females have the same fukking arguing tactics

[Bossino]

pointless. mentally, they're all roughly the same... either learn to navigate and/or cope with it or just be perpetually single

I've chose the latter, unless you want a family I think people are cheating themselves choosing anything else but it's just my perspective

 

[Swirv]

Flipped it on her

But now..whats your next move when she gets mad again? Always gotta have a extra tactic in the xhamber or its back to square one like

Gonna check in with her on Wednesday and ask how I’m doing living up to her expectations

 

[MajesticLion]

This an inbuilt trait that cant be curtailed

 

[Bossino]

Yeah arguing with women/engaging them in irrationality is something I don't do unless I love them, and the only woman that isn't my mom gave me no issues. If I had to engage I'd do what @Swirv did and ask what she wants and listen so when wha she wants failed I'll go this is what you wanted, did you want something else?

But seriously in life apathy is power in the right scenarios

 

[Crayola Coyote]

This is hilarious and productive at the same time

“petty theft” I love this

 

[Crayola Coyote]

God, debating/arguing with women is pointless. They start with an initial position, at some point in the argument they deflect to something else, then they get so fukking twisted up they start arguing for your initial position without realizing it.

Me and my wife went through this shyt with staining the deck. We decided on a paint scheme months in advance, I brought home paint swatches 2 weeks before the guys arrive and we confirm the colors. Then the day before they arrive she starts panicking and saying we never confirmed the choices and she doesn't like what we picked. She keeps going in circles about paint choices arguing for and against herself until i pick up the phone start dialing the painters numbers and say pick a color right now. She starts crying saying she just wants me to engage.

Wtf is this shyt man. I don't have time for that. How you gonna argue both sides and work yourself up to a frenzy by going in circles. It's to the point where I'm legit thinking of drawing up documents for this woman to sign when we decide on something but im sure she would find a way to argue anyway.

that emotional mental masturbation stuff women do annoy me. Simple things to think about they get themselves confused. It’s like they fighting their emotions with logic and logic fighting their emotions at the same time.

 

[Genos]

I was thinking the same thing. A lot of men do this

Its disgusting

I figured out it's not about the actual argument but more trying to dominate you. The trick is to treat someone who argues like that like a kid and disregard their anger, laugh it off and stick to the point. Never leave the point until they concede or you get bored. If they try to switch topics just bring it right back

 

[RiffRaff]

I can be 100% right about the topic on hand. Second I throw even a hint of a personal jab, it's all off the rails then.

"You didn't need to say that though"

Shut up

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

The way to win is to not engage. Let them shadow box until they get tired. Then that will force them to listen to the stupid shiit coming out of their mouth. The mistake brehs make is jumping in. Either trying to be logical or getting emotional which is even worse. She is trying to get you to engage, so she can ramp your emotions up and get you to the point where you are not making sense and going off of your anger which plays into her advantage. Men cannot control our emotions when they are let out.

DO NOT ENGAGE! Either act like you are deaf or just calmly carry on a conversation with her about something else. It is tough, but that is the only way

 

[NeilCartwright]

I figured out it's not about the actual argument but more trying to dominate you. The trick is to treat someone who argues like that like a kid and disregard their anger, laugh it off and stick to the point. Never leave the point until they concede or you get bored. If they try to switch topics just bring it right back

I hear you but I prefer to not even get in that situation lol. People out here loving to argue over the smallest stuff, bickering like some women.

I actually got a homeboy who does that and in a way I feel sorry for people like that bc they not thinking situations all the way through. Just want to raise their voice, hoot and holler all day

Brehs, if you notice in life, anyone who’s in a position of power or influence does not do that. Military leaders, head of households, business owners etc think logically, and for the most part respect other people’s opinion. If we hit baskin Robbins and I get vanilla, I’m not gonna trip on you if you get chocolate.

I’ll never understand thatbut I guess that’s just life

 

[Typical Simp]

You never argue with a woman. You listen to what she has to say and keep your mouth shut.

 

[Dont@Me]

U have to be indifferent at times. I feel like they want u to argue with them cause they want to feel important or be in control. I would just leave or tell them to talk to me when they calm down cause I refuse to go back and forth. They wanna get u out of ur element. I use to talk about dating other women or saying stuff like go back to ur ex and shyt like that. Thats the part where I stopped doing that. If u just remove yourself from the situation and make them feel as if u can leave them at any moment. They have no choice but to change if they care about u.

Im at the point where I dont need them to validate me at all. If I leave it doesn't make or break me. If she loves u she want that valdation from you. It'll reverse. Then she'll start asking for your approval etc. Deep down I think she wants to feel important/wanted. I hate that its like this but some women are just wired different. We gotta play the long game at times. But all women are not like this.

The power struggle of love and whoever cares less, wins

 

[Clayton Endicott]

her: i'm sick of your shyt.
me: do better.
her: one day a man is gonna steal me from you

me: petty theft.
her:
me:
her:

 

[Abstract83]

The power struggle of love and whoever cares less, wins

I didn't make this game

 

[Rell84shots]

Common sense & logic are 2 things that kill women's arguments. A clear sign that you've won the argument is when they prolong the fight.