Fellas: You have to let these chicks waste their 20s on these no good men

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I don't have to but I don't know what I want from a guy and I don't think I have what guys want. Naturally I'm an introvert so it takes me a long time to open up to people and unfortunately I've opened myself up to guys that were no good so it kinda discouraged me :to I'm trying to be more social but my circle of friends is small, perhaps I should widen it :sitdown:.
quit fukkin wit no good men... there are plenty good men around, ladies dont be good back & we turn cold hearted......
 

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Shouldnt you be looking for that one girl who is perfect for you and not worry about other people and what they be doing?

some girls are ho's and always will be one no matter the age, and some girls just dont know better and have to find out the hard way...same can be said about dudes simping left and right
 

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The reality is, every woman goes through a phase where she dates dudes who would be considered "aint sh#t." In reality, from an objective perspective, any dude that just wants to smash without any kind of mutually beneficial relationship would be considered "aint sh#t" in the grand scheme of things. The same way a woman who just wants to get useless attention is considered "aint sh#t" in the grand scheme of things. Both sides spend time on that side of the fence.

Truth is, especially in 2013, no woman you meet is going to be without mileage. Sorry to burst the "I'm going to run through chicks but get me a virgin" bubble. That's not reality. Its a cycle that perpetuates both sides-men who run through chicks and chicks who gain mileage as a result of dealing with dudes who run through chicks. If you think your girl has not been touched by dudes who "aint sh#t", then I have a bridge in Manhattan to sell you.

The goal is to get with a woman who has lesser mileage and who's learned from those experiences. A car with 50k miles is of more value than a car with 150k miles. And unless you're getting a virgin, which most aren't and don't even have the capability of getting (extremely small market in a westernized society), then you're getting a chick with some mileage and some stories to tell.

So yea, every chick goes through that period. But not every chick stays in that period. And the smarter chicks keep that period short.

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Nothing wrong with being a cat lady. lol

cat lady >>>>>> widow/divorcee/having a wack husband :manny:

This is very true.

If i told you what guys want would you accept it?

Do you think that maybe you want guys to want what you want them to want, friend? We're actually very simple.

Well, tell me :ld:

quit fukkin wit no good men... there are plenty good men around, ladies dont be good back & we turn cold hearted......

:whoa: I've stopped but ya, my male experience is limited :patrice:
 

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This is very true.



Well, tell me :ld:



:whoa: I've stopped but ya, my male experience is limited :patrice:
1. Cook
2. Clean
3. Obey (within reason)
4. Drug free
5. Affectionate
6. Care about her appearence
7. Classy without being bougie
8. Unlazy
9. Picks her battles
10. Available
11. Loyal
12. Emotionally honest.

Thats not that hard now is it friend. You can have a man in no time with that criteria.
 
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1. Cook
2. Clean
3. Obey (within reason)
4. Drug free
5. Affectionate
6. Care about her appearence
7. Classy without being bougie
8. Unlazy
9. Picks her battles
10. Available
11. Loyal

Thats not that hard now is it friend. You can have a man in no time with that criteria.

Check
Check
Check
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Check
:ehh:
Check
Check
Check

So I got 7 out of 11. :blessed:
 

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But what's the big deal with reaching your 30s and being single? :patrice:


there's nothing wrong.. from a black perspective cause that's all i know

A lot of people don't broaden there horizons ( meaning escape the hood areas mostly ) so if they see a single woman especially if she only has 1 kid she's in that zone of being a low down dirty skank with a kid , which in reality nobody knows the truth about her situation.. she could have been with only 3 men all her life and had 1 kid or she could have been married and had a kid, but a lot of people make assumptions that ANY BLACK WOMAN LIVING IN THE HOOD WITH A KID IS A HOE AND NO GOOD..

just a nikka mentality
 

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:why: You know how hard is is to find a LEGIT good, quality woman in her younger years?! :mindblown: Not the ones who pretend to be a 'good woman' for the sake of her public image?

Those good women DO exist......but they're rare as fukk. Combine that with the fact that most nikkas around their age foolishly would rather just have a dime-a-dozen cute bytch to stick their dikk into, instead of those good women......and those good women easily get lost in the shuffle

The majority of women in that range - yes, I said the MAJORITY, bytch.....you can look at the screen like :usure: all you want - they have AT LEAST a double-digit for amount of sex partners, and they usually have kids as a result of that

THEN after they fukk around with a bunch of no-good nikkas (who only bothered talking to those women because the ass was fat), THAT'S when they either legit change their ways to become a 'good woman'......because they're tired of being a whore and all the drama that comes with it (or they're just tired of knowing and having to internally deal with the fact that they're a LIVE whore).....or they just pretend to be a 'good woman' simply to get further companionship, since they'll get less play by that point because of their kids and/or fading looks, so their personality suddenly starts becoming more important

That's why I always get mad when SIMPS cape for them. :snoop: They fukkin' up the damn GAME :damn:

God made a deal that ALL whores must follow through, and simps are right there to try to mess up his divine plan :ufdup:

The deal is this: those whores are allowed to use their body as a major advantage and to have their fun in their YOUNGER YEARS.....i.e. they will sleep with ain't-shyt nikkas just because those nikkas are tall, or in shape, or cute, or got 'swag' or money (never mind just HOW he got the money, in some cases....:demonic:). Those men will easily be able to hook the whore woman with a little attention/sweet words/money going their way, and the women are allowed to completely ignore the obvious fact that man only just wants her around to smash.....and they'll just smash :yeshrug:. Fine. You can have all that if you want it, whore.

But THEN......:ufdup:.......

....then they're supposed to SUFFER as they get older. They're supposed to struggle with the responsibility of being a SINGLE mother of b*stard kids (because once one of them no-good nikkas find out she got pregnant, he'll dip out/barely be around afterwards since the woman was looking for a 'good lover' and not a good potential father when procreating with him). They're supposed to struggle financially. They're supposed to struggle with actually having to work for a living because no nikka will give her money just to try to get in them panties. And perhaps most importantly, they're supposed to NEVER be able to find a stable, long-term male companion that will give her love/attention. Ever. EVER!!

Yet you fukkin' simps are RIGHT there making them feel like it ain't a big deal if they're a single mother, or if they're a well-known (within their community), well-documented whore. You act like they still deserve love and companionship :mindblown:.....and you justify taking on those lil biscuit-head ass kids of hers because "they need a father" and "it's not their fault their daddy isn't around" :mindblown:. You act like "her past is her past".....like that shyt ain't a DAMN good indicator of how she'll most likely act in the future :what:. If a bytch has exactly 200 nikkas under her belt by age 30, what the fukk could possibly make you think that by age 40, that number will just be 201? :mindblown: And you think she's still wifeable? C'MON, NOW!!

Naw, hoe. You don't DESERVE a husband. You don't deserve love. You don't DESERVE financial stability. You made your bed, now fukkin' lie in it.....and don't even try to clean off all of the nut stains from it, either. Leave them shyts RIGHT there. As you toss and turn at night, the presence of each nut stain shall remind you of your whorishness, and why you deserve to be a miserable old woman that'll die only getting unconditional love from her b*stard kids.

End rant.

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there's nothing wrong.. from a black perspective cause that's all i know

A lot of people don't broaden there horizons ( meaning escape the hood areas mostly ) so if they see a single woman especially if she only has 1 kid she's in that zone of being a low down dirty skank with a kid , which in reality nobody knows the truth about her situation.. she could have been with only 3 men all her life and had 1 kid or she could have been married and had a kid, but a lot of people make assumptions that ANY BLACK WOMAN LIVING IN THE HOOD WITH A KID IS A HOE AND NO GOOD..

just a nikka mentality

:wow: You just put it all into perspective. That's also the unfortunate thing about our community though, single unwed mothers, and the stigma that comes along with it (I'm not advocating for that at all).
 
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