, is he a good dude or a bum...??? Oh wait and also could she get a similar 6 figure job in the city they are already in?

I'd say if your wifey is a blk woman who is smart enough to pull a 6 figure job, then you might wanna consider making that move pleighboi. Most men don't like their woman making any real bread much less 6 figures because it makes a woman not need to rely on a man. It's a low key power struggle. I LOVE having me a smart hard working woman making as much as she can to enrich OUR lives because i'm a hard working man who's gonna do the same.
 

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It depends. Can she find the same job at home? It's really pointless to judge that situation cuz dude could be right.

Dude may have a lot goin In their city or have big investments or plans.

On the other hand, if that what she wants good for her.
 

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He's probably jealous. People don't like thinking this way but it's true. Your partner can be jealous of you and want to block you from your goals and succeeding.
Or maybe he just doesn't want to move to Atlanta :yeshrug:



It's weird cause I'm in the same position right now. Living in VA. Got a job offer to Atlanta. My girl don't wanna move away from all her family and friends and move to a city she never been to and never see her family.

She'd rather me say fukk the money in exchange for a family. Mine is all up here too.

Don't gotta be some deep motive. Some people don't like leaving home
 

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Only question i really have is what is the step dad doing with his life...like how much does he make, is he a good dude or a bum...??? Oh wait and also could she get a similar 6 figure job in the city they are already in?

I'd say if your wifey is a blk woman who is smart enough to pull a 6 figure job, then you might wanna consider making that move pleighboi. Most men don't like their woman making any real bread much less 6 figures because it makes a woman not need to rely on a man. It's a low key power struggle. I LOVE having me a smart hard working woman making as much as she can to enrich OUR lives because i'm a hard working man who's gonna do the same.
Yea but we all so quick to say fukk his life

His wife getting 6 figures. How we know it's not 100k and he already making 80?

Maybe he loves his job. He ain't got a job in Atlanta either. So he's just gonna move down there and have to start all over. While his wife pays all the bills and takes care of him until he gets on his feet again?


nikkas really acting like a 6 figure job is the cure all to all life's wants and needs. Even if they aren't the ones making any money and living off their wife
 

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:ufdup: Nah fukk that.....Everybody wants money..but his intuition is warning him this bytch about to switch up if she gets the upper hand in the relationship...he should trust his instincts and cut her loose....

He should trust his instincts and save himself from being a kept man in a strange city being cuckolded and treated like trash
 

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Yea but we all so quick to say fukk his life

His wife getting 6 figures. How we know it's not 100k and he already making 80?

Maybe he loves his job. He ain't got a job in Atlanta either. So he's just gonna move down there and have to start all over. While his wife pays all the bills and takes care of him until he gets on his feet again?


nikkas really acting like a 6 figure job is the cure all to all life's wants and needs. Even if they aren't the ones making any money and living off their wife

So if you got a great job that you wanted and your girl was making less than that but told you that if you take the job, she'd leave you because she likes her job...you'd reject that offer to appease her? :pachaha:

Can I get a hand-raise for every guy that would turn down a 6 figure job because his wife gave him an ultimatum? :skip:
 
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