Finding out secrets about someone after they died

[Carlton Banks]

Discovered recently that one of my closest friends/coworkers who passed away a few years ago pretty much lied to everyone outside of her family about her age, hiding her a kid from everyone, lied about the man she was with, lied about her past, etc.

It had me wondering how often do people deal with this after a death. Everyone got secrets. Hence why I try to make sure my phone is rid of any type of wild shyt (though I have nothing to hide other than my coli account lol).

 

[Carlton Banks]

@YaThreadFloppedB!

 

[Estarossa]

Found out my dad’s cousin was actually my uncle at his funeral… found out after my grandmother passed away that she was raped by a family member when she was young resulting in said uncle who my dad and his siblings thought was their cousin.

 

[ImmaGetJoeClarkArrested]

Found out my dad’s middle name was really his first name

 

[Crude]

Found out my dad’s cousin was actually my uncle at his funeral… found out after my grandmother passed away that she was raped by a family member when she was young resulting in said uncle who my dad and his siblings thought was their cousin.

This is deep, but stuff like this was not uncommon in previous eras. Families would quickly sweep it under the rug and never speak on it.

 

[Carlton Banks]

Found out my dad’s cousin was actually my uncle at his funeral… found out after my grandmother passed away that she was raped by a family member when she was young resulting in said uncle who my dad and his siblings thought was their cousin.

Sheesh

 

[Estarossa]

Sheesh

lol I just found out how fukked up my family is recently… one of my aunts told me that my mom was apparently married to some other nikka before my dad thinking I already knew. My parents are divorced now but I don’t even know if pops knows that shyt and my mom sure as hell don’t know that I know.

Married him to escape the clutches of her mother then divorced the nikka ASAP.

 

[Ozymandeas]

Found out my dad’s cousin was actually my uncle at his funeral… found out after my grandmother passed away that she was raped by a family member when she was young resulting in said uncle who my dad and his siblings thought was their cousin.

Same. Except my grandpa married my grandma who had kids already from another marriage and he got her oldest daughter pregnant with my “aunt” and “uncle” I think she was 18 then but I’m not sure. Supposedly he got another woman pregnant a few blocks over too. It was the 50s and 60s so my grandma raised them and said nothing because she had nowhere to go. All this time I thought we called our “cousins” (what I thought they were), aunts and uncle out of respect for being older when in reality they actually were aunts and uncles (technically both smh). When my grandma passed she didn’t want to be buried next to him, asked to be buried next to her first husband

 

[EBK String]

Found of my grandfather's first name wasn't his birth name, he changed it after his sister died to honor her.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

Found out my uncle was actually just a stranger who chilled with my family sometimes

 

[ThaBronxBully]

I Work For The MTA, There Was A Train Operator That Died Of A Heart Attack On The Job, Didnt Know The Guy But Years Later I Met The Woman Who Was His GF Of Over 10 Years (She Was A Conductor)

She Told Me After He Died She Went To Go Clean Out His Apartment And Found Love Letters Between Him And ANOTHER Co Worker That She Was Cool With, She Was Shocked, She Said He Had All Kinds Of Sex Toys Hidden In The Apt, Anal Beads The Whole 9 That She Knew Nothing About

She Was A Sweet Older Black Lady, She’s Telling Me The Story And With Tears In Her Eyes She Was Like

“They Musta Been Doing Some Freaky shyt”

 

[Smokin Rider]

If I'm dying on the ground imma send one last message then break my phone, dont want them finding my coli account

 

[Carlton Banks]

When my grandma passed she didn’t want to be buried next to him, asked to be buried next to her first husband

God damn

 

[Mike Nasty]

After my aunt died, it was told to me my cousins have two different fathers.

Alot of random things and comments all of a sudden made sense.

 

[smoove157]

female cousin died and I found a couple hammers in her crib