Fellas: Lets discuss buying drinks for chicks while at a bar

Mr210

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Ive never been in a bar and bought a drink for a chick, because personally Im not about buying something for a chick who I dont know and there is good odds she may give me a little attention just to get a free drink or two out of me.

My gf and her homegirls have told me way too many stories about back when they hit up the bars when they were single and how dudes would buy them drinks thinking that it would help their chances

How much are you spending on these chicks, how exactly do you go about doing it
 

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This is part of the reason some dudes is HOH these days. They use what they have to take advantage of dudes..then wonder why the same dudes is like fukk these hoes down the line
 
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I have never just sent a drink to a chick. I will always go up and talk to her first. If after we talk and things seem to be going good, if I notice her drink is gone I might offer to buy her one. It's not being a simp, its called being a man, a man has money...throwing away some dollars is not a big deal.

Now if the convo is going no where, then it was nice to meet you, enjoy your night, blah blah on to the next one. Never buy a drink thinking its going to make her start talking to you
 

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Most guys at the bar are just looking for sex. I shed no tears for them. Your $5 drink didn't get you laid boo hoo. If are doing it for anything more than a good gesture you already lost.
 
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