females have the same fukking arguing tactics

[Dont@Me]

1. deflect because they hold absolutely no accountability whatsoever for their damn actions
2. get mad
3. raise voice tone and get emotional while trying to talk over you
4. repeat

my girl is very immature when it comes to serious conversations and always gets defensive with anything having to do with her. tonight, she got mad at the fact that i told her she should say hi to my coworkers when we meet up (we went out to eat). that convo ended up with her suggesting i drop her off at home instead of spending the night . when we get to my place to pick up her things, she was all
but i was straight and told her she suggested she leave, so she should. She stormed out .

she is just younger than me and less experienced and needs to be trained. She'll miss me by tomorrow and the time out will give her a lesson, hopefully. meantime, i got my music software and a cold brew and peace and quietness . there she go callin me already now

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

What about when she do something to you, you get mad at her, and then she gets mad at you for getting mad at her



But i guess that ain't just women as I know some ho like "men" that do the same thing

 

[Jesus Is Lord]

I stopped arguing with females for about 8 years now. Because in 2012 I had an argument with wifey, and I said, “ You say I talk disrespectful to you and it’s a problem , I talk nice to you and it’s a problem, talk semi-aggressive and it’s a problem, I yell at you it’s a problem. How do you want me to speak to you”??

She replied, “ I DON’T KNOW”!

THAT spoke volumes. And I never argued with any woman since. It leads you to nowhere but and

 

[Jesus Is Lord]

1. deflect because they hold absolutely no accountability whatsoever for their damn actions
2. get mad
3. raise voice tone and get emotional while trying to talk over you
4. repeat

my girl is very immature when it comes to serious conversations and always gets defensive with anything having to do with her. tonight, she got mad at the fact that i told her she should say hi to my coworkers when we meet up (we went out to eat). that convo ended up with her suggested i drop her off at home instead of spending the night . when we get to my place to pick up her things, she was all
but i was straight and told her she suggested she leave, so she should. She stormed out .

she is just younger than me and less experienced and needs to be trained. She'll miss me by tomorrow and the time out will give her a lesson, hopefully. meantime, i got my music software and a cold brew and peace and quietness . there she go callin me already now

Don’t train her breh. Get out while you can. You’ll regret it.

 

[Him Duncan]

I stopped arguing with females for about 8 years now. Because in 2012 I had an argument with wifey, and I said, “ You say I talk disrespectful to you, I talk nice to you and it’s a problem, talk semi-aggressive and it’s a problem, I yell at you it’s a problem. How do you want me to speak to you”??

She replied, “ I DON’T KNOW”!

THAT spoke volumes. And I never argued with any woman since. I leads you nowhere but toand

This.... Exactly this

 

[Him]

What’s y’all ages

 

[Bumblebreh]

Never argue with a woman...and some women will go for the jugular

 

[mr.africa]

walking out of the house when an argument is about to start has its merits
not healthy or productive, but it does wonders for your stress levels

 

[Dont@Me]

I stopped arguing with females for about 8 years now. Because in 2012 I had an argument with wifey, and I said, “ You say I talk disrespectful to you and it’s a problem , I talk nice to you and it’s a problem, talk semi-aggressive and it’s a problem, I yell at you it’s a problem. How do you want me to speak to you”??

She replied, “ I DON’T KNOW”!

THAT spoke volumes. And I never argued with any woman since. I leads you to nowhere but and

YO i said the same thing to my girl. i asked her how she wants me to talk to her since being nice was too mean and being mean is way too mean. she just kept arguing instead

 

[Dont@Me]

What’s y’all ages

we''re only 6 years apart, but she's kind of immature.

walking out of the house when an argument is about to start has its merits
not healthy or productive, but it does wonders for your stress levels

you're right, but some things NEED to be nipped in the bud and some women need to be trained. If they've done something that needs work and i'm pointing it out to them and trying to help BETTER them, and they just get defensive and what not, they can feel free to leave or i will kick them out. They will reflect on the situation when they're lonely alone that night if they're worth anything and i'll be at home chillin without a headache, so it's a win-win to me

 

[Collateral]

1. deflect because they hold absolutely no accountability whatsoever for their damn actions
2. get mad
3. raise voice tone and get emotional while trying to talk over you
4. repeat

my girl is very immature when it comes to serious conversations and always gets defensive with anything having to do with her. tonight, she got mad at the fact that i told her she should say hi to my coworkers when we meet up (we went out to eat). that convo ended up with her suggested i drop her off at home instead of spending the night . when we get to my place to pick up her things, she was all
but i was straight and told her she suggested she leave, so she should. She stormed out .

she is just younger than me and less experienced and needs to be trained. She'll miss me by tomorrow and the time out will give her a lesson, hopefully. meantime, i got my music software and a cold brew and peace and quietness . there she go callin me already now

Breh, how old is your girl? My girl is 22 and does the exact same things. The deflecting and trying to talk over you are big ones. I just sit there like this and let her get her ish off because there's no point in trying to argue, it leads to nowhere.

 

[Lamar Givens]

Always remember women inherently feel inferior to men.

The last area they want to feel inferior is intellectually.

This is why they will argue to the death and need to have the last word when disagreements arise.

Don’t play the game.

Be direct, effectively communicate your thoughts and only say your peace once.

 

[Cat piss martini]

her: i'm sick of your shyt.
me: do better.
her: one day a man is gonna steal me from you
me: petty theft.
her:
me:
her:

 

[Dont@Me]

Breh, how old is your girl? My girl is 22 and does the exact same things. The deflecting and trying to talk over you are big ones. I just sit there like this and let her get her ish off because there's no point in trying to argue, it leads to nowhere.

she's 25 . it doesn't matter though. Lots of these older women act the same anyway.

Always remember women inherently feel inferior to men.

The last area they want to feel inferior is intellectually.

This is why they will argue to the death and need to have the last word when disagreements arise.

Don’t play the game.

Be direct, effectively communicate your thoughts and only say your peace once.

I definitely do the former, but how do you only say your peace once when they can't even comprehend it because they're in emotional overdrive? It takes repetition for these women to learn and a combination of negative and positive reinforcement. Once she started talking over me, i wasn't gonna back down, so i just calmly said, "are you done yet? can you talk like an adult now?" to which she thought i was treating her like a kid (i was, because she was acting like one) and said she wanted to go home. Her negative reinforcement was me following through and actually kicking her out to which she called me and immediately regretted and sent a long apology text. I accepted her apology, but told her no to coming back over and we can meet up another day because i'm comfortable alone right now

Not gonna lie, i've been watchin a lot of Kevin Samuels lately and he showed me how to handle women like this. Before, I would've just dropped it and kissed her telling her i love her meanwhile nothing got solved

 

[MaxBundles]

I like threads like these. Makes me realize I'm not alone lol
Cause sometimes I swear my girl is a straight up bytch but then I see threads like this and realize all females just act the same way