Your phone aint blowing up cause you aint 'hot'...
Jamie Foxx put it best... When he was on the come up nobody was checking for him and women weren't calling him...
Then he did 'Ray', got an oscar and everybody wanted a piece of him. However he realized that these people only want his company because he's hot.
Moral of the story, people are phony and fake... 9/10 times someone calls you its cause they want something (we all do it).
Simply work on improving yourself and being the best person you can be.
whatchu gon do?