File Under : "Sh** that sounds good in theory."

[Commish]

These fantasies never work out they way anyone thinks they will, for either the gold digger or the rich simp.
Whether she finds a cac she deems solvent enough to underwrite her desired lifestyle or a breh with the right amount of chemistry, confidence and mouthpiece to spin her, she will adjust.

Yeah, I liked your original post! You pretty much summed it up for me!

I am at a point in my life to not get too caught up on what women want or desire in a man.

My thing is that should women like Eboni don't get their desired outcome, then please don't blame all men or Black men in particular. No person owes her shyt!

Other than that, do her thing and see what happens!

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Ebony has put herself in the wrong career path to not pay bills
Imagine you got a lawyer tv woman and she tell you she not paying nothing

And she too old

She sounds insanely crazy ridiculous delusional

I can't believe she was comfortable saying that shyt out loud
These young IG hoes got an excuse

 

[Turbulent]

You can want what you want. But it's your job to get what you want.

 

[FeverPitch2]

Exactly. I've started evaluating women the way they evaluate us. I look at woman's career and annually salary. I can't fuk with a woman making less than 40K for a LTR and specifically for this reason. If you cannot afford at least a blue collar middle class lifestyle by yourself then what would I have in common with you anyway?

Adults should be able to support themselves. I'm not sure why women should be exempt from that once a romantic relationship starts.

 

[Umoja]

She's single.
Her excuse is that there are no eligible single men on her economic level. Which is bullshyt.
I'll give her props for being a self made Black woman who communicates intelligently even if I disagree at times.

The problem is telling a rich man, "I will cook and clean" is going to be met with

 

[FeverPitch2]

The problem is telling a rich man, "I will cook and clean" is going to be met with

Exactly. They have someone for that already.

 

[FeverPitch2]

You can want what you want. But it's your job to get what you want.

Basically, she's gonna marry an old cac.

 

[Easy-E]

As a man I’d take pride in paying 100 of the mortgage/rent! But if at some point I’m not treated with respect or physical neglect kicks in, the conversation of half comes into play.

We as men are becoming a joke

A IG comment said he'd withhold the bills like women withhold sex

 

[FeverPitch2]

Ebony has put herself in the wrong career path to not pay bills
Imagine you got a lawyer tv woman and she tell you she not paying nothing

And she too old

She sounds insanely crazy ridiculous delusional

I can't believe she was comfortable saying that shyt out loud
These young IG hoes got an excuse

The problem is that she actually brings tangible assets to the table.
Why is that a problem?
Because, like I said last week, women tend to think in extremes.
Because she doesn't need a man to put her on, she feels like she can "place an order" for a relationship and the man must fill it.
Because of her age, she probably feeling that "unwillingness to settle" bullshyt, too.
This never, ever works.
Any successful relationship has compromise.
She broke up with her fiance because he chose to quarantine with his children instead of her.
While 2 of the kids are young adults and that was definitely an issue, it shouldn't have been a deal breaker.
Or that just could have been the excuse she used to break camp.

 

[FeverPitch2]

As a man I’d take pride in paying 100 of the mortgage/rent! But if at some point I’m not treated with respect or physical neglect kicks in, the conversation of half comes into play.

We as men are becoming a joke

A IG comment said he'd withhold the bills like women withhold sex

You have to let your woman know upfront that, aside from a medical or mental issue that she's currently having treated, withholding sex won't be tolerated.
I let any woman I deal with know this up front.
They do all the "daaaaaaamn!" and "waaaaauuuwww!" bullshyt at first but ultimately they respect it.

 

[FeverPitch2]

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/this-why-i-tell-you-simps-do-not-move-into-your-girls-house.863391/

The Don't Move Into Your Girl's House post by @benjamin reminded me that I do agree with Eboni on one thing.
I'm paying for the house. She's going to have to contribute elsewhere, but the house? I got that.

 

[Vandelay]

She, personally, definitely isn't doing 90% of the shyt she's claiming in this video. I almost feel like or hope she's speaking for the average woman with her head screwed on straight, should be doing.

The roles and responsibilities of the husband and wife should be commensurate with the salary that one provides.

I personally don't want a stay at home wife because:

1. Even with my salary and personal career track, I can only afford to live in bumblefukk USA if she did that.
2. She'll get half in a divorce if we go south as far as our relationship
3. They'll resent that shyt eventually and resent you, leading back to number 2.

The best scenario if you want to get married in modern day America is find a woman who has a solid job or career but is ok with taking a step back careerwise to maintain the household, while you hold down the bills.

 

[GnauzBookOfRhymes]

Too many men that women consider "marriage material" end up leaving or not marrying good women bc they prioritize ego benefits of having the finest possible woman on their arm, or bc she makes his toes curl on demand. The good women they passed over are the ones that have a sense of self worth that goes beyond the size of their ass or the wetness of their mouth or p*ssy. They have careers or even if they are traditional homemaker types, you know they are good with money and trustworthy.

When you have a good woman, if you tell her you will be financially responsible for everything, if she makes money as well she will spend it in ways that bring about benefits for the entire family unit. For instance, it.might go towards trying to start her own business or invest in others. Maybe it goes to furthering her own education bc she wants to set a good example for the children or is intellectually curious. Or maybe she is able to help her own family if that's an issue. Obviously she's going to spend on herself as well but everything is in balance. But the vast majority of the videos/tweets and shyt u see from shytty wives/wannabe wives really just describes legalized prostitution. These chicks want to be taken care of financially in exchange for sex on demand and "curating" a home experience (basically a.project manager for the home ) and any money she makes can go to red bottoms and pointless bags and shyt. This is the woman to avoid but unfortunately men think with their dikks. And once she had the ring she knows she has all the leverage in the world and sex is no longer on demand. You're paying for her upkeep and now you're frustrated out of your mind.

Sad shyt brehs. Choose wisely.

 

[Monsanto]

 

[FeverPitch2]

What does this have to do with the topic?