females have the same fukking arguing tactics

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God, debating/arguing with women is pointless. They start with an initial position, at some point in the argument they deflect to something else, then they get so fukking twisted up they start arguing for your initial position without realizing it.

Me and my wife went through this shyt with staining the deck. We decided on a paint scheme months in advance, I brought home paint swatches 2 weeks before the guys arrive and we confirm the colors. Then the day before they arrive she starts panicking and saying we never confirmed the choices and she doesn't like what we picked. She keeps going in circles about paint choices arguing for and against herself until i pick up the phone start dialing the painters numbers and say pick a color right now. She starts crying saying she just wants me to engage.

Wtf is this shyt man. I don't have time for that. How you gonna argue both sides and work yourself up to a frenzy by going in circles. It's to the point where I'm legit thinking of drawing up documents for this woman to sign when we decide on something but im sure she would find a way to argue anyway.
emotional maturity of an infant :dwillhuh:
 

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that’s not how this will go :mjlol: when women feel played they think they now have a valid reason to cheat

remember they’re never in the wrong it’s always ur fault so if she cheats it’s ur fault
Good thing I genuinely don't care a d wouldn't get that emotionally invested to the point where that would bother me and I'd have to cut it off :unimpressed:
 

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God, debating/arguing with women is pointless. They start with an initial position, at some point in the argument they deflect to something else, then they get so fukking twisted up they start arguing for your initial position without realizing it.

Me and my wife went through this shyt with staining the deck. We decided on a paint scheme months in advance, I brought home paint swatches 2 weeks before the guys arrive and we confirm the colors. Then the day before they arrive she starts panicking and saying we never confirmed the choices and she doesn't like what we picked. She keeps going in circles about paint choices arguing for and against herself until i pick up the phone start dialing the painters numbers and say pick a color right now. She starts crying saying she just wants me to engage.

Wtf is this shyt man. I don't have time for that. How you gonna argue both sides and work yourself up to a frenzy by going in circles. It's to the point where I'm legit thinking of drawing up documents for this woman to sign when we decide on something but im sure she would find a way to argue anyway.
:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
 

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You forgot the funniest one. When all else fails and you hit them with that verbal KO, where the entire argument comes to a complete halt. Just pure silence while she stares at you dumbfounded. You’re just sitting there like ā€œYes I got her ass.ā€ She flips it on you and starts crying. Then it’s like fukk 30 More mins to calm her ass down.

When I was married I’d walk away a lot of the time but I’ve learned to build a good relationship with someone you can’t always be walking away
 

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This

If she's got a point, I give respect and hear it out

But if she's wrong, I quickly check "does she want me to just listen or does she really think she's right?"

If it's the latter l keep it cold, monotone and analytical. If she throws random shots and picks at what she thinks is my insecurities, I just stay in the cut and keep quiet and stare waiting saying "What did that have to do with your point?" "How is that relevant to this topic?" Eventually it unravels and then I let her know hey there's no winner here we're a team but this is why you were kinda wrong on this one. Now let's go eat.

All my exes called me robotic or Android or unfeeling etc lol that's life. U wanted to be lonely or nagged on?
 

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:mjlol: I stopped arguing with females for about 8 years now. Because in 2012 I had an argument with wifey, and I said, ā€œ You say I talk disrespectful to you and it’s a problem , I talk nice to you and it’s a problem, talk semi-aggressive and it’s a problem, I yell at you it’s a problem. How do you want me to speak to youā€??

She replied, ā€œ I DON’T KNOWā€!

THAT spoke volumes. And I never argued with any woman since. It leads you to nowhere but :usure::scust::gucci::dwillhuh::comeon::hubie::unimpressed::mjtf::what::martin::patrice::beli::pachaha::why::wtb::snoop::pacspit::pacspit::pacspit::pacspit::ufdup::mjpls::deadmanny::krs::flabbynsick::childplease::sitdown::noah::birdman::russell::youngsabo::damn::dahell::scusthov::whoa::shaq2::aicmon::demonic::wtf::rudy::mindblown::mindblown::mindblown::mindblown::mindblown::camby:and :umad:
This. I just quietly get up, tell them to hit me up when they came back to their senses and leave :yeshrug: You can argue with a woman, but it's exhausting because it's basically a war of attrition. You have to stay arguing for hours until they finally collapse, start crying and admit that you were right all along. Leaving get's you there faster and is less draining because you can just ignore their calls until they are ready to apologize.
 

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What about when she do something to you, you get mad at her, and then she gets mad at you for getting mad at her :francis:



But i guess that ain't just women as I know some ho like "men" that do the same thing :stopitslime:
That's my thing right here. I still remember when I was a young, inexperienced dude, and I used to get into arguments with my girl, and it was always because I confronted her about something she said/did, and she quickly flipped it on me, got mad at me for being mad at her, and somehow I ended up being the one apologizing like :dwillhuh:
 
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