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A femcel from LSA is the founder of that site
I was being pc with the "of color" but Asians are set up way different than Blacks. Of course you and I are both speaking anecdotally but the occurrence of one doesn't validate or negate the other. Unfortunately we have an active self-hate problem that doesn't bode well for any real or fake claims of being "Pro-Black."
Of course ws is a thing, it's the biggest but that doesn't mean that it's acceptable to not recognize the difference between subtle buying in vs full card carrying agreeing to hate your own race under the guise of "preferences" or other code words to mask it. We need to stop blaming it exclusively and hold Black self-haters accountable for the shyt they say, and how they feel it's okay to be and express things that are very clearly anti-Black, they're adults.
To be concise, this is for women who refer to BM as "bullet bags" and low-value
Men who arbitrarily call Black women, ghetto, hoodrats, fatherless, "angry Black women," when having no evidence to support this (esp those of a certain shade)
I could go on but I really did not realize how prevlent this was amongst adults- it is disgusting and not just appicable to dating. But a large perhaps increasing phenomenon.
Fair enough I can accept that I be going on tangents and opining lmao I need to stay on topic or pass on discussing :guilty;. That said, I’m very much out of the sphere for this stuff despite clearly being online forever- a massive thread of people telling each other what to do doesn’t have bearing on what I believe. I’m struggling to reconcile that people are not just saying these things but that other people are buying into it wholesale- hard to read personally but it’s also hard to ignore it’s existence, if that makes sense. These aren’t topics that I think should be in spurts on the net because they are very very complex and everyone doesn’t have a level head to discuss, but ah well. Let me get my crotchety self on lmao happy SaturdayBe all this as it may (and it’s arguable)...the point of that particular thread as I surmised wasn’t what you’re speaking on. Rather it is:
“Just because you might ‘date’ Men Of Color, don’t let them turn you against The Sisterhood”
...and that is laughable on its own. But even better than that was all The Sistren of The Rainbow taking that as an opportunity to tell their Sistren not to date their particular men because (1) they ain’t chit anyway and (2) they all think the White Sistren are easy anyway.
Oh well.
I read that shyt and immediately thought to myself, "Thank God I'm married".Pay attention to the thoughts of women you aren’t married to or part of your family brehs
I thought you enjoyed not being in vaginawaste of vaginas![]()