So you'd give her the D just like that? Even if she disregarded you ...hmm. Lol. What if she just sent a 'hey' and cut right to the chase? Would you as a guy find it disrespectful or not?
Every guy ain't the same
So I'm going answer for me only cuz I know women like to generalize a lot
To answer you, yes I'm giving her the D just like that and then when I catch mines I'm putting her back on ice, even if things ended good last time we talked, there is still a reason why we went so long without communicating
If she cut right to the chase after saying "hey" then she just knows I'm not for her games and is being respectful enough not to waste my time and hers