females have the same fukking arguing tactics

[TheBigBopper]

Women aren’t logical, news at 5

 

[Swirv]

I tried a new tactic last night.

I told her I just wanted to listen and hear what was on her mind and heart. She started bringing up stuff from 1-5 years ago.

At the end I told her I agree with everything she said, she was like”you never do that. Then I asked what I can do to be the husband she expects me to be? Again she was like. She thought I was going to be at her throat for what she was saying but I stayed quiet.

At the end she asked if there anything I wanted to say and I told her it wasn’t about me, it was about her

When I left the room to get some food, I turned around at her and her face was

 

[Hater Eraser]

I swear its just an endless cycle of her saying ..

 

[Genos]

You described coli posters but in a real argument. Also this is not females only, I've argued with PLENTY of nikkas who do the exact same thing

 

[Black Panther]

1. deflect because they hold absolutely no accountability whatsoever for their damn actions
2. get mad
3. raise voice tone and get emotional while trying to talk over you
4. repeat

my girl is very immature when it comes to serious conversations and always gets defensive with anything having to do with her. tonight, she got mad at the fact that i told her she should say hi to my coworkers when we meet up (we went out to eat). that convo ended up with her suggesting i drop her off at home instead of spending the night . when we get to my place to pick up her things, she was all
but i was straight and told her she suggested she leave, so she should. She stormed out .

she is just younger than me and less experienced and needs to be trained. She'll miss me by tomorrow and the time out will give her a lesson, hopefully. meantime, i got my music software and a cold brew and peace and quietness . there she go callin me already now

A woman who constantly starts sh*t and talks over you doesn't respect you.

She'll learn eventually, but let her learn that lesson with someone else. Learned that sh*t the hard way.

 

[deep]

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[Rocket Scientist]

I don't argue with adult children

 

[Commish]

OP..

What are some good qualities you like about your gf that gets you to stay with her?

BTW, I prefer the term giving your girl instructions rather than training her. You train domesticated animals.

But, yeah, at some point you will get tired of the drama, so hopefully your gf will grow up soon..

 

[Sauce Dab]

You forgot the funniest one. When all else fails and you hit them with that verbal KO, where the entire argument comes to a complete halt. Just pure silence while she stares at you dumbfounded. You’re just sitting there like “Yes I got her ass.” She flips it on you and starts crying. Then it’s like fukk 30 More mins to calm her ass down.

When I was married I’d walk away a lot of the time but I’ve learned to build a good relationship with someone you can’t always be walking away

When they ain’t got nothing else, crying is always the last resort. That’s when you know you really won. Even when they calm down they’ll still be sniffling to let you know they still hurt

 

[Sterling Archer]

I don’t waste my time or energy arguing. It’s impossible to argue with me. I’m just-

“...okay”

 

[MasterOfAllHeSurveyz]

You have to nip this in the bud early.

It's nothing for me to do this.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

pointless. mentally, they're all roughly the same... either learn to navigate and/or cope with it or just be perpetually single

So get one that is not defective

 

[Spectre]

I tried a new tactic last night.

I told her I just wanted to listen and hear what was on her mind and heart. She started bringing up stuff from 1-5 years ago.

At the end I told her I agree with everything she said, she was like”you never do that. Then I asked what I can do to be the husband she expects me to be? Again she was like. She thought I was going to be at her throat for what she was saying but I stayed quiet.

At the end she asked if there anything I wanted to say and I told her it wasn’t about me, it was about her

When I left the room to get some food, I turned around at her and her face was

That's some Jedi mind shyt right there

If she's good she'll appreciate this and remember it

 

[Swirv]

That's some Jedi mind shyt right there

If she's good she'll appreciate this and remember it

Hopefully. I bought myself peace last night when she was itching for a back and forth

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

I tried a new tactic last night.

I told her I just wanted to listen and hear what was on her mind and heart. She started bringing up stuff from 1-5 years ago.

At the end I told her I agree with everything she said, she was like”you never do that. Then I asked what I can do to be the husband she expects me to be? Again she was like. She thought I was going to be at her throat for what she was saying but I stayed quiet.

At the end she asked if there anything I wanted to say and I told her it wasn’t about me, it was about her

When I left the room to get some food, I turned around at her and her face was

Flipped it on her

But now..whats your next move when she gets mad again? Always gotta have a extra tactic in the xhamber or its back to square one like