Fellas, why did you ghost (hit and quit) her?

[Cat piss martini]

My last situation was with a old teen flame last year.
(Neeka)......till then I aint seen or heard from her in 15 years.

She hunted me down through my sista via facebook.
My sista hits me up and go that girl you were crazy
about back in the day is begging me for your number.
me: what she looking like?
sista: she's doing really well and own a few businesses.
me: what is she looking like.
sista: men.......she's still very pretty and in shape.
me: give her the number.
(we talk/text for a few weeks and she wants to visit)

She comes over and it's dope......really dope.
were drinking and i notice that she's getting tipsy.
she takes a shower,asks for a tee and she's ready
to hop in bed.
We get naked and get under the covers.
She hops on top of me,grabs my dikk and
whispers......put a baby in me.
I turn on my lights,tell her to get dress,
she does the whole what's wrong,
I tell her she should leave.
she's walking slowly down the hall
as she tries to fix the situation i'm bumping
her softly to speed up her exit out the door.
I watched her crying through my ring cam
shut my porch light off and went to bed.
bytch i aint seen you in 15 years.......you crazy??!!

 

[TheMailMan]

I banged a Filipina in Kuwait that I met off tinder .she was michellen girl status but still smashed. Dropped her off and never hit her up again . Even went raw and didn't pull out

 

[rabbid]

•she started acting real stalker-ish afterwards and acting like we were dating;

this the number one reason or post nut clarity (she not really cute at all and has tons of acne)

i dont want to meet your friends or whoever was most important in your life before i beat it up. and dont call me with a bunch of nonsense like asking to go grocery shopping.

I dont ghost anymore though. I'll at least send a goodbye text and block.

 

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

Ghosting is definitely cowardly.

You've been ghosted before, huh???

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

She belonged to the community. No hard feelings.

 

[Treblemaka]

Cowardly, my ass. Ain't nobody obligated to remain in contact with anybody.

Neither are saying please and thank you, but most people still use them.


Most things in life aren't societal obligations, but are simple basic decency. Im one of those "do unto others..." type of men, so it's how I choose to conduct myself.

Besides it's a matter of making a 2 minute phone call. If bold enough to smash I'm bold enough to call her and say "this aint working for me."

Disappearing is childish. It speaks to someone that likes to run away from responsibility or who prefers to treat people like objects for use instead of human beings

 

[King Eros]

Post liquor goggles shame

Something smelled bad, breath, box, etc

Too clingy, wouldn't leave expeditiously

I'm cheating on my lady

She got a man or husband

Out of town / long distance

Something weird on her body like a lopsided titties, ugly p*ssy, or an in jeans-only ass.

Saw a photo of another bytch I'm fukking on her dresser

 

[360dagod]

I don't ghost, but I start selling my shares steadily until none is left....

They be wanting too many minutes for a role they weren't designed to have..

 

[murksiderock]

You ain’t shyt, breh.


BUT THIS… This is what I come to TheColi for. fukkery filled stories like this.

Bro I would never do no shyt like this ever again. I was 21 when this happened. Never again , I value other people's relationships and my own safety and morals more today, than I did then...

Because I just wanted to bust a nut. I know VERY quickly whether a female is someone I want to rock with after that post-nut clarity hits.

I used to(married now) value my alone time heavy so I really had to fukk with you to want to hang with you. Most women didn’t reach that bar so I was running through the streets like crazy in my early 20’s, between College, Tinder, the club/bars

Honestly shocked I never caught anything

I never caught anything either, and my "running thru everybody" years from 2010 to 2014. Most were no condoms, all that. Of course I know now how risky I was, I still don't like condoms but I'm not just jumping and diving in everything now. I consider myself really blessed and fortunate...

Neither are saying please and thank you, but most people still use them.


Most things in life aren't societal obligations, but are simple basic decency. Im one of those "do unto others..." type of men, so it's how I choose to conduct myself.

Besides it's a matter of making a 2 minute phone call. If bold enough to smash I'm bold enough to call her and say "this aint working for me."

Disappearing is childish. It speaks to someone that likes to run away from responsibility or who prefers to treat people like objects for use instead of human beings

Bro I feel what you're saying, it's fair and it makes sense. I know for me at least, those conversations are uncomfortable, I don't want to have to endure a woman asking about what went wrong and hearing all that emotion...

I have women I actually dated and/or flinged with (meaning maybe weren't dating but we had sex more than once, we kicked it), I told them when I was done. I guess for me it depends on the level of the relationship. If I just met you or we only barely know each other, I don't feel the responsibility of having to explain to you why I don't want to deal with you...

If we know each other or we've dealt with each other on multiple occasions, I can have those uncomfortable conversations. So I could agree it's a little cowardly to ghost if you've been involved with someone. But if you barely know her, or just met her? Nah man...

 

[Claudex]

Fast forward maybe 4 or 5 months later, I'm in jail and old boy walks in the block one day. He thanks me for getting his girl and kid home safely, which the kid wasn't even his come to find out. Told nikkas in the block how much of a good Samaritan I was ...

Off of the first post I'm out here thinking you an upstanding citizen and it turns out you with the shyts.

 

[MikelArteta]

I was on vacation

 

[BrothaZay]

I was messing with this baddie(physically, body near perfect ) who was a super freak

But she constantly said some of the dumbest shyt I heard

 

[knl14]

You've been ghosted before, huh???

I’ve never been ghosted, but if I had I wouldn’t be ashamed to admit. I also can think outside of my own experiences…

Someone’s inability to communicate is not a reflection of me.

 

[King Poetic]

1. Ghost one chick who told me out the blue that she was gangbang by 2 nikkas twice and she was living wild and now she in the church .. I banged the broad and bounce.. we was co workers.. but I hit on my last few days I was at the job

2. Ghost another broad because she said she had 1 kid.. I went to her house and fukk and I happen to look around and I saw a pic with her and 3 kids

3. Ghost one chick who was acting like she was this pure and innocent black queen, but these women have no idea I do research on they ass from Facebook to Instagram and I tripped them up with questions.. I knew this broad was a ho when she said I don’t hang around a certain area of town meaning that’s where nikkas had they turn on her…. bytch probably had the best ass I ever fukk even though she was stiff.. but some nikka saw me and said I saw u with that chick tawana.. u two dating and I said naw,, he was like good because I know about 7 nikkas from this blood set who ran up in here..

 

[Ziggiy]

-Smashed after the first date. Spent the night at her house

-She called me asking if I took some jewelry from her drawer

-Told her absolutely fukking not.

-She text me saying she was disappointed I stole from her but she was willing to forgive me and pursue a relationship

-I text her back that I was offended she was accusing me, a grown ass hard working man of stealing ANYTHING from her and that this was the last time we would ever communicate.

-She called me three times back to back to back. When I wouldn’t answer she text me back talking about she was sorry and she was trippin

-Blocked her on the SPOT. Never spoke to her again.


I don’t deal with the mentally insane. PERIOD