Fellas, whats the exchange for submission from your s/o

[benjamin]

You have to be worthy if my submission. You have to be an upright, respectable, dependable, loyal, and ultimately deserving of my respect and submission. To many men want it purely because they have a penis between their legs. Its more than you simply being a man. You can't be a total douche bag yet harp on about wanting me to submit. Submit to what, your fukkshyt? What part of the game is that?

nah, see you want it both ways but it's the other way.....[/marlo]


See, you’ll use that excuse “oh he has to be deserving of my submission”…the only problem with women like you is, the man will never be deserving because the truth is, you despise submission and really don’t ever want to let go and submit…keep lying to yourself

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I've never been interested in leading another adult so we have an equal relationship. She isn't submissive but she does have some submissive qualities. We both respect each other, contribute, are non argumentative, and want to please each other which is the way I like it. So glad she's not one of those strong and independent types that have a "what's in it for me" attitude about everything.

 

[QuavoFlow]

A relationship should function as a team. I see submission as a stroke to the male ego. I wouldn't ever want a woman to submit to me.

you will "share that girl" forever

 

[RoyalQ]

Relationship should be a positive feedback loop. I do for you, you do for me, because you did for me I do for you, etc. But everybody is so selfish. Its all about what they want the other person to do.

 

[Queen]

The adulterer with the child outside of his marriage is the last person to discuss proper marriage roles.

A woman who allows her husband to bring his pregnant tramp into their home is hardly an example to use when teaching women about the importance of respect and leadership.

 

[Action Mike]

I've never been interested in leading another adult so we have an equal relationship. She isn't submissive but she does have some submissive qualities. We both respect each other, contribute, are non argumentative, and want to please each other which is the way I like it. So glad she's not one of those strong and independent types that have a "what's in it for me" attitude about everything.

Contradicted yourself a little bit there breh with the bolded. Your the manager of this relationship whether you overtly know it or not.

Submission has just become a dirty word, but looks very much like it in yours. It doesn't always have to be the housewife, yes sir, no sir women. You lead and she's happy to let you drive, that's it.

 

[Diondon]

Do yall dudes really be having this power struggle with yall women? Cause something aint adding up

 

[RoyalQ]

nah, see you want it both ways but it's the other way.....[/marlo]


See, you’ll use that excuse “oh he has to be deserving of my submission”…the only problem with women like you is, the man will never be deserving because the truth is, you despise submission and really don’t ever want to let go and submit…keep lying to yourself

Nope. I'm a religious girl. I fully believe in submission. I want a worthy man ty o lead me and our future family. I want a man you makes sound decisions and is considerate of me. Plenty of men around me get my submission. Plenty of men around me don't get my respect nor my submission because they don't deserve it.

 

[RoyalQ]

Do yall dudes really be having this power struggle with yall women? Cause something aint adding up

Because what they think makes them a man isn't what we think makes a man. We don't see eye to eye. There's too many different factors involved.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

What happens when men who provide financially get cheated on by the women they provide for?

I see your point.

OK, I correct my statement. They have less problems.... or at least more choice, which for someone smart will yield better outcomes

 

[Matt504]

This thread should be read alongside this one

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/side...-only-one-horrified-disgusted-by-this.303337/

 

[Yesterday]

If you expect your household to be structured, then you can't have two people jockeying for position and dominance.

Men submit to women but in different ways. For example when a woman is emotional and moody, men submit their pride and take blame for things in order to de-escalate arguments and situations. For example at least once per episode on pawn stars men will go on there to sell something because their wives wanted them to.

It would be a lose lose for men to be expected to put up with women's emotional fluctuations but not have her follow your lead.

 

[RoyalQ]

The adulterer with the child outside of his marriage is the last person to discuss proper marriage roles.

A woman who allows her husband to bring his pregnant tramp into their home is hardly an example to use when teaching women about the importance of respect and leadership.

who are you talking too? They must be on my ignore list so I can't see.

 

[Matt504]

If you expect your household to be structured, then you can't have two people jockeying for position and dominance.

Men submit to women but in different ways. For example when a woman is emotional and moody, men submit their pride and take blame for things in order to de-escalate arguments and situations. For example at least once per episode on pawn stars men will go on there to sell something because their wives wanted them to.

It would be a lose lose for men to be expected to put up with women's emotional fluctuations but not have her follow your lead.

For example when a woman is emotional and moody, men submit their pride and take blame for things in order to de-escalate arguments and situations.

This implies that the man is only taking blame because the woman is emotional or moody and not because he's actually to blame.

Are you also suggesting that men don't take blame because of their pride?

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Contradicted yourself a little bit there breh with the bolded. Your the manager of this relationship whether you overtly know it or not.

Submission has just become a dirty word, but looks very much like it in yours. It doesn't always have to be the housewife, yes sir, no sir women. You lead and she's happy to let you drive, that's it.

Having some submissive qualities doesn't make someone submissive in my opinion. She still has some dominant qualities while still being respectful and having a desire to please which is what I was getting at. We both are able to be direct about what we have to say without it feeling like either of us is leading the other, but if it seems that way to you then cool.