Fellas, I need your perspective…

[Studious one]

Oh yeah forgot to ask, how long your sister been going with dude? @Passionate1!

Three years

 

[Studious one]

So your sister thinks her bf waited until his sister died to use that as cover to sneak around with his ex wife?

Lol, this is why I love men. You guys are so black and white. I don’t think that that’s blatantly how she slide but I’m going to crack on her about that shyt.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Your sister is an unreliable narrator.

THIS!

 

[Studious one]

So he called her and told her to call him back?

He called her, she couldn’t talk because she was driving and told him she would call him right back. She did, and he hurried up and got off the phone like he was in front of someone.

 

[Neuromancer]

He called her, she couldn’t talk because she was driving and told him she would call him right back. She did, and he hurried up and got off the phone like he was in front of someone.

Maybe he was talking to a family member? It's days on or after a funeral. I'm sure he's talking to family. Why couldn't she go? How does he know she's not up to something either?

 

[Arcavian]

Ex wife?

You know he on some bullshyt

 

[DreadBrown]

Nah...y'all are a trip. I read the story and found it a little hard to understand upon the first read.

I’m just playing

My thing is dude had a tragedy in his family, she need to make allowances for that

in a relationship if you find you need your partner to behave in a certain way to accommodate your insecurities you need to take a step back and reflect (not you personally)

 

[Studious one]

Ex wife?

You know he on some bullshyt

What does this mean?

 

[Studious one]

Maybe he was talking to a family member? It's days on or after a funeral. I'm sure he's talking to family. Why couldn't she go? How does he know she's not up to something either?

How did you find a way to flip this on her? She couldn’t go because she had to work.

 

[Neuromancer]

How did you find a way to flip this on her? She couldn’t go because she had to work.

I like looking at both sides.

She doesn't have bereavement time? I had an ex whose sister died and I took time off from work to go down with her for the funeral and I never met her sister.

Also does she not have Bluetooth in her car? Why would she need to call him back?

 

[BaggerofTea]

Ex wife?

You know he on some bullshyt

Was about to say, if shyt is inoccous its easy to be forthright

 

[Studious one]

I’m just playing

My thing is dude had a tragedy in his family, she need to make allowances for that

in a relationship if you find you need your partner to behave in a certain way to accommodate your insecurities you need to take a step back and reflect (not you personally)

I don’t know about insecurities. I think most people would feel away about the situation to be honest. She said she had no problem with it, she wasn’t happy about the ex-wife but it is what it is. What she didn’t. like was his behavior once he got down there, and the fact that the ex-wife paid for everything.

 

[Arcavian]

What does this mean?

Im a long story short type of person, if someone I'm with went to go hang out with their ex husband, im out

I don't care who died, cause you know nothing but bullshyt is coming after that

 

[Studious one]

I like looking at both sides.

She doesn't have bereavement time? I had an ex whose sister died and I took time off from work to go down with her for the funeral and I never met her sister.

Also does she not have Bluetooth in her car? Why would she need to call him back?

She was pulling up to the house

 

[Studious one]

Im a long story short type of person, if someone I'm with went to go hang out with their ex husband, im out

I don't care who died

Well damn. Thank you for being honest. Wow.