African Peasant
Veteran
As a man, you SHOULD not let your woman knows everything about your finances. Keep a secret stash for the hard time.
Financial cheating is a hidden form of infidelity
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Bondye Vodou
Proud practitioner of the "High Science"
"financial infidelity", yeah its just another faux ass concept like "toxic masculinity", designed to shame men into being suckers.
The Up Right Man
All Star
What do you do? 2k a week as side money? That’s more than my regular non side biweekly pay.
YamakaSmacker
Banned
Union electrician. 45/hr plus full benefits(about a $70/hr package). A lot of ot too. Time and a half, double time, double time and a half
We make lawyer money on weekends. We usually charge 100/hr for side work. A lot of us flip houses as wellAnd we get paid to learn our trade through an apprenticeship
Edit: you nikkas better stop going to college without a full plan... Letting these "educational" institutions rape you while charging you for the lube
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No it does not the avg man has it the hardest. Because the mindset is his money is the families and her money is hers.
It’s such a jacked up mindset.
I was talking to a brehette about this the other day. We were talking about why sistahs have trouble dating down.
Even when dating down, they still have this same mindset, which dooms relationships.
As more of them continue to achieve, things will only worsen for them in their respective quests to find a mate.
I SUPPORT FINANCIAL INFIDELITY 100%
Based on past experiences with women
I am soooooo guilty of this
Within the first year of a relationship I'm usually honest with a woman about my income and my contribution
But once I realize she BAD AT MANAGING MONEY I fall back by saving more for myself and contributing less or lying about recieving extra money..
Had an ex I shared a joint account with...
The Byatch never contributed but always wanted to critique and control how I managed the funds..even at the time she didn't have a fukking job when I first opened it
Blew alot of money on mismanagement and bills with her ..smh
Fast forward a year later I found a higher paying job ...
I started off as a temp......but within six months I became permanent with a huge raise!
I had already created an EXIT PLAN out the relationship...
This time I didn't tell her SHYT about the raise ...
Hell she didn't even know I was PERMANENT for two years
for the next two years I saved up alot of bread in my separate account and raised my credit score and bounced on her Azz
Now six years later I am part of upper management at that same job .. my own home and a business and I owe it all to being a FiNANCIALLY CHEATING b*stard
Based on past experiences with women
I am soooooo guilty of this
Within the first year of a relationship I'm usually honest with a woman about my income and my contribution
But once I realize she BAD AT MANAGING MONEY I fall back by saving more for myself and contributing less or lying about recieving extra money..
Had an ex I shared a joint account with...
The Byatch never contributed but always wanted to critique and control how I managed the funds..even at the time she didn't have a fukking job when I first opened it
Blew alot of money on mismanagement and bills with her ..smh
Fast forward a year later I found a higher paying job ...
I started off as a temp......but within six months I became permanent with a huge raise!
I had already created an EXIT PLAN out the relationship...
This time I didn't tell her SHYT about the raise ...
Hell she didn't even know I was PERMANENT for two years
for the next two years I saved up alot of bread in my separate account and raised my credit score and bounced on her Azz
Now six years later I am part of upper management at that same job .. my own home and a business and I owe it all to being a FiNANCIALLY CHEATING b*stard
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Most sista don’t have an issue with dating down they have an issue with dating equal. The broke guy she has power over and the rich guy can give her a luxury lifestyle. The avg guy in her mind brings nothing
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
The way marriages are lasting these days, you better off saving a secret stash in case shyt ends.
SleezyBigSlim
Banned
I do this all the time with video games. She hates when I buy a lot of games. I just downloaded Monster Hunter and if she notices I'm playing a new game I just tell her its a free PlayStation Plus game
I SUPPORT FINANCIAL INFIDELITY 100%
Based on past experiences with women
I am soooooo guilty of this
Within the first year of a relationship I'm usually honest with a woman about my income and my contribution
But once I realize she BAD AT MANAGING MONEY I fall back by saving more for myself and contributing less or lying about recieving extra money..
Had an ex I shared a joint account with...
The Byatch never contributed but always wanted to critique and control how I managed the funds..even at the time she didn't have a fukking job when I first opened it
Blew alot of money on mismanagement and bills with her ..smh
Fast forward a year later I found a higher paying job ...
I started off as a temp......but within six months I became permanent with a huge raise!
I had already created an EXIT PLAN out the relationship...
This time I didn't tell her SHYT about the raise ...
Hell she didn't even know I was PERMANENT for two years
for the next two years I saved up alot of bread in my separate account and raised my credit score and bounced on her Azz
Now six years later I am part of upper management at that same job .. my own home and a business and I owe it all to being a FiNANCIALLY CHEATING b*stard
Hold up. You had joint account with a woman you were dating?
Why, breh?
Hold up. You had joint account with a woman you were dating?
Why, breh?
I was lame as fukk back then when it came to dating breh
She had me gassed up...
Gave me my first threesome with her sexy female best friend
cooked the best cornbread I ever tasted this side of Mason Dixon line
And moved me in
I was in love
But love is BLIND
