Fellas/ladies, if you had to, would you wipe your father up

[ThrobbingHood]

Wouldn't even have to ask me twice. The greatest man in the world to me.

 

[Luke Cage]

Y'all talmbout hiring fine ass nurses to do it watch too much porn.

Anyways, you can't just hire a nurse. If your loved one has good health insurance, you can order home health but even that ain't enough. Depending on the situation, insurance will only approve a certain amount of visits (CNA 3x a week, nurse once a week) for a month. If your loved one is stable, home health will bounce and it's up to the family to decide what to do.

If you ain't a multimillionaire, y'all won't be able to afford 24/7 care while you go on about your life. Unless you ain't shyt and drop your parents off in hospice or nursing homes to let them die.

If your parents or grandparents took good care of you growing up, return the favor you ungrateful fukks.

nah, i tell my parents everyday they going to live in a nursing home. Not sure why society looks down on nursing homes tbh. They got a place specifically designed for these kind of situations and we decided it's wrong because why exactly? To me that like saying sending your kids to daycare is wrong because you should sacrifice your job and time to take care of them 24/7. It's a bullshyt argument with no true merit outside of some misguided idea that people should go out of their way to do things the hard way to prove their appreciation. Using this logic you'd have to spend your entire life scoffing at people.
pfft this dude bought ready made dog food. He owes it to that animal to make it from scratch.
pfft this dude went to jiffy lube. He owes it to his car to change the oil himself.

pfft this dude bought his kids mcdonalds. He owes it his children to provide them with best scratch made delicacies he can afford.

fukk out of here. I'm not a nurse maid, and even i tried i wouldn't do as good job as the people who run those homes. Nor is it realistic to expect to me spend a significant portion of my day care taking for my parents when i need to work and provide for my own family. My obligation is to see to it that they are taken care of, not to do all the dirty work myself. If think i waiting for them die in a nursing home, i'd definitely be waiting for them to die if it would save me that days ass wiping. Out of respect for my parents and everything they did for me, i'm making sure i earn enough money by the time they reach that age to hire someone take care of their needs.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

My father passed away, but I would have done it if it was absolutely necessary. But it would have been tough to see my father like that.

 

[invalid]

I'd pay for it to be done. If I did that shyt for him I honestly couldn't look at him as the strong independent father I've always known him to be.

That’s life and a part of growing up and maturity. You start to see your parents as they really are.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Yea my dad raised me from get go

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

... If he was sick and he had nobody else to take care of him? Give the nikka a sponge bath, wipe his ass, put baby powder on him, and just make the nikka feel clean and fresh.

Disclaimer: If you had a father in your life

Easily, That’s my dad. That nikka did everything for me so it’s only right I return the favor.



Every time he sees me I’m already like you eating my food ( when he goes in my freezer). Doing that shyt full time would have me dying. I love my pops.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Oh course. I love my dad.

 

[b_b]

of course he did it for me why the fukk wouldnt I do it for him

what kind of question is this skeets?

you gettin philosophical and soft

i wanna hear tales about freaking hoes out in the woods while their husbands buying enfamil and stopping by the pharmacy to get their pancreatic cancer meds

 

[Tim Dripcan]

Yup, he changed my shytty drawers

My pops has always came through for me so this is a no brainer for me, of course I would.

More than likely he would want a nurse to do it though, he always been on that whole I aint gonna inconvenience my family shyt.

no doubt... had to do it for my grandma for about a month..... can drain you emotionally to see someone you love so much in a situation like that. It put some real perspective on life for me

Yea, I did it for my granny

Of course. I love my dad and if my mom couldn't do it (hell, even if she could), I'd DEFINITELY be there for him.



My dad is one of my best friends, that's my dawg. I got him no matter what

I have and would do it again. He was my father and I miss him to death.

I grew up doing this. My old man had a car wreck when I was 6 that left him paralyzed from the waist down. The first couple of years after the wreck he spent in the hospital but he came home when I was 8 and since I was the oldest and moms had to work 2 jobs I was left with holding pops down. I’ve cleaned his ass more times than I’d like to remember. Paralyzed people can’t control when they have bowel movements so it’s been many nights I’ve been woke up in the middle of the night to clean him up it’s obviously inhumane to leave someone laying in their feces. I’ve bathed him, I prepared meals for him, helped him in and out of bed, and more yea all that from the age of 8 on up. He passed back in 2006 and it still fukks with me. I grew up taking care of him so our bond was completely different than a normal father son bond but no matter what I always respected him as my dad.

Y’all coli brehs cutting up onions in here

May the ancestors and the universe bless y’all

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

nah, i tell my parents everyday they going to live in a nursing home. Not sure why society looks down on nursing homes tbh. They got a place specifically designed for these kind of situations and we decided it's wrong because why exactly? To me that like saying sending your kids to daycare is wrong because you should sacrifice your job and time to take care of them 24/7. It's a bullshyt argument with no true merit outside of some misguided idea that people should go out of their way to do things the hard way to prove their appreciation. Using this logic you'd have to spend your entire life scoffing at people.
pfft this dude bought ready made dog food. He owes it to that animal to make it from scratch.
pfft this dude went to jiffy lube. He owes it to his car to change the oil himself.

pfft this dude bought his kids mcdonalds. He owes it his children to provide them with best scratch made delicacies he can afford.

fukk out of here. I'm not a nurse maid, and even i tried i wouldn't do as good job as the people who run those homes. Nor is it realistic to expect to me spend a significant portion of my day care taking for my parents when i need to work and provide for my own family. My obligation is to see to it that they are taken care of, not to do all the dirty work myself. If think i waiting for them die in a nursing home, i'd definitely be waiting for them to die if it would save me that days ass wiping. Out of respect for my parents and everything they did for me, i'm making sure i earn enough money by the time they reach that age to hire someone take care of their needs.

I hope your parents are big ballin with great health insurance or be prepared to pay somewhere between $250-$350 a day for a semi-private room.

If not, they going to a shytty facility with underpaid LPNs and CNAs that will let your parents lay down in soiled diapers for hours with no fuvks given.

 

[Luke Cage]

I hope your parents are big ballin with great health insurance or be prepared to pay somewhere between $250-$350 a day for a semi-private room.

If not, they going to a shytty facility with underpaid LPNs and CNAs that will let your parents lay down in soiled diapers for hours with no fuvks given.

I'd probably do the same thing if they are counting on me to change diapers. What makes you think the average person is better at that job than a CNA?
At least they have some medical training, what am i supposed to do if they start choking on some food or have a stroke?also you basing this entirely on some horror stories from a few select cases. This does not happen regularly.

Also medicaid pays for nursing home stays over 70% of the people that use them. We have medicaid, so i don't have to worry about the shytty facilities.

 

[Gold]

Nope, no chance in hell.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Hell yeah. Tf

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

Wasn't in my life, but i'd still do it. Maybe it's cause my mom made a point to never be bitter about him in front of me. As far as i know, his greatest accomplishment was skeeting in my mom, but I still gotta support family.

In a weird way, it will be more emotional when/if i have to do it for my mom. With my dad, it would be duty, with mom there would be emotional attachment. Lucky, there's 10 (9 now) of us, so the chance is slim that it will all be on me (#4).

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

I'd probably do the same thing if they are counting on me to change diapers. What makes you think the average person is better at that job than a CNA?
At least they have some medical training, what am i supposed to do if they start choking on some food or have a stroke?

Also medicaid pays for nursing home stays over 70% of the people that use them. We have medicaid, so i don't have to worry about the shytty facilities.

So you would let your parents lay on dirty diapers all day?



If your family member is stable and good to go home, CNAs and nurses train family members on what to do and what to look out for if you decide to take them home.

Pops had Medicare and they only cover up to 100 days and if that "nice" facility doesn't accept that secondary insurance, .

After that it's up to the family bro. If their social security ain't enough to cover the expenses, they getting transferred to a shytty facility or group home with homeless patients/no family patients.

Trust me, I've seen it first hand and been down that road.