Fellas...how y'all feel about this?

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So if you got a great job that you wanted and your girl was making less than that but told you that if you take the job, she'd leave you because she likes her job...you'd reject that offer to appease her? :pachaha:

Can I get a hand-raise for every guy that would turn down a 6 figure job because his wife gave him an ultimatum? :skip:
First off. It's your WIFE

So you not just talking about some broad I can pack up and leave. There's kids involved and an entire divorce process. So you might as well cut that new check in half when you have to give it to her


Second. Yea I might. Read above and you'll see I'm in this EXACT situation right now. Me leaving would result in more money. So great

It's also result in me losing the woman I love. And also not seeing my family and friends. And also my seeing my 5 year old son 2-3 times a year cause I damn sure won't win that custody case either. Oh so add in child support as well



But yes. It's the coli so let's only factor in money
 

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they're both adults, they can choose to split at any moment. that's her stepdad too, which probably explains why the girl didn't care about talking about this issue online. what i dislike is how she aired out business and how the tweet was framed (granted there's a character limit so you can only say but so much). did the step dad just REALLY say it's him or ATL or did it just come off that way? when an airing of grievances occurs, it can look a lot like someone's standing in your way but really they're trying to communicate something else to you. it's childish if you always think someone is holding you back or down because they have an issue. i thought we were in this together?
 

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I don't blame her, I'm out this bih, he's dumb... I'd be balling off her checks until I find a job out there, nikka that's at least 6k a month if she's making 100k flat, and whoever I marry will get good dikk almost every time we fukk so you know she giving that cash up, yeah I'm cool with it, and I'll be ballin on her same level once I find my job, but until then its vacation time, that nikka stupid and that's his wife I'm assuming he knew about this possibility before hand and they thoroughly talked about it
 
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Get Money!
 

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I mean...I don't know what there is to say really.

The Step-dad seems intent on staying where he's at. The Mom wants to follow her own path.

Sad to see a relationship end over career-plans but it is what it is....:manny:
 

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Depends if they are married or not, how long they've been together, do they have children together and if they own property together.

He kinda played himself by giving her an ultimatum.
 

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He lost already when a woman gets married she is under her husbands rule. All the black Christian women act like thay rule don't apply
 
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